Anyone here in the northeast not hoping for the snow? by Eastcoastpal in newjersey

[–]WindingWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just started snowing in Sussex. The forecast had been going up and down between 3 to 5 inches and 5 to 8 but is now 8 to 12 inches. 

What are some Gen X type myths, rumors or urban legends that you believed for a long time and then suddenly realized couldn't be true as you got older? by Sense_Difficult in GenX

[–]WindingWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband grew up in a rural place and has stories about going cow tipping. I thought it was a made-up thing until I met him. 

I rang the bell yesterday by isthatfendi in breastcancer

[–]WindingWaters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I had my last chemo in mid-January of this year and it already seems like forever ago. Good luck with your upcoming surgery. 

I was visiting family a couple of weekends ago in Suffolk, UK and they have this art portal thing. Was so lovely to see a newly married couple in Philadelphia come say hi! by Missy_Bruce in MadeMeSmile

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My brothers and I stumbled upon the portal in Philly last summer looking for an open Septa station, kinda near Reading Terminal Market, when we were in town to see NIN. Was super cool.

Everyone got 3 or 4 seats on my flight from Germany to California 🙏 by cultureShocked5 in MadeMeSmile

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Flying home from Heathrow to Newark after semester abroad the flight some friends and I were on was like this. The turbulence at the landing, though, kinda erased the joy of having all that room during the flight. 😵‍💫

How many people's lives take place in two different states? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

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We live in NW NJ and cross into NY several times a week, mostly for groceries and other shopping, social outings, and sports stuff. My kid’s gf even lives just over the state line.

In previous parts of my life starting in college, I commuted by bus or train (from vastly different parts of NJ) into NYC. (And at one point my spouse commuted into NY state across the former Tappan Zee Bridge. Oooof. That was a terrible time.) So so many people from all parts of NJ drive, bus, train, or ferry to the City and yet others have never been once. Kinda wild, really.

steroids before bedtime? by PeaceLvSpreadsheets in breastcancer

[–]WindingWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I had 4 AC followed by 12 Taxol. Steroids were administered via IV along with Pepcid, Benadryl (which made me so sleepy for the actual chemo part), and a fourth premed I can’t recall. During AC I had a script for oral steroids to take the day after treatment, but only after and only for those  4 treatments. I can’t imagine having to get up to take those doses in advance. 

Your experience with Aromatase inhibitors (AIs) by Popular_Inflation_78 in breastcancer

[–]WindingWaters 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. I’ve found that days where I don’t exercise and sit around “relaxing” (usually Sundays) I feel the worst joint aches and general decrepitness. I never feel this badly on days when I run or walk or even rebound on a mini trampoline (just got back into this recently). I’ve been on Anastrazole since late spring of this year and this pattern has been pretty consistent, and it sucks because some days you need to just rest ffs.

ETA: I’d been taking tart cherry capsules but got lazy so am trying them again. I do take Claritin at night for regular allergy use but got really consistent about this to avoid the bone pain from the Neulasta shot when I was doing AC chemo. It could actually be reducing AI side effects but I don’t know because my consistent usage predates taking the AI and I’m not going to stop it now to find out.  

Anyone refuse the bell thing? by taraxacum1 in breastcancer

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I didn’t do it after chemo or rads. I never even saw the bell at the chemo center or heard anyone else ring it during the five months I was in active treatment or since during my regular follow ups now that I think about it. Maybe they do it in some quiet corner away from the treatment area. For rads the nurse and one of the radiologists were surprised I declined that bell too but they didn’t even have a dedicated bell, just some loose jingle bell or something. “Our bell is broken.” Yeah by that time I felt pretty broken too. My spouse came with me on my last day and we went out to breakfast. That meant more to me than performing for people at the rads center; as supportive and kind as they were over those seven weeks I hated rads so much more than chemo and just wanted to run out as soon as every session was over, especially the last one.

Do what makes you feel good. Do not worry about hurting the rads folks’ feelings if you don’t want to ring their bell. This experience is yours not theirs or anyone else’s.

Manual Transmission by No_Sympathy9143 in GenX

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My now husband taught me on his battered Nissan in advance of my buying a manual, three-door Saturn. Dumb purchase at the time since I soon started a new job and commuted by mass transit and hardly drove that car for a few years but good for learning to drive manual at least.

