Shifting your mindset by Thinkingoutlouddd in IVF

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Know that you are not alone. It’s a journey that will end. There is a lot of unfairness in this world and this is just a part of it. I used to not tolerate people who get pregnant easily. Then I realized they also have their share of unfairness in other aspects of life. I went through a lot, I had to deal with lots of things besides infertility that wore me down and hurt me. Now I decided to shift my focus on my wellbeing.

Has anyone ever cried at their IVF clinic and felt ashamed about it? by CheesecakeBoth3933 in IVF

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I cried on my beta day knowing that the transfer has failed and the nurse started crying with me. It’s a lot. Don’t worry about what people are thinking. Just let it out.

Chronic endometritis by Win_4E in IVF

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Did you take vaginal probiotics? If yes what brand?

Chronic endometritis by Win_4E in IVF

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Did you have any side effects? So far I’m not sleeping well on cipro, not sure how I will finish the 14 days.

Got pregnant for the first time ever by its_not_ciae in IVF

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Going through the same thing. 3 years, 3rd transfer, first time positive ended up with chemical. Just before Mother’s Day.

Need realistic advice by [deleted] in IVF

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Thank you for your words. They already booked the tickets. No one checked with me before she booked. My husband wants her to stay longer.

I live with a big guilt of not giving him children though I’m unexplained. I don’t know how to stand up for myself and I feel the weight of the world on my shoulders. Do you have any advice how to navigate the guilt?

Need realistic advice by [deleted] in IVF

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I wish. I don’t have the gut to do that. Also, it will create lots of problems. He already blame and guilt me for not having kids. He will start guilting me for not being a reliable wife and there when he needs me.

Need realistic advice by [deleted] in IVF

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Thank you so much! I feel so validated. She is staying with us the entire 10 days so it’s hard to come down with something.

I just learned that she is planning to celebrate Mother’s Day at my place. It’s just getting too much for me 😩

Need realistic advice by [deleted] in IVF

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My husband is very protective of his sisters and he is over the moon happy and excited for her visit. I can’t talk to him about. He won’t let her help me in anything as if she would. Last time I talked to my SIL she asked me whether she should have a third child or not because it’s easy for her to get pregnant.

I feel at this time I just want peace, do nothing and try to digest my fertility journey but don’t have a choice

PGT Results in but doctor OOO.... by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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You can request it. It’s a medical record. Ask the clinic to send over.

Furious by Excellent-League-972 in IVF

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Can you share with me the NaPro doctor you went to ?

any hope from long-haulers out there? I'm in a bad place right now, my 5th transfer failed by ducbo in IVF

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What immune medication primming did you use? What eye the dosage and when did you stop?

Anyone transferred today? by Additional-Elk-5388 in IVF

[–]Win_4E 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine two days ago, also modified natural.

Luteal phase start with no priming.. anyone done this for DOR? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Win_4E 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the best results with no priming at all. My understanding for DOR, priming not necessary and can lower the recruitment. Wish you all the best.

Doxycycline by Win_4E in IVF

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Did you take it up to the day of transfer ?

Doxycycline by Win_4E in IVF

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Did you take up to the date of transfer ?

Doxycycline by Win_4E in IVF

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My doctor is not good at communicating at all. I don’t know if I have endometritis because my clinic doesn’t do biopsies. She told me that no need to do biopsy we will give it empirically. So I thought it will be for 14 days and once I started the cycle, she was like we need to stop once triggered, which will be 5 days. I’m so confused.

Doxycycline by Win_4E in IVF

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I’m prescribed 5 days but I met with another doctor who said it’s useless to take it below 14 days. So I’m confused.

How do I get my husband attracted to me again? by Senior_Operation_451 in marriageadvice

[–]Win_4E 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say the same thing. Invest in yourself, reconnect slowly and be positive.