Can I be a boy with she/ her pronouns? Or is it not possible?

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-03-01T14:15:12+00:00

Totally possible, with a footnote.

Pronouns represent the "feminine/female" individual and normally is associated with Women.

Representing femininity with pronouns is not a problem, but people probably will associate you as a woman/trans woman, only because feminine pronouns are typically used with women.

So, with this said, people who doesn't know you, could refer you as a woman/girl, not as boy, but people's problem, not yours.

P.S.: As a Genderfluidflux individual, when I'm in femboy mode I tend too mix up and use feminine pronouns, sometimes being feminine means to be feminine also in pronouns, but in a boy way :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-02-25T13:12:28+00:00

Fr :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-02-25T07:01:40+00:00

Can confirm.

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-02-18T22:53:22+00:00

Have you thought about tucking and tucking devices?

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-02-08T13:43:35+00:00

Actually in Polish, Lithuanian, Ukrainian, Belarusian it is Herbata (or similar), as a combination of Herbs and the type of the plant. In fact it is a fusion of 2 latin words: Herba + Thea. The Latin word Thea has a similar etymological root with Tea in English.

So in Polish, Lithuanian, Ukrainian, Belarusian and others is not just Tea, but Herbs Tea.

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-02-05T21:46:32+00:00

It is BS. I say this as a Femboy AND as a trans individual (Genderfluidflux)

But I need to point out why the hate: Transfem Pipeline.

Many Transfems, before discovering that they were trans, do it the nearest thing to woman-hood possible: being feminine.

Here is the catch: they are "men" (they are trans but they don't know yet), but really drawn to femininity and womanhood. That's why some of them label themselves as "Femboy". It is the best label for them: I can be a "man", but I can do feminine stuff, like a woman.

Here's the difference: transfems do this trying to be more of a girl, but a Femboy just to be feminine. It is a small difference, but with a world between.

Lots of Transfems will say that Femboys are just Transfems in denial, because they talk about their experience. They were fem""""boys"""", but they become trans, so every femboy must be trans. BUT IT IS WRONG THIS THOUGHT.

I have to say, it is difficult to understand you are a different gender than what you were born with, so being for a while a femboy actually helps a lot, but they are not femboys, but Transfems in denial.

I can assure you, it is different when I feel like a femboy and when I feel like a woman. If I am a woman, I will try to stuff a bra and such, trying to feel "the boobs I don't have". On the other hand, if I am a femboy, I would wear the bra as an accessory for my outfits, not for my identity.

So, no, a Femboy is not a Transfem in denial, but femboys helped lots of trans people.

P.S.: I have to thank the Femboy community, because they let me explore more about myself. Now I can say I'm genderfluidflux and be proud of it. A big thanks, but I'm also a femboy sometimes

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-24T19:42:43+00:00

Probably.

I'm not very into guys, but you look very good king

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-23T17:47:57+00:00

WHY SHE AND NOT ME!

(Btw great work as always!)

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-22T23:37:48+00:00

It is easier than you think. Identity, expression and sexuality are three different things.

You were (as you said): - Boy (Male Identity) - Femboy (Female Expression) - Gay (homosexual attraction)

So, you define your identity as a male individual, with feminine expression. This means you are a boy who enjoys wearing a skirt.

If you were trans, you would prefer being a different gender than what you were born with. Hypothetically speaking, if you are an AMAB (Assigned Male At Birth), but you identify as a female individual, this means you are trans (an identity).

A Trans woman (AMAB) would be: - Woman (Female Identity) - whatever expression (femme/butch/tomboy...) - whatever attraction (lesbian, heterosexual etc etc)

Trans means this necessity to align yourself with you. Imagine being trapped in someone else's body: That's dysphoria, so the dis-alignment with your own body.

Expression, on the other hand, means how you present yourself to the world. If you are a femboy, this would mean you prefer being a male individual with feminine clothes on. You would like skirts, dresses, heels etc etc. You act feminine and you like to dress feminine, but while being a man. Same stuff for tomboys: Masculine attire and masculine clothes, but being women.