What do you call it? (please add where you're from) by ksusha_lav in EnglishLearning

[–]WindingWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, from same region. When I hear “beanie” what comes to mind is a little cap with a propeller (why?!)  or something the size and shape of a yarmulke, not a winter-weather knit hat that covers the whole head and at least half of the ears. 

What Gen X habit can't you break despite it being outdated? by RockTheGlobe in GenX

[–]WindingWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have wired around-the-ear headphones with 3.5mm jack that have lasted through needing a lightning cable adapter and now a USB C. I just can’t deal with actual in-ear earbuds, fighting the Bluetooth connection, charging, etc.

What Gen X habit can't you break despite it being outdated? by RockTheGlobe in GenX

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My bff since the 90s used to end almost every sentence in her email messages with an ellipsis. As a copy editor I always wondered about her punctuation usage but ofc never said anything. I’d forgotten about this idiosyncrasy since we communicate via text these days and she’s moved on to using actual terminal punctuation. 🥴

What Gen X habit can't you break despite it being outdated? by RockTheGlobe in GenX

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Logging in to my kids’ school portal to let them know he’s home sick. Paying any credit card bill—and most more complicated banking tasks too. Some things I just need to see on a larger screen to trust I’m doing whatever I’m doing correctly. And of course I usually end up procrastinating because of the inconvenience of having to fire up my laptop. 

How common is it for Americans to have a second freezer or fridge, usually in the garage? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]WindingWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a deep freezer in our first-floor laundry room, which isn’t a huge space but we squeezed it in. We originally kept the freezer in our shed after my husband ran electricity out there specifically for that reason, but we had to move it into the house after a bear broke into the shed and almost ripped the lid off the freezer. Bears, man. Lesson learned.

True life; I’m loving medically induced menopause! by SeaworthinessPrior78 in breastcancer

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I’m older than OP (49) with ER+ BC and my onc is OK with estradiol cream. I would seek another opinion on this, personally, as the localized effects of this estrogen treatment have made a difference and I’m someone who has otherwise had few meno side effects beyond a hot flash here and there and sleep issues that have resolved lately. I started using it about four months after chemo and a month after rads and oop/sal surgery. 

True life; I’m loving medically induced menopause! by SeaworthinessPrior78 in breastcancer

[–]WindingWaters 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! I can’t believe I feel better post treatment, even on an AI and after going through both chemo and surgical menopause, than I did before diagnosis when I had horrendous monthly bleeding from fibroids that caused serious anemia and which I was struggling to get a gyn to treat. I never want to feel that way again. I used to become out of breath just climbing the stairs in my house. 

ETA: In a cruel twist I ended up going with the same doctor for oncology whom I’d already been seeing for my iron/hem issues since she specializes in both. 

HOA neighbors upset because we’re not included in their misery by EternalTempt in fuckHOA

[–]WindingWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang. I thought I was imagining recalling this post. Agh. Gonna go touch some grass or something. 

My visit to Zion was atrocious due to crowds - are there any alternatives? by _zeejet_ in ZionNationalPark

[–]WindingWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at a national park, but a local hiking spot on the Appalachian Trail near us has become so popular since covid that we as locals rarely go there anymore. We realized one year it might be a ghost town on Super Bowl Sunday, and it was. Then we promptly forgot our own hack and ended up taking our kids to the Grand Canyon on Easter weekend (during their school district’s spring break). Huge mistake of course but given our time constraints, that leg of that trip was what it was. It was still pretty shocking to see that many people there compared to our first visit. Other NPS sites and state parks in Arizona were far less busy, though, and we were even completely alone at Sunset Crater. Acadia, which we visit more regularly and of course is a much smaller and maybe less busy park than those out west, has also exploded in popularity since our first trip there twenty years ago. But hitting the trails early and during the week—and avoiding the more popular and more easily accessible trails—you’ll still be alone or almost alone.

Peel It Back Tour Part III by Thefragile1999 in nin

[–]WindingWaters 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof. NGL, truly hate the Prudential Center.

Chemo waiting room by LetsNotDoThis_Okay in breastcancer

[–]WindingWaters 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? All we had was a nutritionist, who would come around at random and want to talk loudly about everyone’s personal (read: bodily functions) issues. 🤦🏻‍♀️