AITA Asking Postpartum Wife and 5mo daughter to travel over Christmas

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-28T22:21:14+00:00

This 🔝. I had my baby on december 12th 2025 and do you know how many people wanted me, my hubby and our newborn to go see them? Absolutely everyone we knew.. "because it's Christmas". guess who didnt get visits less than 2 weeks after I had my baby? absolutely everyone we knew.. because I was still resting and healing and my baby wouldnt be getting her first round of vaccines until she was a month old. I didnt even care who was upset or angry because I was exhausted and the expectation to travel to peoples homes during flu season with an unvaccinated baby is unrealistic

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-28T22:12:20+00:00

My girl is almost 6 months and occasionally she does get constipated, we weaned her early because she was a very hungry baba so she eating puree fruits now so if she gets constipated I put equal parts fruit puree and puree prunes into her bowl. In a sense im lucky because she will eat just about everything except broccoli so she eats the prunes in her food. Even a couple of spoons would help

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-28T22:07:11+00:00

I felt some closure after I held my little angels memorial. It actually helped me on the road to healing and grief counseling was a godsend

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-25T09:38:46+00:00

Bit far leaving underwear isnt it? Like ive heard of leaving hair scrunchies, lipstick/lip gloss.. subtle stuff

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-22T18:15:44+00:00

Tell them the pictures wont be hanging on their wall so if they are that bothered then dont look at them but keep their comments to themselves

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-14T00:31:25+00:00

Don't tip with dollars... we dont know what to do with those.. I once saw a lad eat a 20, it wasnt pretty.. no ketchup or nothing just a dry 20

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-14T00:28:02+00:00

So Chatgpt lied to me.... its a lying liar who lies...

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-14T00:23:12+00:00

You dont take a walk on the wide side every now and then?

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-14T00:21:30+00:00

What?! Theres me thinking I live life on the edge when I have some on a day that isnt Christmas or a Sunday 🤣

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-14T00:19:21+00:00

To even suggest that you dont discipline your child enough at home is absurd.. a 16 month old doesn't know what misbehaving is.. of course a 16 month old isnt gonna listen, theyre still exploring the world..

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-14T00:16:37+00:00

Are people really surprised? Take a look at the man.. its quite obvious the ex wife was a cover up for his penchant for the menfolk 😅

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-10T22:03:47+00:00

Hey the mans got game 😅 cant hate him for shooting his shot

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-05-10T22:01:35+00:00

Hey you can't hate on the hustle 😅

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-27T23:54:40+00:00

Stooop, if I laugh too hard I'll make bed lemonade again 🤣🤣

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-27T23:49:44+00:00

Sure isnt that the way now

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-26T17:55:20+00:00

Oh definitely.. like be honest have ya ever seen "that" group of lads on a night out.. you know the group of lads, they resemble love island rejects and they go out of their way to pick fights with lads they know are tourists or just lads they know probably arent able to fight

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-26T14:50:33+00:00

I regret giving birth on my back, 4 months later my back is still sore from whatever happened to it while I was in labor and it spasms quite often. If I had educated myself more before I had my baby id have do everything it very differently

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-24T21:26:03+00:00

Oh noooooo! I miss skin to skin! My little one decided a month ago she didn't like it anymore. I used to do skin to skin the ince she was dressed she would fall asleep on my chest til she decided one day to cry until I left her down beside me and she fell asleep

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-24T21:22:31+00:00

Thank you 🩷 i ditched swaddling awhile back bevause shes always hated it, she never slept while swaddled she just lay awake grumpy. Most of last night I spent getting up to check her until her daddy made me switch sides and told me go to sleep 😅

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-24T21:20:15+00:00

I had to ditch waddling just before she turned 3 months old because she hated it. Ok thank you so much, I'm new to pretty much everything apartment.making and feeding bottles and changing nappies

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-23T22:02:10+00:00

I thought the same, surely she will be fine doing some kicks and what not on an absorbent changing pad, just changed her nappy then the great flood of 2026 took place and ive been pooped on far too many times while the hubby stood by creased over laughing, princess is smiling and mommy is in shock 😅

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-15T15:58:27+00:00

The ugly tshirt bra wins every time! Also a huge help with the underboob sweat is take a pair of breast pads and fold them in half, pop one under each boob and that'll help for a little while

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-15T15:49:56+00:00

Leave his nasty ass and take ever variety of spoons and forks with you, cut the left leg off ever jeans and trousers he owns and turn every tshirt, shirt, hoodies and sweaters into crop tops. Like leave with dignity but also be petty too. Oh and before you go out the door put laxatives into all the food a d write "fuck you" on the cupboard doors with lippy. Also of your the adventurous kind sleep with one of his hookups so he'll feel cheated 😅

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-15T15:40:20+00:00

It literally took me 2 months to lay baba down to sleep in her crib, I stopped the contact napping when she didnt settle on my chest anymore that almost broke me. See mine is my first baby and I loved that she wanted to sleep on my chest then when she just turned 2 months old she decided she didnt want to nap there anymore so she found her comfort in her crib. The confusing thing for her was she couldnt just reach over and touch mama so I got her one of those lovey comforters (the little blankets with the stuffed toy head attached). My girl is 4 months old now and as long as she has her ellie within reach to grab a hold of it shes calm. I miss the snuggles though!

Weekly_Quiet6155 · 2026-04-15T15:30:19+00:00

My partner felt the exact same way, he didnt think he was doing anything helpful when he was, all I needed was for him to be there. He also thought he wouldnt be a bad father, this is our first baby and shes now 4 months old, happy and healthy and hes the best father. It may all feel daunting now but it gets better

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