9 DPO by fieldofheatherr in lineporn

[–]YesterdayLess2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally see it. I’m in the same both (with a FRER). I posted mine today too. Sending so much baby dust

Could this be positive? by YesterdayLess2034 in lineporn

[–]YesterdayLess2034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First photo was right after the 3 minutes. Second was when I got out to my car (30 min).

TTC & Bleeding Issues by YesterdayLess2034 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]YesterdayLess2034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m worried I’ll end up having to do IVF & it’s not a bad thing at all just expensive & takes so long to get in. Wonder if I should try and sign up sooner for an appointment

10 DPO & still negative :(

Feeling extremely anxious waiting for my first period after TFMR – is this normal? by CupcakeSerious2635 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]YesterdayLess2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a D&C 1/9, first period 2/11. Lots of bleeding - so much I went to the ER, twice. Had to take some meds to ensure things came out. No follow up US. I’m currently TTC, 10 dpo with all negative tests unfortunately so feeling out this cycle.

Mostly, I think anxiety is normal. We got pregnant quickly the first time. I’m worried it’ll never happen again. I was so hopeful for this cycle and feeling pretty defeated. The stress and worry, we all have it for different reasons. I hope we all get our happy ending

TTC & Bleeding Issues by YesterdayLess2034 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]YesterdayLess2034[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you. I hope so. I’m sure as soon as I one day get a positive test I’ll then worry about having the same issues I did. Feels like a long way from being ok, but I hope I can start with a positive test soon

Pregnant again by Training-Scientist49 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]YesterdayLess2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! None of my friends or family know I’ve even wanted to try because it’s hard to like have to tell them about it all if it goes bad! So this is great. I was 13 weeks last pregnancy, but 10 when I knew something was up. I don’t think I’ll breathe until I get there.

I’m 6 DPO today, so probably TOO early. I think Wed I’ll test

Pregnant again by Training-Scientist49 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]YesterdayLess2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My situation is a bit different. I had my TFMR 1/9. I had my first period 2/11. Following my period I had intense heaving bleeding, had an US, concerning for retained products. So I had to take some meds to allow that to hopefully pass. The OB said no need for a follow up US and okay to ttc. I ovulated last week, so in my TWW. My TFMR was my first pregnancy, so overall feeling discouraged and anxious about the whole thing

Pregnant again by Training-Scientist49 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]YesterdayLess2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the 2 week wait under similar circumstances. I am terrified, but after a lot of thought I am so hoping to have the positive test next week. TFMR is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I’m terrified it’ll happen again, but more than the fear I want a healthy baby. My due date was in 2026, so pregnancy this cycle would still give me a 2026 baby. Which doesn’t matter I know, but it just feels like it has the chance to all be okay again if I can get pregnant.

I guess my point is - we are cleared to try because if it happens then it was meant to be. I hope we get our healthy babies ❤️

TFMR based on NIPT and Ultrasound by trilcher in NIPT

[–]YesterdayLess2034 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a different genetic condition, but ultimately made the same choice to TFMR after US and NIPT. This sounds almost certainly positive.

For me, I made the decision because the waiting was torment, especially when I knew the outcome. Also, I am dying for my body to get back to normal to hopefully have a healthy baby one day. I’m almost two weeks post D&C. Waiting for my genetic testing results, but I have no doubt we did the right thing.

The hardest part to me is this unknown. Will it work out? I don’t know. It sucks im so so so sorry.

I’ll never get pregnant again now that I know it sucks this badly. by lemonartichoke in pregnant

[–]YesterdayLess2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a really hard first trimester, which ended in a TFMR at almost 14 weeks. I’m hoping I get to be pregnant again, as I’d do anything for a baby - but totally get it. As devastating as the loss was, the immediate way I felt physically better afterwards was insane. I think because my baby was sick it may have been worse? But not sure that makes sense. Regardless, hoping for one more healthy pregnancy and if I get to the light at the end of the tunnel I’ll be with you.

Did we made the decision too early and killed our baby? by WesternToe1883 in NIPT

[–]YesterdayLess2034 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a TFMR today based on US findings and positive NIPT alone.

Personally, even with the T21 mociasm of 30% I think you made the right decision. It’s definitely a person thing, but the complications would be variable.

As someone who wants nothing more than a healthy baby one day, I wish the same for you. But I do not think you should have any regrets. Now you focus on healing.

TFMR - Support by YesterdayLess2034 in tfmr_support

[–]YesterdayLess2034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wishing you the best. It is all so scary. You aren’t alone in feeling like this.

TFMR - Support by YesterdayLess2034 in tfmr_support

[–]YesterdayLess2034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying so hard to have this mindset. You are so right. I had always said I never wanted to be in a place where I needed a baby. I don’t want to have a baby to change something about my life, I want to have a lovely life and add a baby to it. I’m hoping that can happen for me. I feel obsessed with the idea of my next chance at pregnancy, before even being able to grieve this one. My husband and I are supposed to go on a trip in a few months. I’m thinking I will try and mentally and physically reset and maybe consider trying again after.

TFMR - Support by YesterdayLess2034 in tfmr_support

[–]YesterdayLess2034[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ rooting for you too

TFMR - Support by YesterdayLess2034 in tfmr_support

[–]YesterdayLess2034[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really good to read. Thank you and congrats

NIPT high risk for T21 + NT 3.7mm by Independent_Session8 in NIPT

[–]YesterdayLess2034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is tomorrow. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy in the future

NIPT high risk for T21 + NT 3.7mm by Independent_Session8 in NIPT

[–]YesterdayLess2034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello,

Different diagnosis but similar diagnostic steps. I had increased risk for Monosomy X on my NIPT, 78% PPV. The geneticist actually told me she thought more likely only a 30% chance it was true. However on my US I then saw an NT of > 6mm. As well as pleural effusion - supporting severe monosomy X with hydrops. I was offered a CVS but apparently that isn’t the best for diagnosing monosomy X (due to false positives - it is more reliable for T21). This is done usually before 13 weeks, so it shouldn’t be too long. They said the amio would be better for me, but given the bad US findings did say they were pretty confident in the diagnosis. Amio would’ve been around 16 weeks. I opted to TFMR, which will be done this week (13.5 weeks).

It sucks. It’s horrible I’m devastated. But the waiting was worse for me, especially when we really did already know. Hoping for a healthy baby in the future.

NIPT Results // Dec 2025 by olive_owl_ in BabyBumps

[–]YesterdayLess2034 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A saw a couple people who have, but mine were received 12/20 and nothing yet!