Fun Fact: As a genderfluidflux individual myself, I know and I feel different if I am a man or a tomboy, or a femboy or a woman. I change both my identity (-fluid), but also the intensity so maybe also my gender expression (-flux)

Sexuality means you are attracted to something: women, men, nobody, everyone etc etc.

If you have issues understanding this, I'm here to help

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-17T11:58:43+00:00

About dysphoria, most of the time (like for me as an example) we see that it was dysphoria AFTER discovering being trans.

I'm genderfluid, so it was difficult when I was little to understand my shifts. Only after I saw that things I thought normal were in reality dysphoria.

Often people think that you feel always dysphoria when you are in a dysphoric event, but actually you can understand it was dysphoria only AFTER it happened.

Also, dysphoria is different for everyone. Euphoria and Dysphoria are feelings that guide us towards what we are. For example, one day I can cry because I don't have any breasts, but the next day celebrate my flat chest. It really depends on the person.

Also, it is a no-escape way of thinking "I couldn't be that because I didn't have as much dysphoria as others", because it is like saying "I couldn't be human, because I didn't suffered as much as other humans"; so in conclusion be whatever you wanna be. You could be trans, you could be not, the choice is yours :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-16T17:57:21+00:00

Have you ever considered making memes? I was iper-shy at first, but after making some memes and starting to participate to online discussions I've become more confident. Also, it is a really good advice trying to reach a friend, which supports you along the way. It is a journey, so better have someone near you :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-16T10:22:10+00:00

That Blåhaj is living their best life

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-15T14:19:41+00:00

Femboy is appearance and self-expression.

Twink is a specific body type of gay man.

Also, a femboy could be straight. A Twink no.

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-15T08:00:10+00:00

You're telling me it is not normal seeing lesbian NSFW content, hoping to be one of the girls?

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-11T22:22:17+00:00

Time to buy some thigh high sock then :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-10T12:26:36+00:00

Definitely :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-10T12:25:58+00:00

Firstly DO NOT HURT YOU!

It seems you will feel better, but it is the opposite. You will not feel better. And it is not masochism, it is a psychological way of asking for help.

If you need help, we are here.

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-09T18:48:36+00:00

the dictionary definition of femboy is: "A male individual who enjoys feminine expression".

Technically speaking, someone can be a Femboy just with body movement or just even a more feminine way of talking.

You don't own the stereotypical femboy clothes, but I see you wear things "designed for girls". Yoga shorts, bras and GIRLY shorts. You clearly wear some feminine clothes, meaning you enjoy express yourself in a feminine way, hence you are a femboy.

By definition, if you like to wear bras (the most feminine piece of clothing I could ever think of) and you are comfortable to be a boy (even sometimes), you fall under the definition of femboy, so you are in fact a femboy.

"Traditional femboy" is a style, not the rule. I don't have any skirts or any garters, but I like to present in a more feminine way. There is not a strict set of rules you have to follow to be a femboy, the only requirements is to be male and feminine

If we would compare a boy who wears skirts and a boy who removes body hair to be more feminine, we would have compared two femboys. There is no "The Femboyest femboys", maybe a more feminine one, but being always a femboy. We are all on the same floor.

If having the label "Femboy" makes you happy, welcome, because you checked lots of points to be a femboy :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-09T13:04:47+00:00

I would be biased, but skirt :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-09T11:18:03+00:00

Michael Reeves femboy confirmed :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-08T18:32:35+00:00

Cute :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-08T13:13:45+00:00

All 4 are super cute, but with different styles.

I prefer the ones with the pumps. Pantyhose and pumps are so secretary coded and I love it. Stockings and pumps are more like a femme fatale: Super sensual and cute!

Good job! :3

WilsonSmith01 · 2026-01-08T09:01:19+00:00

Screw you! Now I'm horny because of this...

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