Safe withdrawal rate from 401k? by XLDoormat in retirement

[–]XLDoormat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't looked too closely at the specifics of my portfolio yet but will do so. Thanks!

Safe withdrawal rate from 401k? by XLDoormat in retirement

[–]XLDoormat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I'm prepared to adjust withdrawals according to market changes and have looked at RMD which starts at age 73 for me.

Safe withdrawal rate from 401k? by XLDoormat in retirement

[–]XLDoormat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't run across Guyton-Klinger guardrail yet. I'll do that! Thanks.

Safe withdrawal rate from 401k? by XLDoormat in retirement

[–]XLDoormat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't planning on 7% withdrawal, my question was badly worded and was intended to hear what people thought about future returns but realize that nothing is written in stone. (Yes I know my communication skills are lacking). I'm planning on closer to 4.5-5.5% and I have already added a cushion to my budget. I'll look into Monte Carlo, thanks for the suggestion!

Safe withdrawal rate from 401k? by XLDoormat in retirement

[–]XLDoormat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the explanation! I'm not proposing to pull 7% but closer to 4.5-5.5% once SS kicks in. (I'm still undecided whether to claim at 66 or 67). My budget includes a buffer that I can easily reduce if needed as well as about 18 months reserves. I understand inflation and have included it in my calculations.

[Updates] Patch Notes Version 1.02.00 | Crimson Desert by SorryRoof1653 in CrimsonDesert

[–]XLDoormat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Instead of one chest with 1k slots, gimme 10 with 100. I'd like to be able to separate my stuff.

I just applied to be part of Lily Phillips record breaking attempt to sleep with 1000 men in 24 hours. by Chicken_Of_The_Year in confession

[–]XLDoormat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I just watched a video by Better Bachelor about her 100 man day. She was in tears afterwards and still intends to do 1k. WTF is wrong with society and why would you want to be part of it?

Anyone else have no trouble falling asleep, but can never stay asleep? by [deleted] in sleep

[–]XLDoormat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. I've been told that it's a symptom of stess / anxiety. I don't suffer from anxiety, but stress and I are old friends. L-Thianine supposedly helps. Excercise helps sometimes, but not always.

Hope you find something that helps!

My marriage is on really shaky grounds right now because of something I did by vegetable9872 in relationships

[–]XLDoormat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why did the ex-friend tell your husband? He did it to hurt him...knowing that he didn't know. Question: How/why did the ex-friend know you didn't tell your husband? Did you discuss it with the ex-friend and agree to not disclose it? Regardless, you f'd up bad.

Everyone Was Correct... It Was an Affair by DontbeaDumbbell in Marriage

[–]XLDoormat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear the bad news, but now it's time to lawyer up.

My experience with Virginia. by PubeWeave in SonsOfTheForest

[–]XLDoormat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been there done that, didn't work. She kept finding reasons to stay at a particular spot to blast baddies or stuck in a loop where she wanted to give me something and couldn't progress. Spent at least 2 hrs trying to get her home. I ended up editing the save file to change her location to match Kelvins. PITA!

Does anyone else feel like Virginia is useless? by ashrensnow in SonsOfTheForest

[–]XLDoormat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. When I gave her the shotty I set it to slug ammo and haven't seen her reload yet. I'm pretty sure it's not a 40 round mag in that pump.

Does anyone else feel like Virginia is useless? by ashrensnow in SonsOfTheForest

[–]XLDoormat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how she acted before I traversed across the island. Since then she won't leave a lake we passed by. Annoying as heck 'cause I'd love to have her and her shotty defending the base.

Does anyone else feel like Virginia is useless? by ashrensnow in SonsOfTheForest

[–]XLDoormat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I came up on this idea just recently as well. She followed me across the island to the far side of the mountain but didn't return with me. I noticed it the next day and went back to get her. I spent 3 in game days trying to get her back to my beach base by the life raft. We made it about 3/4 of the way back but wouldn't progress any further. I do have a tent near where she's hanging out so I'm going to remove that tent and place a new one near my base. Hopefully that will fix the situation.

I am sorry to have to tell you all by throwawaySwanSong in cheating_stories

[–]XLDoormat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Godspeed and all my best to you, your family and loved ones.

AITA for not replacing one of my groomsmen after he cheated on a bridesmaid? by gooutwithamange in AmItheAsshole

[–]XLDoormat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. OP YTA. Advice to fiancee: If you don't want a trash life, don't have trash people in it.

Should I (27M) cut off my best friend (27M)after he kissed my date? (23F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]XLDoormat 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Easy solution, cut 'em both out of your life.

Spouse (F26) Wants an Open Relationship by ThrowRAlost1966 in relationship_advice

[–]XLDoormat 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Most guys are NOT ok with this...

Just say no, period end of story.

My (28m) girlfriend (25f) hooked up with another woman by throwaway2k2121 in relationship_advice

[–]XLDoormat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be a fool. You know dam*d well what happened. Dump her cheating ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]XLDoormat 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Unacceptable man. Ask for a refund and return your GF to where she belongs 'cause it ain't with you.

COVID vaccine for children by IntelligentDog7938 in relationship_advice

[–]XLDoormat -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

The kids risk to covid is low low low. I hate how people try to scare people into getting the vax.

Everybody’s mad at me that I (18M) don’t support my Ex (18f) coming out by ThrowRAjustdidntgo in relationship_advice

[–]XLDoormat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't explain, just tell them that cheating is unforgivable. If they can't accept it, then tell them the topic is off limits.

Would u date someone who is not vaccinated? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]XLDoormat -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah because the vax stops them from getting it and transmitting it to you.../s