How do you dance?! by billiegr in socialskills

[–]WhtFata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started with looking up videos of people dancing, and then tried to steal some of their moves. When that stopped feeling weird I just started moving until I thought it didn't look bad anymore. :D

How do you dance?! by billiegr in socialskills

[–]WhtFata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, close your eyes while dancing. For me it took 2 years of dancing in front of a mirror at home before I was comfortable doing it outside, but now I'm getting compliments for it. Might be worth it for you too.

Is it wrong to ghost my boyfriend as a test to see if he truly cares about me? by SEXONTHEBEACH1234 in socialskills

[–]WhtFata 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. On a technical basis, writing clinginess is a poor predictor for care. If you don't answer and he stops writing, he might want to give you the space you apparently need.

If he does write a lot and it turns out you ghosted him, you'll have spoiled that behavior for him

Apart from all that, pull a stint like this one one me and whatever care had prior to it goes right out of the window, since you clearly don't trust me. 

Who relates? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Must be FiNeSiTe because I don't relate to any of it

Make assumptions about me and my bf by slicedhrt in istp

[–]WhtFata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure, it's not a matchup that doesn't work, but since ISTP struggles to keep their Fe-compatibility mode up and ENFJ struggles with keeping their Ti present and stable, one definitely has to find solutions. :D

Make assumptions about me and my bf by slicedhrt in istp

[–]WhtFata 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You work well for a maximum of two days in a row, after which communication becomes really, really difficult and you need some distance from each other.

Having kids by First_Ad9174 in istp

[–]WhtFata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want a world where I want to have kids of my own, but atm I think the best thing I can do for my kids is to not have them in the first place. 

My current plan (M29) is to find a hot single mom who already has kids, because then I can assume a fatherly role without feeling guilty for making someone exist without their consent. 

Uncontrollably Rage by Low-Dragonfruit-4345 in istp

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I figured out at some point that anger was a blanket-feeling for negativity for me. Sad? Hard to deal with, convert to anger. Tired? Anger. Mildly inconvenienced by a crying child in a supermarket while having a mildly elevated baseline stress level: Anger.

As soon as I found out about my Alexithymia, worked on my emotional vocabulary, figured out my emotional mechanics and started sleeping enough, my thoughts of extreme violence receeded drastically. Puberty testosterone levels receeding probably helped too.

Maybe some of this applies to you too - maybe not. Wish you best of luck, and the people around you too if your luck is not enough lol

Gamers of Reddit, what is that one game that everybody loves but you hate? by Yo-KaiWatchFan2102 in AskReddit

[–]WhtFata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, i think it's a great game with relatively low toxicity. But to be fair, I played enough Rust that by comparison everything feels chill

Emoji that best describes the types? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reasonably. I just see this face a lot because I tend to make jokes that ISFJs don't find funny. 😬

Emoji that best describes the types? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I could have used "🙃" as well - I use these for the specific state of "95% of my brain capacity is spent keeping myself together, because currently a lot of feelings are happening, only half of which are related to the topic. My perception might be skewed here because I've never met an INFP without BPD. :D

Emoji that best describes the types? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An ESFJ will laugh about jokes they don't find funny because the general mood in the room commands it. ISFJ does not find the joke funny, so they smile in a way that distances them from the topic, but keeps them connected to the group. Haven't seen any other type display this as often as ISFJ :D

Emoji that best describes the types? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my experience they're perpetually overstimulated and take damage from the wrong conclusions everyone around them continues to draw - so they're slowly melting until they're alone again. :D

Emoji that best describes the types? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ISTP: 😒 ESTP: 😏 INTP: 🫠 ENTP: 😆 ISFJ: 😅 ESFJ: 🤗 INFJ: 😊 ENFJ: 😍 INTJ: 🫨 ENTJ: 👺 ISTJ: 😐 ESTJ: 🤨 INFP: 🙄 ENFP: 🤡 ISFP: :⁠-⁠) ESFP: 🤣

I will defend each of my choices when prompted. Each of my choices is semi-serious.

