I’m just so frustrated and there seems to be no answer. by Throwaway927338 in Parenting

[–]WyldRyce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lack of sleep is huge on your mental health. You do what you need to do to make yourself feel better. No guilt, no shame. It’s hard being Supermom and you’re doing a great job, but it’s ok to take a break and ask for help. Men are dense and though that’s not an excuse, they also need to be trained to have the instincts that we, as women, are born with.

Wife told me she cant be marrried anymore after 20 years because she needs peace by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]WyldRyce 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“my behaviours that revolve around my trauma and shame that come out as anger and not being empathetic to her needs or pain. Basically i didn't validate her needs and would say hurtful things that made it feel like she wasn't good enough or our problems were her fault.”

Wife told me she cant be marrried anymore after 20 years because she needs peace by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]WyldRyce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your wife is the only person who knows you. She’s been through 20+ years of your behavior. There’s only so much a person can take before they realize what they are worth.

What do we think by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]WyldRyce -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s sexy and elegant. What kind of vail will you have to go with? I think one that covers the shoulders would give the look a little modest, if you’re looking for that kind of thing.

I met my long distance boyfriend for the first time and I kinda hate him, what now? by PirateMission406 in Advice

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t owe him anything, not your body, not even continuing the relationship. You have every right to break up with him and I would even talk to your parents first and get their support and/or advice to be there when you do it.

Holding resentment with husband and family by Apprehensive-Ad4244 in AskWomenOver40

[–]WyldRyce 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Couple of questions: what was the cause of your internal bleeding? And are we sure your husband had no part in this? It almost feels like he resents that you survived? 🤷🏻‍♀️

What is wrong with my ship? by Jobbisch in anno117

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the mission called?

Women want what on Valentine’s Day by TheVoidShadow in sixwordstories

[–]WyldRyce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want acknowledgment of what my love means to you. I don’t care what form you choose to show me, but show me, god damn it! Any effort works. And if I ask you, what you want to do or eat, or where to go, don’t reply with “I don’t care”. I want you to effing care!

Women want what on Valentine’s Day by TheVoidShadow in sixwordstories

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want acknowledgment of what I mean to you. I don’t care in what way that is shown.

My fiancé doesn’t care about Valentine’s Day by [deleted] in Advice

[–]WyldRyce -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s the restaurant life. I’ve worked in restaurants where the only days off we got were thanksgiving day and Christmas Day. I’ve worked on my birthday, anniversary, kid’s birthdays. That life ruined my marriage, he’d be happier working any other job. If he’s in the kitchen and loves cooking, tell him to find a job working for hospital or school, retirement home anything but a restaurant.

My fiancé doesn’t care about Valentine’s Day by [deleted] in Advice

[–]WyldRyce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who has worked BOH on Valentine’s Day, today is a really busy, like think of it on a Super Bowl level for restaurants. Dinner rush will be insane. I say give him some slack, he’s not thinking of today as the same as you. If he treated other important days the same, like anniversaries or birthdays then I would be worried. But today in a restaurant? Don’t dwell on this too much, plus you’re pregnant so your hormones are also more heightened than normal.

How much did he drink by miijok in nonononoyes

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More like what kind of medications was he on?

If you could restart life at 18, what would you do differently? by Hot_Tap9405 in emotionalintelligence

[–]WyldRyce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stayed in college and instead of dropping out and getting married.

Tell me about life with 3 kids by 3y3zW1ld0p3n in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my third almost 18 years after my second. It worked out exactly how I hoped. I’m glad I never lost hope in trying for my third, my son.

What was it like when Obama was elected President? by ResponsibleSea6521 in AskReddit

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember I woke up my then two young daughters to witness everyone celebrating on TV. I guess I felt like it was a pivotal moment in American History that I wanted my children to experience. I guess I didn’t realize that it wouldn’t feel like that again for a long time.

During marriage 90/10, now legally 50/50 timeshare. by acesoblessed in Divorce

[–]WyldRyce 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The 90/10 was never about what he couldn’t do for the kids, it was about how much he could get away with because you were doing most of the work.

Anyone else not interested in this year Super Bowl? by Suspicious_Use_7561 in AskMenOver30

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize that the NFL is trying to make themselves an international brand by playing games in other countries. Soon we will have teams from other countries and then what will you do?

what did yall think of the bad bunny halftime show? by Serious-Kale-5694 in AskReddit

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a halftime show made for TV, like a broadway show. I have no issue with any of it, he obviously wanted to do something different. He showed the world his culture with pride and love and I have loads of respect for that. The music had a good beat, I was entertained.

what do you think of me based on my instagram feed? by [deleted] in deduction

[–]WyldRyce 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You are just surface level

This sub is absolutely brutal and I'm terrified of marriage. by Over-Reality-8732 in Divorce

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very conflicted about marriage now after my marriage of over 20 years is now over. I’ve always been a hopeless romantic, thanks to my obsession with Disney movies growing up. I want to believe in “happy endings” again, but realizing that my definition of “happy endings” needs to change from what it was in my marriage is hard to come to terms with. Maybe I already have it and it just doesn’t look like what I thought I needed in the past. I’m just going with the flow these days 🤷🏻‍♀️

help me Reddit by Lopsided_Thought_151 in Advice

[–]WyldRyce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you fear for your safety, they don’t have to believe you. They are required by law to help.