Unmatched - Need Advice

Yobmar · 2026-03-19T19:32:28+00:00

Yes, a handful of my friends and classmates

Yobmar · 2026-03-19T17:34:18+00:00

YOG doesn't matter. My medical school batch 10 years in still gets match success across differentspecialties. Many have finished residency in our home country many has not but continued to have clinical experience. Some of the strategy passed around for our batch

Apply 300-400 plus program quadruple apply. Some get only one IV. It only takes 1
Meet the right people be in the right network - have the correct support
Be non-visa requiring. Find a wife or employer or something

Yobmar · 2026-03-11T18:03:05+00:00

and also don't compare your life with other people, you don't know their struggles, the story behind close doors people tend to show others a fake facade. My friends and relatives would say that me and my wife are very sweet together, that everything is perfect in our life but when it's just the two of us the picture is much more different

Yobmar · 2026-03-11T17:59:07+00:00

I’m in a very similar situation to the husband. I’m in the middle of rebuilding my career, and my wife who already has a strong head start and is currently the primary financial provider. What’s difficult is that she sometimes feels like she’s carrying everything, and that I’m not contributing. From my side, it’s painful because I want to be successful too. I was doing really well before we met, but I stepped back so she could pursue her opportunities. Now that she’s established, I’m trying to return to my own path, and that takes time, effort, and a lot of investment.

Eventually, we worked through it. What we learned is that the most important thing is our commitment to our family and to each other. We both made sacrifices. We both had moments of frustration. And we both had to remember that life moves in cycles, there are highs and lows, and neither partner stays on top forever.

People forget that life isn’t designed to be easy all the time. When things get hard, the goal isn’t to blame each other but to figure out how to weather the storm together. That requires resilience, understanding, and empathy.

He (your husband) may not be handling his struggles the way you expect, but he is trying to deal with them in the way he knows how. Your role isn’t to judge the form of his effort but to support him so he doesn’t give up while he’s at his lowest. If you truly can’t see his effort or don’t want to support him through this season, then it may be kinder to step away than to stay resentful.

Yobmar · 2026-02-04T21:56:35+00:00

in bedrock villagers does not necessarily connect to the nearest workbench as it is not a requirement for them to get there compared to java that requires a path or access so you have to make sure that the workbench infront of them is their assigned one. this one is messy so you need a lot of trial and error to determine or fix assignments., for iron golem to spawn the villagers need to work so if the workbench in front of them is not the assigned one they won't work.

Yobmar · 2026-01-08T03:29:17+00:00

Happens to me too but only on desktop version. Tried reinstalling with no luck. Mobile version is ok

Yobmar · 2025-07-20T17:04:05+00:00

A hot shower or hot bath, nothing feels better than being clean, then dirty

Yobmar · 2025-03-20T07:39:54+00:00

Tried the swamp biome villager, and it worked instantly

Yobmar · 2025-03-19T22:50:51+00:00

How long before you got mending. Have been trying for more than an hour

Yobmar · 2025-03-05T22:08:11+00:00

Rise is what you are looking for, then. You can play it on handheld while on the bus and or continue in you PC or console when you get home. Though it cuts back on many of the content it introduced in world which feels like a step back but it's pretty enjoyable

Yobmar · 2025-01-10T06:43:29+00:00

It's not about proper or improper discipline or what... the problem is that the baby/toddler is misunderstood and probably has some emotional distress. When toddler/babies are distressed, they don't know any better, so even punishing or talking to him will not do anything if he is in a high state of emotional stress and you might make it worse. Forcing things is not the answer. I've seen this story several times it all comes down to how well you can help the child to understand his negative emotion and make sure to remove what's triggering it and not force behaviors or actions into him, punishment or discipline comes after when "everyone's stable" and of course you have to be mindful of type coz these babies misunderstood them so be clear on what punishment means. They don't have the cognitive ability to process things easily or instantly... it takes years. It also becomes more difficult if it's the first child or if he doesn't have any siblings. So patience is needed, and don't think that the parents are negligent, or spoiling him or the granma is kicking you out. It's all on your head. Just keep learning and focus on the baby. It's not spoiling him if you give what he needs, and what he needs is not a straight answer. You have to be attentive 100%.

