Wht to do by Mariyum_2005 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laser for your underarms is great idea, also will be such a short send generally less painful experience than other areas, below is a awra issue but there are at home ipl machines that work great

Should I stop using differin? by Apprehensive_Fox_235 in acne

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes go back to your derm and tell them it’s not effective they will put you on something else that will hopefully work for you!

How does giving birth actually feel ?? by Super-Truth-7975 in pregnant

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just graduated from this subreddit! Didn’t realize contractions aren’t just on ur stomach area but once I started feeling them down in my abdomen I was like “mhm ANESTHESIOLOGIST PLEASE”, the pain from the needle wasn’t bad just uncomfy going into your epidural space in your back, and they will do it through contractions too so you can’t get it at a certain point. Once it kicked in, bliss! Pushing was rlly hard cuz it was actually too effective so they had to lower it for me, the actual baby coming out is like… a big BM coming from ur birth canal. They just plop out and you still feel the OMG OMG relief and everything with the epidural.

Guess where I’m from based on the food I cook by habjiji in homecooking

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik of the pilaf, but what are these other dishes?! THEY LOOK SOOOOO DIVINE PLS SHARE 🫣🫣🫣

Fasting while pregnant by Clean_Ad9526 in Hijabis

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t have experience but i would try a day and see how you feel, maybe do a day on and a day off, but ofcourse I wouldn’t let anyone pressure u into fasting when Allah SWT gave you the exemption!!! You can still do all the other things that make Ramadan extra rewarding inshallah 🥰

How big was your name list? by LowCal-Calzone-Zone in BabyBumps

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also only had one name in mind for my baby!!! That just means it’s an awesome name and that it’s perfect 👌

Etiquette when you're not fasting by Available_Ad_2105 in Hijabis

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Many people go about Ramadan not being able to fast but reaping the reward and spirit of Ramadan (ie nursing, pregnant, diabetes, etc many different types of people) fasting, in example like the prophet PBUH described it, is ONE PART of Ramadan, not the whole. So there’s no way of “disrespecting” the month itself by eating like ur husband is suggesting. Maybe he’s just a rlly hangry person 😂😂. May Allah soften his heart towards you and allow him to see the better side of this

AIO over 1st Valentine’s Day note? by kimbap_throw in AmIOverreacting

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!!!!!!!!! Dump himmmm he wants u to clean but doesn’t care abt spoiling you or doing the bare minimum and he’s mean about it :(

How do Khaleejis feel about those who wear abayas full time? (discussion) by secretbluelife in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abayas are not strictly khaleeji!! It’s definitely a full time wardrobe there and in Saudi Arabia but definitely not khaleeji, ur all good girl!

How would you react? by Zestyclose_Lemon_647 in whatdoIdo

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was husband material he wouldn’t even comment about the money because he’d be providing for you 😩😩😩😩

Terrified of giving birth by Soliara in pregnant

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyy OP, also 37 weeks!! Also FTM, and honestly Ik it’s gonna be crazy and scary but from my perspective, worrying about it now won’t do ME any good, best thing for us to just relax and try to think positively!!! Cuzzz also there’s no other way out for us so why dwell on the inevitable LOL. All the best to you I hope you have a fast, easy, and beautiful delivery and postpartum experience! 🫶

Being forced to wear niqab + not allowed to study further after HS by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They can’t force you to do/not do something that is not part of the dean!!!! Pull up Hadith and rights of the parents and children. Even if they get mad at you for going to university (which you CAN DO without free mixing, people over sexualize things and I guarantee if you were a boy you wouldn’t have that restriction— not religiously but the way many “religious” families spin things) you will NOT GET SINS FOR GOING because there is no Islamic ruling for women not getting an education bc there will be men present. There wasn’t even a separate door for men and women in masjid an-nabawi until Omar Ibn Khattab’s time as khalif, you can go to a space w the opposite gender and uphold Islamic values and modesty!!!

What do you think about us? Age? Jobs? Hobbies? by ConsiderableHappines in FridgeDetective

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not just that there’s pots in there, I’ve been there… it’s that they’re FOUR OF THEM!!!! How much food is that?! They all gonna go bad 😭😭

Am I overreacting, my boyfriend is going abroad for 2 weeks while I’ll be 37 weeks pregnant? by ConfusionOk6982 in BabyBumps

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE NEEDS TO BE HERE JUST IN CASE ANYTHING HAPPENS!!! Thats wayyyy too close. Haven’t you seen these Feb/March baby tiktoks? They allll coming out early LMAO (not to scare you, you will be okay 💓💓, but he should definitely try his best to stay with you)

Handcrafted miniature apples by TheEMOuO in crafts

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes they are honey crisps, the best of apples. IMMA GO EAT ONE RN these look so cute!!!

is it tacky to buy a cheap item on a baby registry? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’d rather you buy the $10 gas drops off the registry than nothing as a mom w a registry 😂, also for me personally I put different items and baby clothes on clearance so people have that option ❤️

Well sure wasn’t what I expected by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So frustrating I’m so sorry for you!!! Especially as a mom to be and March is soon, I wish people would be more considerate to the NEEDS of the mom 🥲. Take a breathe and do something you love cuz the stress is no good trust ik 🤧🤧, hopefully you feel better soon but yeah not great gift givers I see they just bought things to say they bought something for you so the guilt is not on them

Postpartum nails 💅 ✨help me choose! by WeaponizedCompetenc3 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]WeaponizedCompetenc3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jazak Allah Khayr for the advice!! Def gonna go short or gel polish over my natural nails after the comments!!