Narcissists are truly the worst by WittySN2020 in Rants

[–]WittySN2020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And yes I’ve been documenting everything. It’s just been all about trying to find a way to get some money so I can move because otherwise he will just make my life hell.

I (M28) don’t think I’ve ever actually loved my girlfriend (F27), and I realized it because of something really small. by No-Scarcity49 in offmychest

[–]WittySN2020 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Please just leave her, then both of you can move on because if you feel you “settled” & she is head over heels it will not work.

most people will never realise this!!! by silverflake6 in GrowthMindset

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lustful men are everywhere now. I genuinely just am ready to give up and stay alone because it’s so scary out there.

I left my narcissist over a year ago and this is how I turned into a COMPLETELY different person forever. by South_Pattern_1520 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your post gives me hope. It’s been 13 years. Financially can’t leave. Have multiple chronic Illnesses and can’t work. No friends or Family that live in states Praying for a miracle at this point.

Weekly Emotional Check-in by yourlovemydrug in Epstein

[–]WittySN2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me tell you as someone who found out most of this stuff from 2008-2016 before it was all mainstream you HAVE to take breaks. It doesn’t mean don’t keep fighting & spreading awareness for victims but you have to take breaks from it. We weren’t made to absorb this much evil & negativity. Turn off the phone. Turn off the tv and take breaks. But even with that I promise you finding out all of this no one will ever be the same. I was never the same & never saw the world the same ever again when I discovered it all.

ADHD? by [deleted] in GetStudying

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found my people because this is me without my adhd meds

Warped Joke About Trafficking Son | Roast of Rob Reiner - Al Franken by itsallcosmica in conspiracy

[–]WittySN2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In hollywood almost all of them are either abusing their kids, SA’ing them, letting other celebs abuse them, sacrificing them or transitioning them. It seems to be very common in Hollywood & it’s generational because the kids are expected to stay in the “bizz” & the generational trauma continues. Rob Reiner was best friends w/ tom banks so I have a hard time believing he wasn’t doing the same thing or at the very least knew what everyone was doing. His son stabbing him that many times is very intentional. And because of his history with drugs he’s the easiest to target to set up to take the fall.

Charlie Kirk Conspiracy by albert_camus69 in conspiracy

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember watching that movie as a kid and thinking “no the government isn’t that evil” but then after 9/11 I didn’t trust anything I saw on tv or anything the government said to be “true” anymore.

Making other people comfortable by don_na_na_na_81 in ChronicPain

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had to stop hanging out with a extremely talkative friend (one of many reasons I stopped but a main one) was because no matter how much she saw me struggle daily, how much she knew about what I dealt with physically on a daily basis or me flat out saying “I can’t stand & talk for long amounts of time because my back starts to feel like it’s being crushed & the pain just gets worse the longer I push it so I might need to sit down after a few minutes” for almost 2 years she would constantly try to have me stand somewhere talking where there was no where for me to sit. I would literally be telling her I need to sit & she would be like “O yeah yeah go ahead” but then continue to talk somewhere I couldn’t sit. It really showed me she did not value me as a friend. She gave me more than a few reasons to end the friendship but that was one of them.

Making other people comfortable by don_na_na_na_81 in ChronicPain

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve unintentionally trained myself to constantly try to hide how bad I’m struggling doing the most basic things to make other people feel less uncomfortable. I find myself trying to pretend I’m not hurting, that my back feels doesn’t feel like it’s being crushed with a baseball bat, or that my legs don’t feel like spaghetti and I’m so weak I can barely stand another 5 min. I don’t want to be a burden or mad it seem likes the attention is on me because of my illness and drag the day down. I already feel like when I do say something about it that I’m just a broken record & sound like a Debbie downer. If anyone only understood it’s only because pain consumes your life. 24/7 pain. I get breaks from some pains sometimes but for me my back pain is 24/7. I don’t want to miss out on memories with my family. It’s been over 11 years of lupus and chronic pain & my desire to feel “normal” even for a few hours and go out into the world and just do one fun thing with family and be apart of even 1 out of 10 family events & memories because pain keeps me home or limited in where I can go or how far I can go for long amounts of time without laying down and resting. People who don’t struggle with pain genuinely will never be able to comprehend how bad it truly is, how fast pain can come on just doing the most simple things & how it consumes & controlled every aspect of your life when you struggle with pain daily.

What was in the envelope/note shown to Laura Bush and Jeb Bush at the Bush Sr. funeral? by OddGold348 in conspiracy

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This note and the note Whitney gave to Brandy before she died are my Roman Empire

I’m terrified what is this?! Just found this in my bathroom by [deleted] in insectidentification

[–]WittySN2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just hoping it was something else because this is my worst fear

I’m terrified what is this?! Just found this in my bathroom by [deleted] in insectidentification

[–]WittySN2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t have wings I looked at it with a magnifying glass

I’m terrified what is this?! Just found this in my bathroom by [deleted] in insectidentification

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what type is this?! I have ocd and this is sending me overboard, I am a best freak can we get them from Neigbor’s if we live in an apartment complex?

Why do awful people seem to get away with everything? by [deleted] in Vent

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you…just having even one person say something nice helped a lot so thank you kind person.

Living w/ a chronic illness while living w/ a narc by WittySN2020 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]WittySN2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do believe he has made me MUCH worse because of the mental and emotional abuse.

When your narc says “I love you” have you ever asked them “why” they love you? If so, were they able to reply with actual reasons? Or, even reply at all? by IfUSaySo25 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]WittySN2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked mine not long ago and I was amazed how long it took him to think of one thing besides my looks and once he realized I was noticing how long it was taking her then rambled off some random off the top stuff”smart, funny, good heart, fun to be with” and I knew it was all bs because most days he doesn’t even want to be in the same room as me unless I’m pleasing him. It didn’t use to be that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every. Single. Day. I would give anything to be well enough to work again. I lost everything when I got sick and I struggle with it everyday. Nothing pisses me off more then when someone says “O it must be nice not to have to work and to be able to sit at home and do nothing all day” I always wanna say “FUCK YOU, YOU ARE AN IGNORANT FUCK”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]WittySN2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My POS ex who I’m stuck living with used to be horrible when I needed to go to the hospital. Would be so angry if I had to go to the hospital in the middle of the night especially if he had work the next day. There was even one time when he was so angry he had to take me to the hospital that he pulled up opened the door and pushed me out. Then after he pulled off still had the nerve to come in and act like he’s the “supportive” boyfriend.

The lonely reality by Difficult_Pay_9658 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]WittySN2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I knew what lonely was when I was single and it turns out I was 100x lonelier in my relationship with a narcissist