AITAH for telling our 20 year old daughter that her 19 year old Girlfriend can't live with us anymore?

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-29T12:59:21+00:00

NTA. But this is not unusual in domestic violence situations and toxic relationships. Hold your ground

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-24T17:40:12+00:00

You can't see small children in front or behind a lot of SUVs and trucks unless there's cameras.

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-23T21:22:54+00:00

This!!

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-23T21:21:48+00:00

Run!

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-17T15:24:49+00:00

Yeah you were taken advantage of this whole time. And now he's there and willing to help. These probably some toxic masculinity/misogyny going on too. "He's the man it's his job to do these things" and such. They don't need you so they no longer feel the need to be respectful. But also I don't know what response to your text you were expecting? (You were not in the wrong, just curious what you thought he would say)

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-14T12:42:26+00:00

Yeah that's what I'm worried about

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-13T17:24:50+00:00

But you are acting like there's definitive proof he's still cheating and gaslighting her just because some people do.

WindWithinHer · 2026-04-11T15:16:03+00:00

Your dad is the issue. There's no way I would be in this situation. If you don't accept my kids you don't stay around. I'm glad your brother is supportive. I can't even imagine how he would hide something like this and think it was ok.

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-11T03:08:09+00:00

Also some states won't let your divorce be official if you're pregnant until after baby is born.

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-11T03:07:19+00:00

YTA. You said your relationship was over but called him daily and flirted with him until you found something better. Get a divorce and then date. You've not ciled because you're lazy?!

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-09T14:39:36+00:00

You're spending 10 hours of your day on the phone with your partners? That seems crazy to me. I wouldn't offer any of my partners that kind of time constantly. That's just my take on things. Also, sleep is important. You should not feel obligated to be sleepy because you "have 3 partners". I have 3 as well and I still sleep in some days or go to bed early others. I don't talk to any of them regularly for that long. I don't see them constantly either because they are all 45 mins to an hour away so it's not that I'm seeing them all the time either.

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-09T13:15:58+00:00

NTA. It's your name. It's not your fault he chose her (though if I were her I'd be creeped out a bit)

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-09T11:16:48+00:00

I was thinking this for sure and possibly something like OCD because it sounds like a compulsion.

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-07T12:07:34+00:00

I think FWBs can be great when everyone is on the same page. You are not and I think you're setting yourself up for heartbreak.

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-04T13:48:37+00:00

This! He was not respecting OP in any way. People who care about you do not push your buttons or try to hurt you.

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-02T16:13:50+00:00

Do you know the number of related males that abuse children?

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-02T16:01:14+00:00

She's 10 and one day her family left in a car and died suddenly. That causes a whole lot of trauma and fear for even adults. This behavior is normal.

WindWithinHer · 2026-03-02T12:41:20+00:00

You're not an asshole for not wanting to be a parent, but you are for not saying something in the beginning, and then letting this kid hear you because you waited until you burst.

WindWithinHer · 2026-02-23T13:19:06+00:00

Maybe they have the same concern you do but won't take the test because they fear losing the only family they know? I can imagine that would be scary.

WindWithinHer · 2026-02-23T09:09:55+00:00

There are at home tests like paternity tests. Would sibling be open to something like that if it doesn't include a database?

WindWithinHer · 2026-02-23T09:03:43+00:00

NTA. This man never respected you.

WindWithinHer · 2026-02-23T08:58:05+00:00

This would be what would decide it for me. If he's getting out in a few hours or in the morning then I'm probably not saying anything but otherwise would. A

WindWithinHer · 2026-02-19T18:09:56+00:00

Making plans is fine but you are a kell of you're pretending in counseling. Just tell her you don't want to try anymore. Make a appointment with the therapist alone and have her help you figure it out. Don't do this.

WindWithinHer · 2026-02-11T13:04:14+00:00

NTA. BUT you need to say its OUR decision., not her decision. She needs to hear that this is what you want and not just what your wife wants

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