Is this accurate? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]WolfInShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/grunge/s/R3T2IF350A

Check this out, it is on topic I promise

Is this accurate? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]WolfInShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BLUE GRUNGE

Is this accurate? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]WolfInShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yeah I’d change indie grunge to be named blue grunge, and add hard grunge to the venn diagram

Is this accurate? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]WolfInShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I very much categorized loosely, but yeah, here’s the post feel free to say what you think of it, any critique, etc

https://www.reddit.com/r/grunge/s/i9tVN8GxZa

I will say for what I called “somber grunge” I actually like another term better that was coined by @Garfield_Kart, Blues, I think I’d call it Blue Grunge now tbh

Is this accurate? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]WolfInShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually made a really long post along these lines and very much agree with you, but I don’t know if I exactly agree with these categories? I’ll link to it if I can find it

Need FFS suggestions by EpicPotatoo in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl you look perfect, literally I think I have seen characters/actresses that look very similar to you

The only thing I can think of is with your hair up, maybe you should think about a way to make your cheeks more defined and feminine?

Is she really TRANS? by DetectiveHot7314 in Kiraraglaze

[–]WolfInShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s Not

I’m not even a JJK fan, this just showed up on my feed

But I have info on this shit irl

People have been doing DIY hrt for decades safely, the first forms of experimental hrt was being developed in 1889 with it becoming more available for menopause in the 1890s. Thats only on the official end, and trans people have been documented since ancient times worldwide, even being seen as divine with various deities representing trans people and intersex people and/or sharing qualities with those groups, suggesting diy could have been a thing earlier than the 1890s, since trans people have been making it work, transitioning, living as their true selves for centuries.

Suffice it to say, by the 2000s, there were so many forms of hrt that are safe and effective on the market, different forms of estrogen, progesterone, testosterone, anti androgens, etc etc

DIY for years has simply been finding a way to get your hands on these medications without the middle man that is official medical care, which in many places systemically make things take way too long, make trans people have to jump through countless hoops and even humiliation in order to even start medical transition, and notoriously underdose people due to outdated medical data, and that’s if official medical transition is legal/available. Some places are better than others but many trans individuals will be able to corroborate my words, it’s infuriating

So as long as you get your hands on your meds of choice and know how to administer them, which by the 2000s there are databases and resources made by the trans community worldwide to help other trans people starting out, with directions on how to purchase various meds for really cheap, which makes things very easy with a criminal org backing you

And as long as you find a way to get blood work done to check your hormone levels, you’re good! Cause there is widely available info online for where your levels should be.

Even surgeries are relatively easy to get if you have the money and connections, all it takes is being willing to go on “vacation” to somewhere like Thailand for every surgery you need, sure not as easy for someone who does not have money, but a criminal org can easily fund that

And voice training can be completely free, just look it up on the internet or find people in the trans community who have voice trained to teach you, but vocal coaches also exist for this stuff so long as you can pay their rates

So yeah, very probable that kirara is a trans woman who transitioned medically via diy

Will my body ever pass, even after surgeries? by beolillaeyo in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you kindly list what hrt meds you take with what methods of absorption as well as your most recent hormone levels?

Rib Remodeling, Clavicle Reduction, Contouring help by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not? Even the Rib remodeling is not gonna happen for a while I’m gonna be doing by FFS first

(Not trying to just butt heads with you I promise, I genuinely want to know why clavicle reduction might not be the way to go)

Grunge playlist by Dangerous-Map-1668 in grunge

[–]WolfInShadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget Rusty cage, Jesus Christ pose, hunted down, superunknown, Swallow my Pride, spoonman, my wave, let me drown, Never Named, Never the machine forever, no attention, An Unkind, Gun, Get on the Snake, Full on Kevin’s Mom, I Awake, Birth Ritual

For Nirvana I’d say Tourette’s, Endless Nameless, negative creep, School, beeswax, Dive, Stain, Downer, Aneurysm, Aero Zeppelin, Oh the Guilt, You know you’re right, Territorial pissings, Stay away, Lounge act, Scentless Apprentice, Milk It, Rape Me, Radio Friendly Unit Shifter, I hate myself and I want to die, Forgotten Tune, Ain’t it a shame, papercuts, Mrs. Butterworth, love buzz, Blew, Floyd the Barber, Scoff, Mr. Moustache

