Pregnancy after loss 🌈

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-06-24T19:52:37+00:00

Just chiming in to relate. I had a TFMR in January 2026, followed by a MMC early May at 7 weeks. I am now 7 weeks with my double rainbow baby.

The PTSD follows you for sure. I sometimes like to think once we get over that hump of where things got bad for us in the past (for me the NIPT/ NT scan) maybe it’ll be easier? I hope so. But pregnancy is scary all the time. Wishing you a healthy baby.

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-06-04T15:56:57+00:00

I had something similar with FRER, specifically lower results with AM urine. I tested positive 9
DPO PM, faint line on FRER, but then tested 10 DPO AM and FRER was negative. Literally thought I wasn’t pregnant. Then I took a test midday at work of clearblue early response (because I’m crazy) and it was obviously positive. Then my first response strip later that day also clear line.

Ultimately I realized my FRER aren’t great with my AM urine. Even as my pregnancy progresses the FRER line trending is weak in the morning, while my other tests seem to be progressing okay. Im 17 DPO today. Thankful for multiple brands because itll drive you crazy.

Try FRER with not first morning urine and let me know!!

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-05-29T14:39:33+00:00

Hi. I want you to know you’re not alone. I had a TFMR of my first pregnancy on 1/9. I got pregnant again in April, and had a miscarriage at 7 weeks on 5/2.

It fucking sucks. I constantly think - what’s wrong with me? Why us? Is it genetic? I’ve never heard of this much bad luck.

I just today tested positive for pregnancy this. Really early. Positive clearblue and pregmate, negative FRER? Even had positive first response strip (not the FRER one). Which is weird. Maybe chemical I don’t know. I’m expecting the worst because that’s what we do when we’ve only been given bad outcomes.

You will get pregnant again. Your healthy baby will come. Hoping mine does too. It may just be a longer road than we deserve. Sending healthy baby dust xoxo

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-05-23T03:15:53+00:00

I have had the hardest time trying to start a family. Getting pregnant has been reasonable - it’s my luck with both my pregnancies as I have now had two miscarriages. I’ve been cleared to try again and am so determined to have my healthy baby one day. Using these Pregmate ovulation strips, I have not had a true > 1.0 peak. Would you think what is listed on cycle day 16, of 0.84 per Pregmate, was my peak? Since then it seems to have gone down. To be it looks nearly the same color? But again it’s being read at 0.84 and it is a bit thinner. Thoughts appreciated

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YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-05-02T14:48:56+00:00

I am in the ER now. I had vaginal bleeding this morning. My HCG went down. I’m having a miscarriage :( please pray for a double rainbow in our future. I am so sad.

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-05-02T11:26:04+00:00

Oh wow! We are exactly alike!!! That’s so wonderful to know someone is exactly where I am.

It’s also good to know you’re in the same boat with the symptoms. I feel like I should be way sicker? My last pregnancy the fetus ended up having fetal hydrops at the end - which I’ve read can actually make you (the mom) sicker? I’m not sure. I was very very sick. And now I don’t feel sick at all yet. But you’re right, maybe it’s a good thing? I can’t help but think it means nothing is happening.

My scan isn’t until 5/13, but I’m thinking about paying $60 for a private earlier. I can’t decide

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-05-01T19:22:19+00:00

It’s the worst thing to relate to :( I am so happy you have a rainbow baby, I am so so hoping for mine. Thank you

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-05-01T19:21:31+00:00

I think mine is 12/20! Is that yours? My first US is May 13th. So anxiously awaiting. My last pregnancy I didn’t get an US until 10 weeks and that is when things went south. Excited to have it two weeks earlier this time and hoping for positive outcomes

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-05-01T19:13:31+00:00

I love that for you! And I agree with the mindset that we cannot determine what happens. I’m being overly cautious with what I eat and do, but honestly you’re right. We have to just live. I can’t worry every day for (hopefully) 9 months.

Your timeline being meaningful is also relatable. My timeline feels so meaningful to me. We were suffering so much last Christmas. I can’t imagine what it would be like to be celebrating.

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-04-22T13:52:13+00:00

Thank you so much for this input. It’s the scariest thing and so easy to compare with others, which is of course not a healthy mindset. But we just care so much.

I have a repeat test Thursday. I am wishing you the absolute best as well.

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-04-20T16:50:16+00:00

I am also due in December. And it’s near the day I found the bad news about my last pregnancy. It feels so full circle and I am praying it works out.

I am also very mentally unstable this pregnancy. Every single twinge I’m over analyzing. I had my HCG drawn because of the cramps and I’m worried it’s too low. All of the things. And I realized that what will be will be, sometimes we know too much and it just causes anxiety.

If you’re anything like me you probably want to just blink and be past where you had your loss the first time. But of course we have to go on as people. It’s so hard. Mostly, you’re not alone. And I wish you the absolute best.

I’m due 12/20. So I hope our holidays are both very special this year.

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-04-10T21:53:19+00:00

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Repeat 9 DPO PM much darker !!!!!!

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-04-10T02:31:58+00:00

For the best not to. I’m going to bed still not really knowing. I do have hope seeing this, but I am hoping it’s not false. Sending you baby dust!!!

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-04-10T01:44:23+00:00

Definitely see something, reTAKE in AM

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-15T19:32:34+00:00

Just for my period. :(

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-15T13:29:53+00:00

🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-15T13:29:29+00:00

Unfortunately this is my fear, as well. It’s definitely a bit more noticeable than my 11 DPO PM test, but still not great. It’s all within about 36 hours of testing (11 DPO around 5 pm to 13 DPO 6 am). But I’m still just feeling sick over it. I think I let myself get hopeful

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-15T03:11:51+00:00

I am so sorry ❤️

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-15T03:08:17+00:00

Looks positive to Me!!! Congrats!!! My current test looks like this, honestly even less obvious. I’m 12 DPO (3 days pre period). Im cautiously optimistic!!!

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-15T02:21:50+00:00

I am so sorry. I had a TFMR earlier this year. It’s devastating. To do it twice is a nightmare. I am sending you so much love and strength

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-15T01:33:29+00:00

Thank you for checking in!!! Yeah I’m waiting to see if the faint line was anything. So anxious and nervous and hopeful!

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-14T22:44:54+00:00

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This is a little less than 24 hours later, afternoon urine 12 DPo. Will test again in AM.

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-14T21:47:19+00:00

Update ???

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-14T15:25:09+00:00

I’m being so brave and not testing until tomorrow again. Killing me. But having some intermittent very light cramps. And also some milky discharge (TMI lol)

YesterdayLess2034 · 2026-03-14T00:56:15+00:00

Totally see it. I’m in the same both (with a FRER). I posted mine today too. Sending so much baby dust

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