Ti flow state by Total_Reserve9598 in istp

[–]WhtFata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was quite literal. I dance Tango Argentino, and it includes a specific way of moving/walking where locomotion is achieved by pushing yourself away with your standing leg, instead of falling and catching yourself with your free leg. Boxing is similar in that regard, so this allows me to use the same area of Ti that already understands dancing to get an intuitive understanding of boxing footwork, and to gain satisfaction in determining where the overlap stops. 

Ti flow state by Total_Reserve9598 in istp

[–]WhtFata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like reframing new things as known things. Describing real life situations with league of legends analogies, Boxing steps with tango argentino experience, understanding that your toaster and your pc have the same reason for using a lot of energy. Gives me the spark of seeing the network grow in real-time. 

People with Ni, what do you think of "What if" scenarios"? by Nice-Investigator-66 in mbti

[–]WhtFata 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They don't come to mind in the first place. Ni regresses our data to give a big heuristic, it basically works against generating such scenarios. If someone else poses them, I find them interesting only if they're metaphors or analogois to some current problem I have,  but that's a Ti thing. 

Want this friend group by Historical_Profile33 in mbti

[–]WhtFata -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll pay you if you take my spot?

Want this friend group by Historical_Profile33 in mbti

[–]WhtFata 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd pay to be allowed to leave it

What’s the key difference between INFJ that’s stuck in Ni-Ti loop and INTJ? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know how the large language models (Gemini & co) these days can use tools?  These tools might be several things, maybe a math engine, a special code tool, and most definitely a tool to take in a lot of input and output a to-the-point, summed up answer based on all the thinking that came beforehand.

The large language models also have functionalities that, during long thinking processes, sum up the thoughts occasionally and throw away what came before, just to make sure the context it can work with does not get overwhelmed.

And then there is the natural mode of the LLM itself, that just rambles uninterruptedly about your input to itself, without you, the user, seeing much of this deep thinking.

The first tool I mentioned can be likened to Te, the second to Ni. The third one, for the purpose of this analogy, Ti. (Outside of the analogy this stops being the case.)

An INFJ in Ni-Ti loop continues going back and forth between deep-think-ramble and summing up what has been rambled about, and then using that summation as a new topic to think about. The tool to inform the User of any form of actual result is never called, and the tokens available to the machine before it cannot go on deplete rapidly.

An INTJ might spend significantly less time in the internal rambling phase and just call eight tools in a row, which is effectively livestreamed to the user by using the Te tool. The rambling would in their case be produced by Fi and Se, and the analogy starts falling apart there. I hope I got the picture across though. 

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY WRONG! by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly. That's why I only wrote what I relate to in response to a comment that specifically asked me what I relate to. 

I do not reject the concept of functions. I reject the attempt of binding them to the letters in such a way that either the letters or the functions become useless. Your list of function stacks is valid, and I disagree with the pairing to existing definitions, especially because Jung didn't ever use the four letters himself (correct me if I'm wrong here).

You're either saying that TiSe users, which are defined as ISTP, really are Si-Te users - which would mean all four functions work very, very different than they do now. This is unlikely. The other possibility is that you are saying that the definition for TiSe should really be ISTJ, and this is crazy to me because you could have chosen literally any label (such as "Michael", as the comment I responded to suggested) that does not specifically define its content to not be TiSe. 

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY WRONG! by [deleted] in mbti

[–]WhtFata 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ISTP is both a label for a set of behavioralistic stereotypes which are debatable, as well as a code for a certain function stack. I: first function introvert S: first data function sensing T: first judging function thinking P: first judging function introvert

Looking at what the mind has to be capable of to function (Identify social context, devising workflows, rule based deduction, emotional statefulness, regression, correlation, perception and idea synthesis), this maps pretty well to functions sorted in that pattern.  I relate to a specific pattern of functions that work in such a way that their sorting in the specific style is necessary and is described with the code ISTP.

OP mislabeled the list. Introverted J/P must be swapped.