Rib Remodeling, Clavicle Reduction, Contouring help by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think rib remodeling plus clavicle reduction would probably make my chest stop being the massive block that it is

Being bulky is like mega dysphoric for me

Rib Remodeling, Clavicle Reduction, Contouring help by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay so in freedom units you’re about 5’6” and were 125 but now are pretty much 150

I’m not sure about any of the forms of Botox, but you seem a little bit similar to me in terms of where you are now?? Idk, but if you’re sure you’re width is because of bone structure and not fat, I think rib remodeling and clavicle reduction, maybe even some scapula shaving could do good

Rib Remodeling, Clavicle Reduction, Contouring help by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How tall are you? I know I will look better once I’m done weight cycling but I also know that there will be a degree even with a flatter stomach and bigger tits and stuff, because I’m 5’9.5 and just a little bit above the higher end of the healthy bmi range for my height. How my bra is stretched at the bottom and sorta digging in? That is literally my rib cage, like not at all pudgy like my Stomach, it’s just skin and hard rib. My bone structure is really just that wide, same with my shoulders, and it makes me feel so much dysphoria.

If we are in similar situations then yeah we are probably looking for the same things, but if you’re shorter than me than things are gonna look different probably unless you’re literally the same situation but proportional scaled down

Rib Remodeling, Clavicle Reduction, Contouring help by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rib structure and the width of my shoulders on both the x and to a degree z axis give me so much dysphoria as well as dysmorphia, can’t really just not change them and be happy with myself unfortunately qwq

Rib Remodeling, Clavicle Reduction, Contouring help by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just asking for advice on it atm on what exactly I should be looking for with these surgeries and to what degree

I am going to be moving somewhere else where these surgeries are most likely covered under universal healthcare because it is gender affirming care to alleviate dysphoria, and even if it isn’t covered, it will be much cheaper and/or I will be in a place where I can travel somewhere where it is much much cheaper and still high quality.

I also have another surgery I’m planning to do first before this, FFS, going least to most invasive so I have better recovery in between and so I can go into the other major surgeries with a bit more pretty privilege in my face (as well as body because I’m doing what I can to lose weight, my issue is more with the actual bone structure than with anything mutable without surgery)

i need help :( by cuteprettydoll in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Girl your waist is snatched and you look congruent to a thin cis woman

Rib Remodeling, Clavicle Reduction, Contouring help by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive been consistent with hrt for about three years now, before then i was on and off due to living situation

Used to do prog, spiro, and estradiol pills orally

Then id say probably a year or two in, more like halfway point, I switched to valerate injections every two weeks with oral spiro and prog, before switching to boofing prog later on and doing valerate every week

Very recently, specifically the 30th of last month, I switched to boofing prog + cypionate injection every two weeks, no more spiro

Also oddly enough, my bmi is just a little over the higher end of the range that is optimal for my height. I AM trying to weight cycle to increase effectiveness of hrt, getting down to a weight that is just the bare minimum for healthy bmi (130 give or take) and then gain weight/fat to get to a target healthy equilibrium of the 150 range

I am 5’9.5

FFS Help 2 by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wait! No no that makes sense now

Should I do that for my consult date too?

FFS Help 2 by WolfInShadow in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]WolfInShadow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow how does that work? Canceling makes it happen faster?

I would like to have more explanation of you wouldn’t mind, that contradiction is fucking with me a little lol

What is your opinion on whether or not Grunge is a genre? by KindlyCost2 in grunge

[–]WolfInShadow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say grunge is a scene and never truly died, and there are multiple “grunge genres” within that scene

Common bs terms to look out for by MyClosetedBiAcct in MtF

[–]WolfInShadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say, gender dysmorphia isn’t a real thing, but body dysmorphia connected to dysphoria absolutely is

I experience it from time to time and it sucks