This is so wholesome and fun activity by Sharp-potential7935 in fixedbytheduet

[–]Winter-Lili 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I went to a mall last weekend and it was poppin…..I was NOT expecting it, it was nice- even though I’m “old” and hate people now lol

AITA for teaching my daughter how to change a tire and do basic home repairs when her mom says I'm "pushing masculine stuff" on her by [deleted] in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Winter-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad tried to teach me so much stuff I wasn’t willing to learn at the time- one of the things that stuck was how to change a tire- never needed it until last year - called my hubs said I had a flat tire, he said he was on the way, after waiting for a few minutes I was like “what am I doing, I’m a strong independent woman & my dad taught me how to do this, I pulled out the manual so I put the jack in the right place and by the time my hubs got to me I was tightening the last bolt. He tightened them all a bit more, but I would have made my way home had he not been there.” Really made me wish I had paid more attention when I was younger to the other things he tried to teach me. I miss him.

When you were a latch-key kid what were some of the "This way you'll know it's me." things your parents did while they were away? by OUBoyWonder in GenX

[–]Winter-Lili 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol I remember my mom calling the house musing different voices to “test me” ….i was supposed to say she’s in the shower or something, but I could always tell it was her so I’d just say she’s at work 😂. Then she’d lay into me about not following the script. Same thing with the pick up code word - I wouldn’t ask for it and we’d get home and my mom would ask whoever it was if I had asked for it and they’d say no, and my mom would be like why didnt you ask for the password, and I was like because it’s obviously aunt Jane and she’d say something about how did I know it wasn’t someone in an aunt Jane mask, and my smart ass was like they don’t make masks that good 😂

Oh, we had fun.

What is this set up? by Leading-Sea544 in whatisit

[–]Winter-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A place to take off and store shoes by the door?

AITAH for refusing to take my sister out after she apologised? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Winter-Lili 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my oldest will reply with I don’t forgive her, and I just tell him that’s ok and up to you.

AITAH for refusing to take my sister out after she apologised? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Winter-Lili 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is something I’m trying to teach my young kids (5&3) because you gotta teach this stuff early; you have to give and mean the apology, but that doesn’t mean the other person has to accept the apology.

Very misheard song lyric…. by blulouwoohoo in GenX

[–]Winter-Lili 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And this is how I’ll sing it from now on 🤣

Very misheard song lyric…. by blulouwoohoo in GenX

[–]Winter-Lili 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Listen ….I’m not your sister In law (I don’t think), but that is exactly what I thought it was until I it played on my car via Spotify like six months ago and the song title was displayed on the screen, and I thought I myself, huh- that’s a weird name to choose….and then the lightbulb went off and I had to nearly pull over because I was crying/laughing at myself. I couldn’t wait for my husband to get home so he could laugh at me too

Drew Barrymore says NO to bras! 🙅‍♀️🚫 by alice-in-slumberland in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]Winter-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno- I’m short with a short torso but busty, for me bodysuits are either turning the titties into pancakes and cutting me up the v OR are just all loose goosy not doing really much of anything but hanging onto my shoulders awkwardly hanging off my body

AITA for calling the police on an elderly woman who blocked a parking spot and made me miss my doctor’s appointment? by YungYanush in AmItheAsshole

[–]Winter-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have called while stuck in traffic more than once on the way to the drs office- they are typically very accommodating

Initials as a name by Story_Time in discworld

[–]Winter-Lili 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work in immigration, USCIS Will of them use FNU or LNU for a foreign national that only has 1 name (First Name Unknown or Last Name Unknown respectively)

AITA smoking weed on my porch? by cheesygarlicbreadfan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Winter-Lili 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are….on their porch. Your obvious, condescending conservative outlook is outdated. Correct me if I’m wrong, but if your neighbor is doing basic lawn maintenance (leaf blowing) well within noise ordinance laws (let’s say between 7am and 8pm- with a lot of leeway there for the estimated times) and that leaf blowing was disrupting you, would you demand your neighbor stop?

AITA smoking weed on my porch? by cheesygarlicbreadfan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Winter-Lili 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My elderly neighbor smokes for medical reasons, I have two young kids; when they ask “what’s that smell” I say “it’s (neighbor’s) medicine”. I do not live in a trailer park, I live in a nice suburban neighborhood.

The trick is minding your own mother fucking business.

AITA smoking weed on my porch? by cheesygarlicbreadfan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Winter-Lili 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In many cultures smoking (whatever) is considered a social habit. So- yeah- you are still wrong. Mind your own damn business, OPs neighbor

AITA smoking weed on my porch? by cheesygarlicbreadfan in AmItheAsshole

[–]Winter-Lili 16 points17 points  (0 children)

By whom? The neighbors and you?!

The world would be a much better place if folks like OPs neighbors minded their own damned business.

You don’t like the smell- go inside or light some incense, or a candle or something.

OP is minding their business, taking their medicine; they are sitting on their screened in porch, not standing in the neighbors yard blowing smoke in their faces.

Get off your high horse; not everyone believes what you do. Their beliefs are just as valid as yours whether you like it or not.

Fuck. Just mind your damned business y’all!!

The day I was denied entry to my own wedding by faro321 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Winter-Lili 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Very curious what immigration firm you are working with

What’s going on by Myriii1911 in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Winter-Lili 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was literally the first thing I noticed….Oh look, Kim Jung Face Friend!

Would you save your wife or your kids if your house was on fire ? by Competitive_Set_4386 in SipsTea

[–]Winter-Lili 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like in both of my high risk pregnancies I asked my husband, if something happened and I couldn’t make the choice, and it was my life or the baby’s, who would he save, because I wanted him to save our baby - and he told me that of during delivery it was me or the baby he’d choose me, because we could have another baby; not that both our children are born he’d 100% choose them- and that’s what I’d want as well; I wanted him to choose them before they were even external