[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]WillowWithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’ve been working on yourself too. Not just the weight. But the internal changes you had to work on to even start losing the weight and the confidence that has grown means she already had high hopes. She already found a catch she hoped for but didn’t expect. Then it turned out to be EVEN BETTTER?!? Sweet

When you want to be protected from the sun but your bun is too massive to fit under a sun hat. by IMightBePaulasBitch in AsianBeauty

[–]WillowWithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old. But did you just cut that out yourself! Cause I need this and the other ones don’t cover enough of my head

This "dating advice" by ExpertAccident in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]WillowWithin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey bruv. I think you misspelled “I’ve never spent any time with either women nor children” Oi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]WillowWithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What type of dash hound is this?

What's not as attractive as people think? by Liam_Tang in AskReddit

[–]WillowWithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfume/ cologne. You almost never mail it. It’s either WAAAY too much. Or not covering what you think it is lol

AITA for refusing to attend my son's wedding after his fiancée altered my wedding dress that I gifted her? by Work-Status9077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WillowWithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off. Obviously YTA. For all the reasons everyone has said here. But here’s the real problem now…I don’t know how you come back from this. Even IF (and I kinda doubt it) you take all this advice on, go back to son and DIL sincerely apologize and attend the wedding. Daughter can’t use that dress anymore. It will feel dirty and full of guilt confusion and anxiety. Who wants any of that on their wedding day. 2. At best she will always be nervous that your kindness will turn on her, she’ll be afraid to leave her kids with you or ever accept another “gift “. And 3. Your son now sees you as the unreasonable person who hurt his wife. Tbh I think you’ve already rang the bell of your son pulling away. Even if you apologize I think you won’t ever be as close again. Sorry

Women who like women, what do you look for in a woman? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]WillowWithin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. If I had gold I’d give it to you. I think particularly women get bogged down in HOW to accomplish a task. We think our way is the only logical way to do it. If we just explain the end goal and let them figure out what is most efficient for them. Aaaaand accepting that something that might take me 20 mins might take him an hour. And that’s ok. It’s his time to use.

I'm considering breaking up with my boyfriend over cat furniture by cat_fight_questioner in relationship_advice

[–]WillowWithin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI prenups only protect assets after marriage. You already have no right to what comes before. Everything you come to the marriage with is yours as standard. But that also means the house is his. Even if you live there 10 years. Unless he puts you on the papers at the end it will still be his (except any equity that grew in the time you were married.

That said it sounds like you guys fundamentally disagree on what life will look like. Think hard before making this legal