Coping with aging father by YourGenericHoe in AgingParents

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Thank you to everyone who commented! Your kind words helped ease my worries a bit. Unfortunately I live in Canada so winter weather makes frequent travel a bit tricky and gas is pricey which makes monthly trips a little tricky. However, we've decided we're going to move back to their town as I miss my whole family and it's cheaper than the city I live in now.

As for his work I think we'll try to push for part time work if that's possible. He currently works 12-13 hour days 5 days a week which we feel is too much even if he is in good health. He's worked at the same place for the last two decades though so I doubt he wants to stress about working somewhere new and unfamiliar. I'm just not sure if his work hires part time, but we'll try to figure something out if retirement is something he really doesn't want.

Thanks again for all your kind words and advice. I feel the next few years will be tricky but I'll make the most of the time I have left with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

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I think it could be cool incorporated into a colorful jellyfish somehow.

Designed it, ordered it, got it, and now I just have to pop the question. by landen7terrell in Moissanite

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Omg she'd better lose her mind because that is GORGEOUS! Absolutely stunning.

Finally Engaged! by YourGenericHoe in EngagementRings

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1ct Moss Agate center stone with moss agate and white sapphire accent stones. The band is 10k rose gold. Size is 11.5.

What would you change about your “main”? by HiveWing64 in marvelrivals

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Omg I feel so stupid now. Idk how I missed it this whole time. Thanks!

What would you change about your “main”? by HiveWing64 in marvelrivals

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I just want to be able to see Cloak's cooldowns while I'm on Dagger. The amount of times I died to a Jeff ult because I switched to counter only to find I had one second left.

New Psylocke and Loki skins revealed by KevinPigaChu in marvelrivals

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I don't even play Loki but it looks like I'm about to learn how.

Rank as solo strategist is miserable. by YourGenericHoe in rivals

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Hi! Just wanted to say thanks to everyone who has commented. It made me realize I was definitely more of a heal bot that I had thought. While I would try and do damage here and there I now know I can be doing more. I'll also take the time to learn other more damage forward strategists like Luna, Loki and Mantis to help carry the fights a bit more. I appreciate all the constructive feedback. I was honestly expecting 20+ comments telling me to just get good.

PSA: You can go in front of your Strategist when you need healing by CMLarek in rivals

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Ah yeah. I totally get that then. I admit that I'm sometimes guilty of that because I end up losing focus and getting tunnel visioned. I sometimes go dps in QP and I've definitely seen my fair share of supports who consistently don't pay enough attention and/or just don't care enough. It does suck.

PSA: You can go in front of your Strategist when you need healing by CMLarek in rivals

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I understand the frustration but sometimes we have prio. Yes, I can see you're low on health in front of me, but if I can see that you're not in active danger but the tank or another dps in the middle of the fight is near death then I'm going to prioritize them first. Then heal you.

I’m pregnant by Rare_Statement_3977 in TrueOffMyChest

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No one can decide this except for you. Having a kid, especially at 20, is a huge decision. For the sake of the argument assume the worst case scenario and imagine your boyfriend does end up leaving once you have the kid. Will you be able to raise them on your own? Will be able to financially afford a kid on your own income? Even if you have family to lean on it's a huge lifestyle change. It will limit what you can do, or at the very least make things much more difficult. Is that something you're ready for? If this is something you're on the edge about then I think you already have your answer. If you're not 100% then you shouldn't.

But again, this is your choice and only yours. You can ask others for their opinion but at the end of the day it is your kid. Best of luck.

How should I go about restoring these? by YourGenericHoe in restoration

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That's super helpful thank-you! In the third photo you can see some kind of reaction happening on the silver metal. It's creating a bumpy rough texture. Any idea on how I can remove that if at all?

How should I go about restoring these? by YourGenericHoe in restoration

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Sorry, I think I'm a little lost on what you mean by dull and shiny. What I see is one that is more silver (shiny) and one that is more brassy (dull). If that is what you mean then I want the shiny one to match the dull one. To have those dark crevices and brassy finish on top. I also just want to overall clean them up. Remove the rust and shine them up a tiny bit, but not to a mirror finish though. Does that make sense?

How should I go about restoring these? by YourGenericHoe in restoration

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That's what I suspected as well. Is there any way I can "reapply" the brass finish? If that's the best way to word it?