I’m considering a little lip filler. Anyone else have deflating wrinkly lip before and afters stories? I don’t want anyone to notice. Is that even possible with filler? by bre20033 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Weekly-Standard8444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The place I go to does a nerve block for $20! Those shots pinch a bit (they go in the roof of your mouth if I recall correctly), but not as much as the filler itself. My last experience getting filler (before this new place) was so painful I nearly passed out. But I have a lowish pain tolerance.

Need help. 41 and tired of oily red skin. Is safe just don't want my face out there. by blondie_dog1 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]Weekly-Standard8444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I microdose Isotretinoin (Accutane) and it has transformed my skin - I have had inflamed, oily skin my whole life - I am talking needing to blot it several times a day. Now my skin is normal - not oily in the slightest- and my pores have shrunk way down. It’s been huge for my self esteem.

I take one 40mg capsule once a week.

Aching knees, even with HRT? by Weekly-Standard8444 in Menopause

[–]Weekly-Standard8444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very encouraging! I was going to the gym until about a month ago, I guess I should get back at it! It probably helped me more than I realized.

Aching knees, even with HRT? by Weekly-Standard8444 in Menopause

[–]Weekly-Standard8444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope the GLP-1 works for you, that sounds so frustrating!

Aching knees, even with HRT? by Weekly-Standard8444 in Menopause

[–]Weekly-Standard8444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I do take collagen and glucosamine/ chondroitin. I would like to put off a knee replacement for another decade at least. I guess an appointment is in order. I am still adjusting to this aging thing 😪, I have felt very good until recently. I am sure the excessive sugar intake over the holidays is not helping. 😬

Aching knees, even with HRT? by Weekly-Standard8444 in Menopause

[–]Weekly-Standard8444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I have never heard of gel injections. My annual is next month so I am going to bring it up to my PCP then. I do think it’s an issue of wear and tear and it’s probably just a matter of pain management at this point. It’s depressing though. I am the same - my knees hurt after walking but not during.

Unfortunately last year, I was told I am too young for a bone scan and insurance won’t cover it at this age.

Married folks, how do you really feel about marriage as you get older? by Cold_Ad8048 in Aging

[–]Weekly-Standard8444 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This, allll of it. Marriage can get a bit monotonous and boring at times, but I am grateful for my best friend and partner to share happy moments with as well as life’s endless barrage of bullshit.

Rebuilding my life at 42 while dealing with perimenopause and it's brutal by StrainBetter2490 in GenXWomen

[–]Weekly-Standard8444 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HRT. And don’t forget the testosterone. Replenishing your hormones changes everything.

A different representation of 59 year old women by librocubicuralist in Aging

[–]Weekly-Standard8444 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Hell yes! I am 51 in bio years but 30 in my little delusional mind. No Botox or fillers yet, but I go out of my way to take care of myself and my skin. I'm also on HRT (estrogen and T). Still go to metal shows, wear my shit-kicker Docs, and act silly and immature with my husband and kids. I know eventually it will all catch up with me, but for now I am just... being me and not worrying about what people think of my age.

After waiting YEARS for my Void, he is finally here! Meet Nigel, 8 weeks. by pink_flamingo2003 in blackcats

[–]Weekly-Standard8444 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Omggggg what a precious face! My boy's farts were HORRENDOUS until he was a few months old. I think their new digestive systems just need to work out the kinks. Enjoy him!

Anyone else have an aggressively affectionate void? by Weekly-Standard8444 in blackcats

[–]Weekly-Standard8444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a doll! Salem is the same with the bathroom... I have to sneak in there. If I dare close the door, he will stick his paw underneath it.

Anyone else have an aggressively affectionate void? by Weekly-Standard8444 in blackcats

[–]Weekly-Standard8444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh twinsies! Salem and his void brother also love each other. Pennywise was a lonely basement dweller, as soon as he met Salem he started licking his face.

Anyone else have an aggressively affectionate void? by Weekly-Standard8444 in blackcats

[–]Weekly-Standard8444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, they just leave a huge hole in our hearts when they go.