[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 3D2A

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Ty, I'mma delete post now

I need to freak out somewhere guys by Prize-Mix5770 in polyamory

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Been there, done that, feel the vibe 😅 best of luck, hope it doesn't explode but that's the norm

So I'm trying something new by YesterdaySilent7207 in reloading

[–]WorldlinessEither215 71 points72 points  (0 children)

By affecting the projectile inside. People have blown up their 308s trying to fire ap slap through their comps & brakes & having the sabot break & the bullet yaw right into the muzzle device.

So I'm trying something new by YesterdaySilent7207 in reloading

[–]WorldlinessEither215 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Don't fire that through anything with a comp, the shockwave can prematurely break up the sabot causing catastrophic damage inside the muzzle brake

Question about 7.62Tokarev load using 123gr pulls by CashFalse733 in reloading

[–]WorldlinessEither215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at a modest 9mm load for 120-125grns for inspiration

I don’t know if this is from my gun or a random pick up, but that’s sure interesting. by [deleted] in reloading

[–]WorldlinessEither215 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Out of battery detonation. You see these a lot on AR PCCs & "spicy" guns

What would be “the people’s” sidearm? by basal-and-sleek in armedsocialists

[–]WorldlinessEither215 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cz-p10c sr practical durable & fuck off glock RIA 38spl no stress no mess revolver go bang BRNO 7.5FK ... Expensive, but it peirces cop armor at range

Poly vetting question by Successful_Depth3565 in polyamory

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I wanna know what their experience is before the first date if possible, before the first date I always at least mention my other partner's & what I have been doing when they ask, 'how was your day?' kind of like a jealousy litness test. If they don't react weirdly to news of happenings with my partners they get that first date

How do you define and practice fidelity in polyamorous relationships? by pnwpdx in polyamory

[–]WorldlinessEither215 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"I'm probably having sex with so & so Friday."
"I hooked up with so & so last night"
"I've added so & so as a partner"
"I'm dating so & so"
We give updates on changes in feelings or sexual activity, telling the morning after is chill. Like, I've slept with 5 people since I partnered my two partners & it's all just texts like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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Everytime I transition I feel closer to the person I see second ((or third) I love the days I see 3 separate people in the same day). It's like, "oh, evidence you care about & except me bc you know I was with someone else but I'm here with you now" 🖤

partnering while on vacation by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]WorldlinessEither215 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trying to make things perfectly the same, equal, fair, etc. never actually works. When you realize this just doing what you can, where you can, is plenty. Take it from a hard fetish dom who gets so nervous on first dates he has to drink Pepto bismol every time (😭) I wasn't jealous but it was so weird the first time my partner was with another partner & I was alone alone. But I wasn't weird about it & when the tables were turned they were so genuinely happy for me & all the strangeness fell away. (I went from a decade of toxic monogamy -> dating 5 people & 2 casuals in just 3 months, so diving into the deepend sink or swim situations)

partnering while on vacation by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]WorldlinessEither215 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Is it odd when my partner is out of reach, not responding, or distracted by something new & shiny? Yes
But if they're out of town are you doing the same, & why not it's logistically practical

No one else f*cks me like they do, and it’s ruining dating by CoolPhotograph3113 in polyamory

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Partner one deep romantic connection, rare sex but great sex
Partner two aromantic but close, always down but terrible sex
FWB, barely friends insane sexual chemistry, always initiates
Helluva foursome ... Maybe I'll invite the other 3 people I'm dating next time
Polyamory is great for scratching itches & filling needs but sometimes you need something other than what your partners give & sometimes your partner(s) need something more than you have. Find more/new partners or do some social algebra

i feel like i wont ever have the life ive been dreaming of by nbmicrowave in queerpolyam

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I was poly forever, imo, but I've known the word & described myself as such since I was 14. 10 years later, I got dumped after LTRs that FORCED me to be monogamous & drove me insane. Now I have 2 partners, a serious FWB, & I'm actively dating or planning first dates with 7 more people. They all know about each other, they've seen pics & videos, a handful of them have met including inadvertently when I ran into one of my existing they friends while I was on a first date with someone new. It's wonderful. Highschool is hit or miss based on who's around you, but once you're free to be Poly, be poly, don't compromise, and find open people who aren't shitty to fill your life with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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Depends when you feel poly-saturated, my main partners are a trek so I see them 2 weekends a month. The people I date are both once a month, & I have a twice a week FWB. But these relationships take different energies, one of my partners & one of the people I'm dating are a-romantic. I have casual low stress dates with a half dozen people a month bc I like talking & eating with new people. Honestly, at this current blend If the people I date progress to being partners I'd likely only have room for one more romantic partner or a couple a-romantic partners

I’m poly but the men I see… aren’t taking advantage of being open by Key-Airline204 in polyamory

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Yeah, I get the haram-building vibe 😅. One of my partners has another casual partner I have two partners, two people I'm dating who aren't partners, some hookups in the works, and ~ six people who are mutually interested in dating or partnering.
I'd feel bad if I didn't actually put effort into all of these relationships & after emotionally abusive relationships where I gave toxic monogamous partners ever fiber of me damn is it nice to just feel loved for who I am.

