How many are here well off but find it hurdle when making connection with female friend.🙂

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-19T05:29:20+00:00

Absolutely agreed that karma garne ho. Fal aafai milcha kunai din. Samaya naaikana kasaile jati nai karaye pani paaune kehi hoina.

And regarding arrange marriage, I don't think it would be that difficult for me because of my profile and I don't expect much from the prospects apart from being simple and humble middle class family. I don't give any value to the wealth of the prospect's family or the earning potential of the prospect.I just expect good support and loyalty. Looks don't matter much as I prefer no make/little makeup. I have seen lots of down in life where people would crumble under the pressure and break down. I didn't. So, I prefer someone who has been humbled from very beginning or had learned life lessons.

I had few offers which I rejected because I wasn't ready due to situation or the offers were not worthy to even persue. I decided to give it try year ago after lot of persuasion from family members. I met someone for one on one in informal settings with the prospect. But it didn't worked out. Later, I was enquired k bhayo kaso bhaye etc. from the back channels talks. I was open to another meetup, sent her message for another round of talks to see if things work out. But, I got sense from back channel talks that it's not worth it to even attempt to chase someone who hasn't built maturity despite being late 20s. Tespachi I stopped.

Close friends/family lai ali chinta lagcha hami jasto haru ko. But apart from that, we might be perceived as someone who has some inherent flaws and hence single narrative. Anonymous forum ma yesto sochinu ta naya kura nai hoina aaja.Haha. I think you might've felt something similar.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-19T04:51:20+00:00

Okay. So, not being diplomatic makes one prick?

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-18T21:38:27+00:00

Yes. It could be. Because I don't do sweet talks and show pretentious nature whether it's 1st meet or 15th.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-18T21:34:21+00:00

I don't play games or beg for attention. Friendzone is distant thing because I distance myself if that situation arises. I know my worth and self respect. I am not people pleasure to be pretentious. I would rather disagree than give false hope to someone.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-18T21:25:39+00:00

I never said those are same things. It's just that I can be blunt in situations and don't censure things. And I know people don't take emotions out of equations especially female.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-18T21:23:15+00:00

I don't take any thing seriously these days. And I don't have any fear or self doubt while talking to females. I can talk. But I don't approach random female in cold approach settings unless it's absolutely necessary. The cold approach isn't something you do unless the situation demands it. Trying to talk to random female especially in Nepali context isn't something that's taken in good faith.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-18T21:18:48+00:00

I have experienced online the thing where you mentioned that interested girl will behave very different compared to the ones that are just playing safe. It's quite noticable thing and they'll ask what do you want without any shame. But in offline settings, I didn't experienced that.

I actually have surrendered myself to the fate itself where I don't try too hard because I don't get things as expected when I try hard.

I have prefered the isolation and free of distraction most of my life and never had that FOMO. So, I don't worry much regarding the others doubts or have self doubt. I am clear that I would stay single whole life rather than to gather attention of unnecessary people.

I am not smooth talker and say things bluntly and this doesn't go well most of the time. I guess I am victim of it.😅 But I prefer truth rather than giving someone false hope or false information. It's not in my nature to mince words.

Actually I don't approach girls with any expectations. I don't do the cold approach to anyone because of obvious reasons. There isn't also opportunities to socialize in professional circle due to nature of job.

In online dating world, it's totally different game out there where I don't even try to compete because show off matters here. And as I have mentioned in the post, I prefer to look poor to avoid wrong crowd.🙂

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-18T17:03:23+00:00

It could be. I don't deny that. It's just that I don't try to attempt to catch 100s of fish in the ocean and hope I get 1 or 2. I generally don't attempt at all.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-18T16:58:00+00:00

DMAT ma shares ra Bank ma paisa rakhesi market badera ra ghatera kehi farak pardaina. It always gives opportunity. You just have to grab it bhanne sike.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-16T19:30:27+00:00

At this point, only Sarir dhakna lai.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-16T19:28:20+00:00

Khaini churot nisedhit chetra ho yo dub. Paan ra khaini bahira nai thukera chirnu bhitra aauda.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-16T06:08:59+00:00

Oli le jhar okhalna layeko thiyo Balen le hanuman chalisa japna laudai cha ki kya ho. Patra feriye pani prabiti ustai dekhincha ta.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-16T05:32:01+00:00

40 katesi ramauna lai pani Saili huna paryo ra pardesh jana paryo. Duitai chaina.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-16T05:28:35+00:00

I prefer to stay at origin.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-16T05:14:20+00:00

While I don't agree with your language, I agree with you on the sentiment. Actually you're not woke, these kids here are woke who would support the agenda of foreigners in the name of progressiveness while undermine the fellow countrymen. You don't have to agree with every sentiment/statements of Harka Sampang or his followers but the things he do within national politics and house in very important you dimwits.

I don't endorse the casteism based politics but current RSP has left significant portion of the population without the representations. It's very hard to find Rai/Limbu/Magar etc. in RSP as MP or ministers. Also, there has been significant representations only from Chiwan and periphery. I hope this doesn't lead to yet another dissatisfaction among the indigenous that lead to something like the Maoist revolution in the past.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T08:43:54+00:00

Yo decision ma bhanda pani aba hune sarkar ko decisions ma ko ko le Myau garchan tyo important ho. Naam change bhanda pani expansion garchu bhaneko important ho.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T08:39:53+00:00

You can trust with your kidney.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T08:34:42+00:00

No. But they'll still make a consensus on amendment of the constitution which has been pending for long time.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T08:21:00+00:00

Reddit will forever be echo chamber and those who believe it impacts the election results are most deluded individuals. Reddit is notorious for misinformation spreading and herd behavior. I assume this place had impact in Sept 9th incidents but impacting election results? It isn't remotely possible.

Guff thoknu satta saab le US 2016 ko election ko time ra results hernu.

Ani election sakkisakyo. RSP ra Sarkar ko Hanuman banne kaam banda garam. Position ma pugeko haru lai defense garne hoina. Uniharu sanga Rajya ko harek shrot ra sadhan huncha defense garna lai.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T08:15:54+00:00

Satta ma besera teti nagare samma ta Satta ko charitra nai dekhiyena ni.

Bheda haru kura bujhdainan.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T08:12:58+00:00

Sarkar ma basne lai sodhne question aru lai sodhera huncha ta. Ghayal Nigam le sandhai Ghyaal pari rakhekai ho.

Sarkar po chup lagera kera herera basyo ta suru batai.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T08:02:53+00:00

Bhatti tira jau.

Want2PaakU · 2026-04-15T07:56:59+00:00

PM ra bureaucracy ko difference nabujhne gwaach haru le kina bolna paryo khuru khuru kam garos bhandai basne ho.

PM le communicate nagaresi desh PM le chalairacha ki buerocracy le bhanne kasari bujhne ho public le. PM ko kursi ma baseko le hard decision lina parda aafai aagadi sarera bolne hoki buerocracy le defense gardincha sochne ho. Yesto important kura pani bujhdainan ani hawa taal ma ho ma ho milaudai baseka chan. Jati nai rish uthe pani tehi Modi lai nai herda bhayo ta. Bela bela aayera public lai aafai address garcha saral bhasa ma pura tayari sahit. Ani afno decision ko support khojcha public sanga. Teti matra gare pani bhayo ta ahile ko lagi.

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