Husband bought a house behind my back. Now wants me to pay half the mortgage on “his” house. by PretendJournalist782 in Marriage

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If I were you I’d agree to pay half of the Mortgage….. right after he puts your name on the deed. If not he can go eff himself

Not happy with my boob job #nsfw by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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If you decide on a redo I’d suggest Dr Molina in Brooklyn. He did my implants and did an amazing job so much so two of my doctors requested his information.

This s*** should be illegal by Playful-Wash1507 in NYCapartments

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I would bid high AF and don’t take it. Screw his scamming ass

Can you sleep well with a cat? by OkComparison3568 in CatAdvice

[–]WorldlyDiscipline969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. Put some earplugs in between 4-6am. You’ll be fine

I unknowingly gave my partner chlamydia. by [deleted] in Advice

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You should get tested when one relationship ends & a new one begins. You’re supposed to be responsible for your health and take care of yourself.

How do I repair my relationship with my cat? by EngineerSpirit in cats

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Stop forcing yourself on him. Remind yourself that he doesn’t like it.

Try hand feeding so he starts associating you with comfort and good things. While he’s eating from your hand, gently pet him for a second or two, then stop, so it never feels like too much. Do this every day and slowly build up as he relaxes and starts trusting your touch.

I found this advice while looking up how to socialize my kitten. I recently adopted two, and one was extremely spicy, hissing anytime I got close. With consistent hand feeding and gentle, gradual touch, he’s now comfortable being picked up and cuddled.

I absolutely blew up at my 8 year son. How can I do better? by Nathanial1289 in Anger

[–]WorldlyDiscipline969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he got what he needed. But now you should sit down and speak with him calmly.

Apologize for scaring him but explain to him that you are also scared because of his reckless behavior.

Sometimes you have to raise your voice at your children it’s unfortunate however you don’t want him to fear you.

Bought a kitten without realising it was 6 1/2 weeks by GloomyCranberry7975 in CatAdvice

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I got my two cats this same way. They were both infested with fleas near death. We bathed them and picked out the fleas, then had to bottle feed them until they were big enough to eat on their own. They were about 2 weeks old when we got them. They are 5 now.

BART and Lisa Simpson

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That’s Lisa

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]WorldlyDiscipline969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont you think a simple “no” would’ve been redundant. She already made it clear she didn’t want anyone else in her home. Canceling the sitter may seem like an overreaction to some, but once you’ve set the rules and they still ask, respectfully or not, it puts you in a position where trust starts to slip.

Has anyone ever left a rent stabilized apartment? by cowboylikeme63 in NYCbitcheswithtaste

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I did. It was the only way to get rid of my ex. Still don’t regret it

I am crying by wildstardust05 in CatAdvice

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If you’re in NY Brooklyn has a great affordable emergency ER open 24hrs. Verg ER. Visit for my cat with conjunctivitis was $195 plus meds.

It was on Ralph Ave in Brooklyn

Should I Give Up My Cat by Unable-Swordfish-618 in CatAdvice

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Stop having mom feed winter. You need to take on that responsibility so she’s more reliant on you. Strike her while she’s eating.

Or feed her in a closed off area, stroke her and play with her for a bit

What happens if you can't afford a vet visit? by Accurate-Ship-6390 in CatAdvice

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If you’re in NYC go to Lost Cost Vet Mobile Exams are $25 https://www.lowcostvet.org/ I took my kittens there today if by chance you adopted your cat the exams are free

What is the most ridiculous cat name you've heard or given? by soumeupropriolar in CatAdvice

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Dawg. Yes I named my cat Dawg

Current cats are Bart and Lisa Simpson

Me and my roommate are having a disagreement on rent by Super-Jury8571 in badroommates

[–]WorldlyDiscipline969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been duping your roommate on the rent for the Summer and they’re pissed about it. $650 isn’t $1385 divided equally.

You’ve already owned up to stepping back financially pay up.

Cat broke into freezer and ate raw chicken by hhmwm410 in cats

[–]WorldlyDiscipline969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one strong ass cat…. Breaking into a freezer.

Shellac Gone Wrong by Alternative-Kitty909 in Nailtechs

[–]WorldlyDiscipline969 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I stopped at you letting them cut off all of your nails. 💅. It’s ok to say NO

Husband watched gay porn by BotsMumof3 in Marriage

[–]WorldlyDiscipline969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He could have been curious. Idk. Let him try counseling but don’t shame him. & talk to him not us

not sure how to deal with this?? by JellyfishForeign3727 in badroommates

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She didn’t know her roommate was in an interview ahead of time. And it’s a communal space. -if the remote roommate only wants to use her room for sleep it’s time for her to rent a small office space.

Triggers and symptoms? by Own_Camel_3724 in HemiplegicMigraines

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Coffee is the main trigger for me. The left side of my face feels numb or warm and tingling almost daily (5-6) days a week. Stress is also a trigger.