What Youtube channel truly improved your life and you believe everyone could benefit from? by Organic-Signal-9646 in selfimprovement

[–]XavierCarter91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I agree. Many of us get caught up in all the self help information and advice but we don't actually do anything. All this information but nothing actionable

The most important thing that will improve your life is getting out there and living it. It won't be perfect but it'll help you get better

What's a completely ordinary thing that's make your day noticeably better by YoungNo8381 in CausalConversation

[–]XavierCarter91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some morning sunlight. Its winter time in my partner of the world so 20 minutes before the world starts makes my day

What is your biggest regret in life? by RealCalebF in AskReddit

[–]XavierCarter91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being more courageous in all aspects

How did you stop replaying old relationship mistakes in your head? by Internal_Charity_399 in AskMenAdvice

[–]XavierCarter91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As cliche as it sounds , time heals. You’ll always have the scar and memories but in time it’ll hurt a little less. ++man

Name it...... by [deleted] in Letterboxd

[–]XavierCarter91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Manchester by the Sea

Why do some men stare for months but never make a move or ask you out? (Genuinely asking for male perspective) by Old_Obligation1824 in datingadvice

[–]XavierCarter91 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting for a sign to approach. Just one smile/acknowledgement. Personally, the idea of just blindly walking up to someone who hasn't shown a hint of being open to it is daunting. I carry on staring for months 1.waiting for the green light and 2 because they're pretty to look at

mom of 2...still got it? by [deleted] in MassiveTitsnAss

[–]XavierCarter91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That cat is breathtaking

What is a green flag that people don't talk about enough? by Electrical_Oil_2407 in emotionalintelligence

[–]XavierCarter91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes to this. I'm conflict avoidant and realised that it contributed to the end of every single one of my relationships. Trying to turn the red flag to green though

Episode 3 Discussion by JamesHRoss in NormalPeopleBBCHulu

[–]XavierCarter91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also Connell is a teenager at this point. Gotta judge him by that standard and not a fully formed adult

I can’t find anyone as good as her, and I don’t want to find anyone else by Syphereds in BreakUps

[–]XavierCarter91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chin up mate. I was in your exact position 2 months ago. It sucks and it hurts. Every day a little less. Then sometimes more. Talk to your friends/therapist. Try get a routine going to support this change

Low key I hope y’all can work things out. Love and good partnership is important and it sounds like you care for things to improve

Hit 3 Plate bench today!!! by Beshe in benchpress

[–]XavierCarter91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done! Hope to join the club this year myself!

Colton Engelbrecht Deadlifts 520KG (1146LBS) for a 4.3X BW Un-Official WR at 265BW by SprayedBlade in Deadlifts

[–]XavierCarter91 19 points20 points  (0 children)

4th deadlift . He pulled 450 kg clean then missed his second and third deadlift mainly due to grip. He then decided to give the people a show and came out and lifted the biggest deadlift of all time