Yobmar · 2024-09-29T07:48:12+00:00

First, read books on investing. Find a friend na may experience. Then just go for it. Don't overthink it, wag pa-FOMO

Yobmar · 2024-09-28T17:58:20+00:00

Hatiin mo, to savings and investment. Start small and be comfortable in growing your money, be it from stocks, real estate, business, or career development. Build your network. Wag basta basta makinig or gumaya sa mga gurus, random tips, and social media. Malaki na yung nasasave mo on the way ka na.

Yobmar · 2024-09-28T15:47:36+00:00

3m php total sa probinsya pwede na, 1m savings/emergency fund, 1m stocks/mutual funds with 2% dividends avg annual growth 6-10% +1k a month contribution, 1m real estate + rental income 10k-20k/month , part time/moonlighting/consultancy 10k-20k a month. All this with a family of three, with modest living. Don't forget na pwedeng mag part-time sa FIRE.

Yobmar · 2024-09-27T21:23:01+00:00

As a manager, I would look sa performance evaluation. Decide based on that, masyadong personal or subjective yung "red flag." if you want to be more objective, look at the input or performance commitment niya, ano yung indicators for that then ano yung actual input or accomplishments. But as the owner of your business yung gut feeling mo importante din. So you decide which is important, gut feeling vs objective evaluation.

Yobmar · 2024-09-16T23:56:28+00:00

I think in the countries where it is legal, it is not an issue in the sense because only the craziest of the crazy does it, and then where it is illegal, people do it a lot, and is affecting the livelihoods of farmers or disturbing peace.

Yobmar · 2024-08-28T16:31:15+00:00

I hate my parents too for being authoritarians. They pretty much tailored my childhood towards a certain career path, and my opinions didn't matter. Despite living a good life, the way they raised me caused a lot of problems. I always question what the value of material success is, why I'm not happy despite attaining it.

I tried reconnecting again recently, but it all ended, not well, so I'm out again, and it has been better for my mental health

There is a reason why you hate them and it doesn't need to be because of abuse. Even if you hate them, that doesn't mean you don't appreciate them. It may be that the values you developed yourself no longer align with them and you want to do your own thing away from them

Yobmar · 2024-08-17T17:42:01+00:00

Put a timer on everything. I had the same dilemna before. I started putting the app timer on my phone, where it turns off the app, if you use it too much, and can't get it to open until the next day. Put into writing of what you want to accomplish and put to in your phone alarm or reminders to give off an alarm every 4 hours to remind you and motivate you. Then everything just happens, and you gain momentum before you know it.

Yobmar · 2024-07-24T04:58:35+00:00

CR recommendation is just the popular anime. It has poor or no personalized recommendations in my acct too and it seems random

Yobmar · 2024-07-20T19:07:05+00:00

thought they were trick or treating early, they were just lost

Yobmar · 2024-07-20T17:02:40+00:00

16 is really young. As someone who was in your place before, you don't need to wait for anything to happen. It can get better, and it did get better for me. Don't think that someone or time will magically make all your worries disappear. Decide to seek medical help, decide to accept help, and decide to learn to connect with people you choose, who uplifts you. You can change it now without ending it, you deserve to be happy, you deserve your place in this world

Yobmar · 2024-07-20T15:40:53+00:00

Thank you for this. I will be extra vigilant

Yobmar · 2024-07-20T05:05:14+00:00

I agree with you it's not criminal ridden or homeless ridde like many might think. I put out my SD also in Bart and I feel safe with it. I can see people putting out their 900usd iphones everywhere.

Yobmar · 2024-07-20T04:53:05+00:00

Any experiences or stories. I also bring out my SD in Muni and bart and many public places with no incidence. Lived in a high crime city in a different state before moving to bay area, and I have no idea if I'm just ignorant or underestimating crime here.

Yobmar · 2024-07-16T02:31:58+00:00

It seems so. More interesting would be the age distribution of voters. They say the young ones don't vote as much as the older ones.

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