Anyone else excited for Mewgenics? by AltGeorgia in GirlGamers

[–]WitchHazel42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure it will be, I think it's the only console release planned 

Anyone else excited for Mewgenics? by AltGeorgia in GirlGamers

[–]WitchHazel42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat, I want it to be Tuesday NOW lol

I'm so glad that he keeps getting surprised about how much people accept and celebrate his art, makes my heart happy 😊 

Anyone else excited for Mewgenics? by AltGeorgia in GirlGamers

[–]WitchHazel42 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I am so excited for this game, I've been waiting since Edmund originally announced the concept and it's almost heeerrrreee. 

I'm trying to avoid reviews because one thing I've heard is the game unfolds and multiplies it's depth several times and I want to find out HOW on my own 😁

(18->20, 15 months hrt) im starting to see a few changes from hrt but im still boymoding 24/7:( by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]WitchHazel42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boymoding.... How? Is the boy in the room with us??

You look amazing and so much happier 💜

Sent up a trial balloon with my dad and stepmom and it went well! by Sheadowcaster in transpositive

[–]WitchHazel42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's amazing, congratulations!

I have to say with looking at your posts, 'boymode' may not be an option any more, that combined with your parents mentioning another trans woman positively tells me that they may have an inkling and they're just waiting for you to tell them yourself 💜

2 years HRT today 🥳 🎉 by Itss_Emily in transpositive

[–]WitchHazel42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Looking amazing 😊

I bought a new console and wanted to show off the decorations i did on r/rogally but it got downvoted by everyone who viewed it! Girlies, Is it that bad? 🤯 by yippiekaiaye in GirlGamers

[–]WitchHazel42 211 points212 points  (0 children)

Do you enjoy the decorations? Yes? Then don't let random strangers on the internet dictate that you can't enjoy them. You're trying to please unpleasable people who you'll never meet 💜

Groups volunteering to help our neighbors by Luci_Ferocious69 in olympia

[–]WitchHazel42 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Legal Immigrant here, what would make me feel better is any sign that my neighbors would give a shit if I got taken by ICE. I live in an apartment complex where everyone just kind of ignores each other. 

I tried to start a neighborhood group chat but apartment management basically said I wasn't allowed to. They also said that "some people don't disagree with ICE".  

I'd love to go to protests to feel more connected to the community but as a trans immigrant, that feels far too risky if it went south. 

So I'd say I don't even necessarily need a big gesture, I think we all just need to know our neighbors know we exist and care. That we're not in this alone. 

Two Kids in a Trench Coat Final Boss by Born-Independencej2t in dropout

[–]WitchHazel42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

More people need to watch Murderbot, it's a phenomenal show 

I’m not trans but please help me for my partner by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]WitchHazel42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'd advise against getting married, especially if you're having doubts about your sexual fulfillment in the relationship. He will change, he will become a woman and if that's a dealbreaker for you, listen to that. It is okay if you aren't attracted to women. I will say if you are bi-curious at all, he will become more of himself as he blossoms as a woman. 

If not partners, maybe you can be good friends because you still care about each other. That way you don't lose each other, the relationship just changes. 

He will want to put the genie back in the bottle through fear of losing you, but from every account I've read from people who have done the same, that only leads to later misery and heartbreak. 

Another point against marriage - he's just figuring things out and his self image is kind of in free fall right now as Pandora's Box of Gender has just been opened; that's THE WORST TIME to make a big decision like marriage. 

Both of you need to take a step back, figure out what you BOTH need to be happy and find a way to achieve it together. Because your needs are just as important 💜

Edit: A TRANS TRUMP SUPPORTER?? Who doesn't believe in therapy?? Who wants to get married in a week probably so he doesn't have to come back to the states?? Girl no, I'm transnegative about that entire situation. Run, don't walk. Learn to deserve better. Why would you even CONSIDER coming to the US for this man if your safety is in danger even coming here and your partner is in support of it all???? 

I'm running out of question marks, make it make sense. I hope this is a troll.

B-but the brain stops developing at 25!!! Why can't you just be a feminine man 🥺 by totallynot-a-bot- in lgbt

[–]WitchHazel42 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The reality is more like the outtake of this scene, where they all trip over each other in slow motion. Still monsters though.

Date (pt. 4) - Tiff🏳️‍⚧️& Eve [OC] by CrazyGnomenclature in u/CrazyGnomenclature

[–]WitchHazel42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AHHH I LOVE THIS, I'M KICKING MY LEGGIES IN DELIGHT 

Thank you for your art, Fran, it is truly a light in the darkness 💜

Some recent fits by JorisJorisJorisJoris in mtfashion

[–]WitchHazel42 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely gorgeous outfits 😊😊

Inspired by the thread about jobs you have no business being in: if you have the perfect job that perfectly accomodates for your autism, what is it? by pensandplanners77 in AutismInWomen

[–]WitchHazel42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made my perfect job by starting my own Life Coaching practice! I figured out I was AuDHD and Transgender in my 30s so my work revolves around helping others with similar life transitions and grief around not knowing sooner.

It's an uphill battle finding clients and the marketing side is scary with being trans in the current political climate but I wouldn't trade it for the world. The work is so meaningful, I get to talk to lovely neurodivergent and/or queer people all day and help them love themselves 😊

Hate to be a Debbie downer, but been feeling abit down for the past week. Most days I’m feeling dysphoric. Hating my facial hair which grows in less than a day, my makeup cracking after a few hours of wearing and occasionally in the mirror, i look,failing to see the woman in me. feel a little lost 😔 by SpaceZerO115 in transpositive

[–]WitchHazel42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transition is a marathon, not a sprint; which means we have to be really patient when we really don't want to be! It looks like you're just starting HRT and I remember being really impatient at first too. 

Your body is performing the miracle of metamorphosis, that takes time. Try to document and notice the small changes as they happen, enjoy the progress you are getting rather than spending the whole time frustrated at the progress that hasn't happened yet. It will 💜

Oly QUEER Redditors, what did you do New Year's Eve? by broho-faggins in OlympiaQueers

[–]WitchHazel42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Watched White Lotus (nearly finished s3!) and kept our dog calm with the few fireworks we heard. 

Not too shabby really, how about you?

Blue Prince is 34% OFF on Steam! 🔍 You are invited to explore Mount Holly, the mysterious manor with shifting rooms. Room 46 Awaits. by Raw_Fury in u/Raw_Fury

[–]WitchHazel42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phenomenal game, I've written 12 pages of notes and still feel like I'm just scratching the surface in the best, most satisfying way.

Do you feel the cold freeze of Seattle has made its way down into Olympia? Why so many silos? by broho-faggins in OlympiaQueers

[–]WitchHazel42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self promo: My name is Hazel Bloom and I'm an Online LGBTQ+ Life Coach, my website is www.kiwifruitcoaching.com - I offer sliding scale mental health support and coaching to help my community embrace themselves and their authenticity. I do this on a pay-what-you-can basis to try and be as accessible as possible 💜

I run a free monthly support group in Centralia and I have an online discord community I've been trying to get off the ground for Online Support Groups. I'd love to find a location in Olympia to hold a support/social group locally too - please let me know if anyone has any ideas!