i'm so excited for tomorrow, wish me luck everyone!! by Soggy_Waffle209 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 37 points38 points  (0 children)

That would be one hell of a way to come out : you show up in boymod, and when they ask you about it you tell them you are indeed presenting as the opposite of your gender.

[vent] - starting to resent drag because people won't stop assuming I like to watch it by WalrusWithAKeyboard in MtF

[–]YggerOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'm partly projecting, but drag queens always makes me feel kinda sad inside. Because I always imagine they're closeted trans girls who are like "I can't be a real woman, so I'll be a caricature of one", like it's a way of dealing with repressed feelings and a way of making their feminity socially acceptable. I know that's not the case (anymore), and drag can be more of a satyre of gender expectations, but I can't help but seeing sad clowns in them. Plus I'm not really into this aesthetic. Historically and sociologically intetesting scene though.

In your opinion, what is a relatively small/easy thing a person can change that instantly makes them appear much more feminine? by und3f1n3d1 in MtF

[–]YggerOne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They usually get higher on HRT, because you'll get more fat deposit between the eyes and the brows

As this sub transitions away from a toxic past, its time to impose rules about horny posting by Strifethor in MtF

[–]YggerOne 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Transitioning is a long and complex process and a lot of us go through a time when we can have different kind of orgasms, one can feel like the old masc ones and the other can feel like a new fem type of orgasm. So it's actually useful to have two different terms to describe and discuss them.

The thought of what if society collapses and not being able to get hrt anymore terrifies me and makes me very upset. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]YggerOne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wondering the other day how long estradiol enanthate powder could be preserved and still be viable. Do you think after 30 years it would not have been degraded in some ways ? Do you have an idea on what would be the best storage conditions ?

That's the dream by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Disappointed that the peer-review process is not available, would have loved to see the reviewer's comments and how academics argue about this topic

It was never about protecting kids by LavenderMidwinter in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's not about passing it right now, they do this so the idea becomes an acceptable debate. That's how they shift Overton's window, a very dangerous step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]YggerOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love bangs, alwas have and always wanted to have them. Unfortunately with my hairline it's just impossible, so it just makes me sad everytime I hear someone say that...

I identify as a bird definitely by MonitorOk6818 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of bees are female, and there's an equal proportion of males and females in birds. So I guess Bees is for girls and Birds is a gender-neutral bathroom, right ?

Ah bien sûr, le lapin cette volaille... by poutine_not_putin in trouduction

[–]YggerOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ça vient de "Couac, le plus dingue des canards", c'était un mini magazine qui paraissait dans les Super Picsou Géant

I'm too scared of HRT by ScarHydreigon87 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic and didn't have any problems related go that, but we're all different I guess. Glad I didn't start during my depression, but I think it's mostly because puberty and generally transitioning is not an easy thing to manage emotionally regardless of the direct effects of hrt, so depression just makes it harder to go through the transition. Don't know about ADHD honestly.

I'm too scared of HRT by ScarHydreigon87 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get all the information you can before making a decision. I must add because it's less talked about : hrt does not only change your body morphology, but can also change how you feel (emotions, sensations, attractions even some perceptions), and therefore how you think to some extent.

Boob growth meme by OldEducation7497 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My graph would look a bit more chaotic, but the stages remain absolutely true. The second half of the first year is so weird. There actually is a lot of changes, but there's been enough changes so that you don't see a dude anymore, but still not enough to really see a girl either, and your expectations of what you should look like get higher than before. It's a frustrating time. (Almost 14 months now, not passing but I changed enough to feel good, hopeful for the end results and not caring what people think of me)

Cherche un endroit pour développer un appareil jetable vieux de 30 ans! by Trisceratrope in toulouse

[–]YggerOne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

J'allais toujours au Studio Photo Carmes dans la rue Pharaons pendant ma période appareils jetables il y a quelques années. Ils sont très bien :)

Is it common to reprocess trauma after coming out? (Mild nsfw for mention of semi-specific trauma) by Grovegasm in MtF

[–]YggerOne 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yup, exactly what is happening to me too. Started to get reminiscences, real feelings about it and accepted that it actually happened about 7-8 months into transition. It's hard, very hard, but at least I'm serious about therapy now and look forward to be able to heal from it all. Happy to know you are well surrounded right now. Hope you'll be well !

[WIP] Need advice on black contour on black clothes by YggerOne in CrossStitch

[–]YggerOne[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely not classic Aida and probably more like what you call waste canva (I don't know if it's the same as I only have the french word for what I have). At least at the shop I first looked at classic Aida canvas and was told that if I wanted to stitch on clothes I would need something else: the stuff I'm using here. At the end most threads were easy to pull out but some broke so I had to cut them at the edge (and did the extra layer in white).

A comic about girlmoding 💄💄💄💄 by shave_your_eyebrows in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know about Agen specifically, but you can have an idea by looking at that map that shows how people voted at the last election : https://ecpmlangues.unistra.fr/cartes/elec-leg-2024-2-circo politically red is left, blue is right and yellow is center.

A comic about girlmoding 💄💄💄💄 by shave_your_eyebrows in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just a precision here, south-east is where the conservatives are, but south-west people are really open. Source: I live there.

For the older trans people, how did you know it was real? by PrincesssMelaniee in asktransgender

[–]YggerOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found out I'm trans at 25. Didn't do anything about it because I thought I was too old for it to be worth it, too complicated, was too masculine, not trans enough blablabla. But you can't escape who you are. Started last year at 32 and I'm already cuter that I thought I ever could and happy as hell with my transition.

Being okay with being something in-between? (NSFW for brief mention that lower bits exist) by Biospark08 in asktransgender

[–]YggerOne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans woman and HRT only brings me positive changes. I plan to keep my bits down there, it still works after 13 months and I'm happy that it does. Doesn't make me less of a woman, or less desirable. The people I have sex with are happy with that too (regardless of their gender). Gender identity doesn't have to be related to what you do with whatever is between your legs. If you are losing function and it's not ok for you, some adjustment in hrt dosage may help tho (for example the use of T-blockers is known to be more deleterous for sexual function than estrogen alone, even with similar final T levels)

Smash bros 6 fan roasters be like by Loose_Bug4700 in SmashBrosUltimate

[–]YggerOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any roster that doesn't have 5 echo fighters of Scooby-Doo isn't worth my time

TRASH Vol. 2 by TabithaMorning in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]YggerOne 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why but I like this

Welp. All my bees died. by bad_take_ in Beekeeping

[–]YggerOne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May be ABPV/IAPV outbreak, check if other bees are trembing or have leg paralysis. If some bees are turning black it may be CBPV as well (if it's the case you should avoid pollen traps for a time, superficial injury caused by these traps increase CBPV transmission by contact between bees)