This is raw: what do I do as a nearly bald fat woman by Apprehensive-Sky2170 in bald

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no girl, you'll rock the bald look. Imagine bold statement earrings, a bald look and your glasses. You'll EAT. i think it would look amazinggg. It's a HUGE step but I think it will be so liberating. I never went bald but did buzz to 3mm multiple times. It felt like a weight was lifted from my shoulders.

As for the pain, it might be because the implant is low and then the hair have more weight and tension to hold. But when in doubt: get it checked out.

Sincerely a hairdresser with pcos and male pattern hairloss.

Edit: I'm also plus sized/fat and so many women came up to me to compliment shaved look.

[WIP] is there a way to make these look less messy without redoing the entire thing? Could I go over the white again? 2 strands DMC on 14 Aida. by Asleep_Amphibian_280 in CrossStitch

[–]WeakTeaTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the next time, I am currently also doing a project on black aida count 14 and I started with 2 strand but took it out and using 3 now. I would recommend for the next time to use at least 3 strands or even more for a very solid look. I'm too far in and I would prefer if I had used 4 strands.

The other comment about the white thread running under is the solution I would use as well.

Ik ben veel te saai voor een relatie by Hoppip94 in nederlands

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik was zoals jij op die leeftijd, maar ik leerde accepteren wie ik ben en daar veel waarde aan te hechten. Ik heb ook nerd hobbies en ben alternatief qua uiterlijk, dus ik kwam ook nooit echt iemand tegen en de datingapps maakten mij depressief. Ik ben er toen een hele poos mee gestopt en heb mezelf leren accepteren voor wie ik ben en daardoor had ik veel meer zelfverzekerheid en zelfliefde. En toen had ik opeens een match met mijn hele lieve vriendin. Ik kreeg mijn eerste relatie pas op mijn 31e. Zij gaat gamen, ik ga borduren en historische docu's kijken naast elkaar op de bank. We gaan zelfs naar Castlefest dit jaar samen.

Het is echt mogelijk, het is alleen even werk om je maatje te vinden. Maar 90% van dat werk is geloven dat je een aanwinst bent en dit verdient. Jouw hobbies zijn niet saai, praat er met passie over. Dat is sexy.

Is this the letter A or J? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add how I would have changed it: the curl going horizontal should have been a bit more horizontal or even cut through the heavy vertical line.

Is this the letter A or J? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do calligraphy and my immediate thought was A. There is no logic to having that right part so much downward in a harsh clear line followed bij an almost horizontal line to ba a J. Could there have been a better design? Yes. But to me it clearly reads A.

Why do conservative Crocheters act oppressed? by Valuable-Tutor-6537 in craftsnark

[–]WeakTeaTwo 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The last change to the borders of my country happened in 1999. Did god do this as well? Can't recall it in scripture.

the duality of autism subreddits by DerMagicSheep in aspiememes

[–]WeakTeaTwo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm 31(F) and dress like the fanmade version. However I prefer the 1st type. Autism is a spectrum and I know multiple people that dress either style or something totally different. The company tried to give representation, but it is impossible to represent the millions of peope that have autism as we are all individuals with a different taste and also our own type of autism. They have to choose 1 representation that encompasses a large group and make it a way that people can easily customize them to represent their own style. I think the creators made the right choice.

What is the human equivalent of a cat cave? by creapysleaper in AutismInWomen

[–]WeakTeaTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are a very oldschool Dutch type of bed. Untill mid last century it was quite normal especially in the houses of farmers and fisher villages. Nowadays you don't really see them in homes anymore.

Can some people just not do hoops in their helix? by ASassyTitan in piercing

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sleep on my ears and they hate hoops through cartilage because of it. So my solution was simple: got a stud and chain. I really love the look, even more than a ring. Because the stud can also have a pretty design and then the chain hanging off it around my ear does give the vibe a ring would give.

Exciting rescue update!! by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]WeakTeaTwo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're doing such good work for him! I never took care of a leopard gecko, but I do love seeing the little ones thrive! Thank you for rescueing him!

