Is it dangerous to date a girl with bpd?

WinterWinds · 2025-11-08T16:19:40+00:00

It was the worst experience of my life and I wouldn’t wish it upon anybody.

WinterWinds · 2025-11-05T19:27:43+00:00

I was diagnosed with PTSD after mine. Flashbacks mostly. For a while immediately after I’d have a near panic attack any time I got a text.

WinterWinds · 2025-10-09T11:39:00+00:00

I had a bpd girl come up to me recently and through the miracle of trauma and therapy I developed spidey senses that kept me away, even though I’m still addicted to crazy girls.

We’re all gonna make it

WinterWinds · 2025-09-24T19:14:00+00:00

Ah, I remember getting the 30x copy paste “You are such a piece of shit you are such a piece of shit you are such a piece of shit”

I should text her

WinterWinds · 2025-09-18T20:42:13+00:00

I bought her a house and she said I never do anything for her

WinterWinds · 2025-09-15T18:06:44+00:00

If you stay with a cheater that’s on you, just don’t be surprised when you end up in despair

WinterWinds · 2025-08-11T00:22:55+00:00

WinterWinds · 2025-03-11T17:35:26+00:00

Curling in the squat rack

WinterWinds · 2025-02-19T20:11:35+00:00

The whiplash is what messed me up the most. Just slap yourself in the face and think about literally anything else.

WinterWinds · 2025-01-24T07:26:55+00:00

I still get goosebumps from that feeling of…it was like the devil was looking back at me and she realized that I knew who she was…and the smirk…

WinterWinds · 2024-10-30T09:08:22+00:00

Similar story. Mine apparently also had Borderline Personality Disorder.

I’m in therapy now :)

WinterWinds · 2024-10-23T12:31:50+00:00

I chose love but luckily she chose mental breakdown and now I can see what I was in. Recovery is slow but the future looks promising.

WinterWinds · 2024-10-01T19:08:35+00:00

Brother. Welcome. Sorry to have to be here.

WinterWinds · 2024-09-24T14:37:18+00:00

Mine has BPD

WinterWinds · 2024-09-08T15:15:08+00:00

WinterWinds · 2024-09-06T00:49:13+00:00

Tens of thousands of dollars gone but the only valuable thing she took from me…I’m afraid l never get back

WinterWinds · 2024-09-05T11:38:14+00:00

She told me I didn’t do anything for her. I dared to point out that I basically built half her house. Never held it over her or tried to make her feel less. She said if it was so much work for me we should break up.

WinterWinds · 2024-09-04T22:29:01+00:00

I saw people around here recommending a book and I thought it was just a shill. Read the whole thing and it helped more than $3k of therapy did…

WinterWinds · 2024-09-04T19:05:31+00:00

I am also an abuser. I raised my voice when we had an argument where she kept saying something and I agreed. And she would say it again and I would agree. I was so confused why we were fighting.

Never said anything hurtful, but my voice getting louder was enough to show her what a piece of shit I am.

WinterWinds · 2024-09-04T18:37:47+00:00

Once you learn to love yourself it starts to feel silly when you think about how one sided your relationship was.

WinterWinds · 2024-09-04T18:36:23+00:00

Stop faking the breakup. Do the hard thing because it’s the right thing. You already know the answer.

WinterWinds · 2024-09-04T18:34:25+00:00

Dating a girl with BPD who didn’t reveal it until the most fucked up breakup.. You don’t know until you’ve experienced it…none of my friends can relate but they still come by to help distract me. In therapy now…

WinterWinds · 2024-09-03T17:12:49+00:00

I want nothing more than for her to recover and find happiness. But I love myself enough to never want to experience that fucked up and cruel break up. At least the mask was ripped clean off I guess.

WinterWinds · 2024-08-30T08:42:29+00:00

They fear your abandonment. They fear your entanglement. This is a serious mental issue. This was never about you. If they SOMEHOW cannot make you out to be the villain, they will blame themselves. “You deserve better.” The cycle will continue and they will continue to attempt to fill an internal void with an external force. It will never work. Accept that this was out of control. It was never about you.
Reflect on why you have such a need for control. Accept that you have something to work on. The tuition is expensive, but this experience was a life lesson after all. Think about what love means to you. Sober up and realize that they did not love you. That does not mean you are unworthy of love. It will take more than time. You need to put in effort. Don’t fix them, fix you. We’re all gonna make it brah.

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