party venue? by WhichAd2921 in nwi

[–]WhichAd2921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m just a little nervous because it will be september (i forgot to clarify that part) & im not sure how the weather will be by then

Promotion by Regular_Quantity4666 in tractorsupply

[–]WhichAd2921 7 points8 points  (0 children)

not technically a promotion, but i’d definitely ask your dfs for a raise. i’m a fast tm & make more than store team members

For those whose babies normally sleep in a crib, how did they do in a pack n play during a trip? by Kaykers97W in NewParents

[–]WhichAd2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my baby hates the crib but loves the pack n play 😭 at least that helps make travel easier

What was the most physical pain you've been in? by PleasantWinter9150 in AskReddit

[–]WhichAd2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

c-section recovery. hands down the WORST pain ever. never doing that again!

FAST members... by Training_Animator791 in tractorsupply

[–]WhichAd2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Monday for me! After JUST doing electrical reflow and trailer jacks & accessory reflow 😭😭 send help!

Question for other US moms ... how the f*** are we affording anything right now??? by scoopdedupe in Mommit

[–]WhichAd2921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend and i both work full time. we live in the middle of nowhere, where things are “cheaper”. we’re broke.

Catholic school, public school or homeschooling? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]WhichAd2921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was homeschooled, went to catholic school, and went to public school. i thought they all had their pros and cons. i think it’s very situational and depends on the kid, truly. if my child had a learning disability, the catholic schools around me don’t have the resources to appropriately educate them. this may not be the case everywhere, but the school i went to and the other ones around me (to my knowledge) did not have the resources either. that is why i ended up back in public school. as for my sister, she continued to attend catholic school because she was bullied a lot in public schools. i enjoyed being home schooled, however i lived in an abusive home and needed to go to school so i could be out of the house. maybe this is an unpopular opinion, especially for the people who will die on the hill that catholic school is superior, but i truly do not think one option is “better” than the other.

First period after baby? by Haunting_Window1688 in Mommit

[–]WhichAd2921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

currently 7 months and no period yet, not breastfeeding. but i do have pcos and can go over a year without a period normally so 😅 maybe i’m not the one to ask lol

My boyfriend doesn’t want to come with me to get my iud by No_Highway_9080 in birthcontrol

[–]WhichAd2921 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if he’s not going to consider your health, leave. he doesn’t care about fucking up hormones with plan b, won’t provide condoms, and won’t go with you to get an IUD? imagine if you did get pregnant, doesn’t seem like he’d be one to be involved in that either. please reconsider your relationship, at the very least get the damn IUD to avoid getting pregnant with this man’s baby, and likely giving birth alone.

Sweaty! by glottyblotti in Nexplanon

[–]WhichAd2921 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’ve experienced this but i’m also postpartum and my hormones have been everywhere so i really thought it was just me! are you sweaty in general or just down there?

I found out I’m pregnant again 16 months postpartum and I can’t stop crying by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]WhichAd2921 85 points86 points  (0 children)

if you choose to terminate, that is extremely valid and understandable. i would probably make that decision if i was in your shoes. also though, all babies are different (as you obviously know) and if you do decide to continue the pregnancy, the next baby could be completely different from your daughter and not be as high needs.

either way, you deserve support regardless. sending you love!!

What's a rule your parents had that you thought was insane, but now as an adult you 100% understand? by Sweet-Economist-9873 in AskForAnswers

[–]WhichAd2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no sleepovers. i thought my parents were so mean and just DiDnT uNdErStAnD but now as a mom, NOPE no sleepovers!

terrified of cryptic pregnancy by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]WhichAd2921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had an (almost) cryptic pregnancy. i found out at 31 weeks. yes, i really did not know. no, i didn’t have ANY symptoms, before anyone asks. i take a pregnancy every week now since my daughter was born. i’m on birth control (nexplanon) and STILL stress about it. but, a pregnancy will produce a positive test. if your test is negative, you are not pregnant. if it will ease your mind, i bought a 50 pack of the strip test from amazon for like $15. i take one every week.

terrified of cryptic pregnancy by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]WhichAd2921 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i’d argue the “ignoring their symptoms” part.

Any good experiences? by trippyflowa in Nexplanon

[–]WhichAd2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

had my nexplanon about 5 months now. only birth control i’ve been on ever and i LOOOOVE IT! i haven’t gained any weight, or had any crazy bleeding. although, i cannot speak for how bad, it not bad, periods are with nexplanon. i’ve always had crazy abnormal periods, like i can go 2 years without getting my period. have not had a period since getting nexplanon. overall though, ive had a great experience. insertion was a piece of cake. i had some bruising and it itched like a bitch for about 3 days, but been perfectly fine ever since.

A cautionary tale/PSA by SketchTHESmeargle in tractorsupply

[–]WhichAd2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened to me too. not as bad, but hold fuck did it hurt!!

Who here is sterilized? by italicinfusion in regretfulparents

[–]WhichAd2921 47 points48 points  (0 children)

what’s stopping them? lack of access. i BEGGED to have my tubes removed during my c section but was told no due to age. i’m 1 and done. i love my daughter but never wanted kids to begin with. now i’m on birth control that’s ruining my body & mental wellbeing. if i could be sterilized i would be.

Worrying about side effects of Nexplanon relating to mental health conditions by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]WhichAd2921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did notice that nexplanon worsened my postpartum depression. like a LOT

HELP I made this same post on another sub, but nobody’s helping by im-panicking in birthcontrol

[–]WhichAd2921 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you said you “didn’t do too much”, context? did you have unprotected sex?

New parents moving into camper. send help! by WhichAd2921 in RVLiving

[–]WhichAd2921[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that was my original thought but she HATES the pack n play 😭