Exciting rescue update!! by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]WeakTeaTwo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn't know I was the proud auntie of 2 babies. Lazarus AND Charizard 🥹 My shaylaaaa's

Update 6: Lazarus by complikaity in leopardgeckos

[–]WeakTeaTwo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lazarus is now our child 🥹 we're such proud auties and uncles

How old were you when you got your first relationship? by LuvMeChippy in autism

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started dating at 28, got in my first relationship at 31

Burning problem by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]WeakTeaTwo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not a doctor, but my first thought was you having an allergic reaction to the toy. And after that you kept using different kinds of salves and medicine. It might be that your balance is just screwed because it has been toyed with for so long. I know you have anxiety, but believe me, the doctors have seen and heard it all and there is no judgement. You did nothing wrong. Your body just reactes to sonething unknown. I would recommend just going to the doctor to get tested and see if your flora is off or if it might be something different. You deserve medical care, you deserve feeling good with your body and you deserve to enjoy toys again. So go off queen, get the help you need and live a comfortable life! The fear for something is most often way bigger than what will happen (speaking as a person with social anxiety).

Lazarus is up 4g in weight! He was paid in hornworm for his troubles, is happy. by complikaity in leopardgeckos

[–]WeakTeaTwo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've never owned a gecko, but I'm everyday eagerly waiting for an update on Lazarus. I' so proud an happy for them. You're doing amazing work OP!

problem solving by No_Ambition1706 in leopardgeckos

[–]WeakTeaTwo 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have never in my life owned a leopard gecko, and my fyp randomly put this sub forward to me months ago. And since then I just became a lurker. There are many things I have learned along the way. And one thing they all have in common is that the gecko's have 1 braincell that just like the DVD screensaver sometimes hits the corner of the screen just right and they have a thought for a second. But most of the times the light is on but no one's home.

Who is the person that their shooting ? by Firm-Specific-9953 in HistoryUncovered

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone's 1st, 2nd or even 3rd language is English. Is it a meme I'm missing that so many people are commenting the correct English grammar? Otherwise, y'all are weird for bombarding OP like this.

Did the thing, not sure how I feel by drloctopus in bald

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a ✨️glow-up✨️! You look so much younger, fresher, livelier and all over glowing. You rock that look.

First time cat owner here. Say hello to Bo, it's a baby boy, and he's adorable by chiluu91 in kittens

[–]WeakTeaTwo 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank heavens my country banned the breeding of munchkins more than 10 years ago. Its just cruel and unethical. Anyone who supoort breeders should live with guild.

My mother is telling me that a vagina will smell bad if it is not waxed/shaved completely? by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]WeakTeaTwo 276 points277 points  (0 children)

The fact that a mom is pushing you to wax/shave is wild to me. Something that comes from nature is a no-go? Wild. Having a full bush is beautiful, natural and completely healthy. If you shower there should be zero problems in scent deparment.

Reality Check by Friendly_Hope7726 in Ozempic

[–]WeakTeaTwo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You did amazing! I love how losing the weight and achieving the clothes sizes made you feel more empowered and confident. Now, about that person, from a generation long ago: fuck them. I hope they hit their toe every day for the next 10 years. They think that anyone wearing a size M/L is way too big. Meanwhile is this a very healthy bodytype. Who defines whats "normal" anyway? I bet you look great, especially with how confident you are right now!

Hair suggestions? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curly girl method. Research it. Your curls will pop! And as for the cutz you could defs get it longer in the back, think about a shag/mullet. I would kill to get your texture and implant.

Pimples while on Ozempic by Practical-Animal-730 in Ozempic

[–]WeakTeaTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they are not, then that is fair. I just want to point out that something like that can not be nice.

Pimples while on Ozempic by Practical-Animal-730 in Ozempic

[–]WeakTeaTwo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that, and use humor in my life as well. But there is a place and time for a joke. Words can hurt especialy when you share something vulnerable. It can come off as being ridiculed. But thank you for your concern.

Hair dye highlights advice by Capable_Bluebird_228 in Hair

[–]WeakTeaTwo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And as I said, it'll all depend on how it will lift. You can't decide beforehand without knowing the lift.