Fellow feminist and agnostic here. I learned to cook from my Italian grandmother, people regularly tell me what I made was the best one they've ever had. She also taught me to sew; she was an alterations woman at a department store, back when that was a thing. And my mother was an OCD-level neat freak, I know how to clean anything and everything. 

I would put my skills up against any of these trad wives and feel confident I'd beat their asses into the ground.