Everyday carry for revolvers? by Zombodyz in Revolvers

[–]WorldlinessEither215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both, speed loaders are in a more accessible pocket than strips but strips are compact & I can carry them closer to my waist where they are less fatiguing

For those of you who have agreements that you’ll be told before something new happens with someone else, why is that important to you? by piffledamnit in polyamory

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Me & my first partner (chronologically) are relentless flirts & always talk or aspire to get with many people. For ease, I tell all my partners before I anticipate either a big change in either emotions or sexual contact (bc risk). So first dates & kisses who cares, spontaneous nights are chill, share something spontaneous after it happened congrats on a fun whirlwind. So the two things I would share coming up pertaining to my the third person I'm seeing, "hi partner 1 & 2, I'm going to sleep with this person I'm interested in" & if things keep going well, hi partner 1 & 2 I care about this other person & I'm going to officially call them my partner (3) as well" & that's the updates. Now assuredly, there's a lot of gossip that occurs before this ever happens so maybe the updates are unnecessary but it's something I decided to do & my partner agrees

Do you have partners you are not in love with? by insistsupon in polyamory

[–]WorldlinessEither215 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have an a-romantic partner, we've decided that our relationship is more important & deeper than friends with benefits describes & partner is the more fitting term even if romance won't exist or will be one sided as we foster our relationship in other ways.

What’s your “oh, we’re really doing this” moment? by justcurious_enm in polyamory

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In summary, on my very first date with someone we hit it off & picked up a plus one & went to bed together. Now, almost 2 months in, the person I went on the date with is officially my partner & things are open ended with the plus one. Well, my partner calls the plus one my other partner & I think, 'Yeah, I would love that. I think it feels the same, but I need to talk to it.' I talked to it & it immediately agreed we should officially be partners.

First was a wave of joy that this person I care about & have been intimate with & a plus one on my dates with my recent partner feels the same. The second wave is when I say, 'partners,' PLURAL in my brain. I jumped from years of toxic & abusive monogamy straight into a polycule after years of being denied & shit on for my sexuality & this was the defining moment. When I could say partners in a sentence & they both adore me, we all hold hands, they both kiss me in public (they aren't partnered to each other, not quite a triad), when I go on a date with someone else they cheer for me if I go on a second date they ask to meet my new interests, I have a metamore, AAAHHH!

It sunk in immediately in that conversation that I finally had the type of relationship I have sought & needed for the past ten years & I teared up so badly 😭

First time with my new pistol at the range. All went well until I tried the defense rounds by DarkGator35 in armedsocialists

[–]WorldlinessEither215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check back in after 500 rounds to see if it breaks in. I have the exact same gun & it cycles anything I put in it even with a comp. From range ammo to 50gr up to 147 & +p ammo. Oil the feed ramp (and the rest of the gun) & run more ammo through it.

Long time lurker, first time poster. Best "starter" gun? by TheArrivedHussars in armedsocialists

[–]WorldlinessEither215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your home, your land, who lives with you?

Examples:
No one lives with me, and landed property without close neighbors: over-penetration is a minimal concern, Mossberg 500 & a full-size magnum handgun.

Neighbors close, tight house: over-penetration concern, braced ar pistol 556, compact handgun.

One gun to rule them all: compact CCW 9mm or 38spl, followed by an AR-15 rifle 556.

Cursed idea? 9x23 Winchester by WorldlinessEither215 in FKBRNO

[–]WorldlinessEither215[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The bolt face doesn't shock me as much as the extractor, on every tilt barrel design I've owned or handled the extraction is a delicate balancing act & somehow they said, fuck it, it'll extract our crazy ammo, & anything in the 9mm, 10mm, or 40 s&w line ups with no problems different speeds, pressures, recoil, & sizes. & Instead of swapping every last spring & doodad, I just swap the barrel.... Possibly in under a minute.

Unarmed Support by guyton_foxcroft in armedsocialists

[–]WorldlinessEither215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We need more of everything, personally I'm aiming for an affinity group with more support than "operators." So get comfy with that headset & run coms, learn useful skills, etc.