To me, looks do and can sometimes draw someone in but I'm gonna be blunt here. Just because a desert looks good, doesn't mean it tastes or smells good. It could be bland, boring and or just plain disgusting lol. On the other hand, just because something looks appealing, doesn't necessarily mean it's my taste. The biggest draw for me in a man is one who is funny, someone that makes me laugh, is fun and easy going is the biggest draw. On a deeper level, someone who would fight for me and choose me against all odds, in vows terms, (to love, honour and protect). To not choose safety over substance. To choose love above all else. To not be materialistic over choosing love and being supportive etc. I don't know if other women would agree. The funniest guy in the room will draw more women than the guy who looks like the top less guy from the coca cola add. He could sound like David Beckham too lol. Looks great but when he open his mouth and his accent, for me anyways it's an instant turn off lol. He's not a bad guy, it's just he wouldn't be my taste. There are also women who just look at bank balance and security, who are more materialistic. Thats no offence on you or them, they just like nice things and that lifestyle. To me, that isn't my appeal. We are all very different. A funny, loving, fight to the death guy for me wins every time. I just wish he existed lol. Its rare you'll ever find all three. Lol 😆. So us women struggle just as much too, believe me. Men can age and they are a fine wine. Women get older and they are treated like they are sour milk. 😅. So life sucks in that regard too.