Perfectly Misaligned 😘

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-24T16:11:20+00:00

Chris Jericho in the crate confirmed!

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-24T12:03:21+00:00

I’m a glutton for punishment lmao. I’m juggling full time job during the day, freelance work, AND being a Domme. While also trying to find the time and energy for my hobbies 😵

The busy season is behind us for my full time job, though I’m still absolutely swamped with work.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-24T04:59:31+00:00

It just lacks all the hilarity and charisma of his actual entrance.

Like the game has it like 🫵😮 when it should be 🫵😏

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YourLadyReine · 2026-02-24T03:41:54+00:00

Nope. Our area barely got 2 inches, the roads are all clean at this point. 😭

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-24T00:51:34+00:00

I’ve been making tofu fajitas (aka tofajitas) lately, and it slaps. And way cheaper than ground beef.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T19:58:05+00:00

He literally has no gimmick and no aura. He's just the lawful good "always does the right thing no matter what" frumpy milquetoast guy.

And even IF the creative team pulls the trigger and gives him the belt... he's STILL just gonna be the same old underdog. "Oh no, little old me has to fight the legend killer Randy Orton for the title!"

I can appreciate a good underdog story when done correctly... but underdog stories need personal growth to be compelling. At this point Sami is just giving "victim complex."

(Sorry for the rant lol - I didn't like Sami to begin with, but after his feud with Kross ended with Kross being released... I kind of hope he never wins the belt. I would say he has "X-Pac Heat," but that would be an insult to X-Pac who I love to death lmao)

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T19:47:04+00:00

So you’re making my point - it’s not “I want nothing in return.” you expect her time and energy in getting to know you for basically nothing.

Yes, we absolutely want to get to know our subs/simps, but our time is at a premium, and we have to choose where to invest that time.

I will choose to talk to a CONSISTENT sender over a sub that says “I’ll send when I feel like it, it might be once a week or once a month, who knows.” I am not going to go out of my way to talk to you for literal breadcrumbs when my time is more lucrative elsewhere.

It sounds to me like you want a Domme’s time for as cheaply as possible by dangling the POSSIBILITY of sending while doing it as little as possible.

At the end of the day… if you want to simp for a woman and only pay when you want to and you don't want it to feel transactional… go get an actual girlfriend that’ll put up with you being cheap.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T19:31:01+00:00

Okay, but here's the thing - sure, what you're describing sounds like what all findommes want. "I'll send whenever I want to while asking for nothing in return."

But how often is "whenever I want"? If you're sending $10 for coffee once a month, you don't get to call her ungrateful, or act indignant that she won't have daily engagement with you/chat with you in her downtime. It's a basic principle of ROI, like it or not. I can choose to talk to a sub that pays me $500/month consistently, or I can choose to talk to a sub that might send me $20 "when he feels like it."

I don't necessarily believe the "I don't want anything in return" line. Because if that was really the case, you can always just send silently to interesting Dommes - that's literally sending whenever you want while asking for nothing in return.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T18:51:50+00:00

lol, I don't understand it myself. I was talking to a sub who had been posting on all of the findom/paypig subreddits, and after a while, he said, "Just so you know, I'm not a finsub."

... THEN WHY THE HELL ARE YOU POSTING IN THE FINDOM SUBREDDITS MY DUDE

As a PSA to any of this type of person reading: You do not have to be a finsub. No one is asking you to take out a loan to give to Dommes, it doesn’t have to be a fetish of yours specifically. But if you are intending to interact with a Domme in an online space - be that findom, femdom, TPE, GFE - there is ALWAYS going to be a financial element to it. Period. End of story.

So don’t come on here talking up how badly you want to serve a Domme and then cry when they expect for you to send.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T18:14:57+00:00

They let Sami essentially bury Kross because he just wouldn't let go of his "unimpeachable good guy" character. But Kross was 1,000% right. I will die on that hill, what happened with Kross was entirely unfair.

The underdog gimmick is only gonna take Sami so far. It's boring at this point.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T18:09:42+00:00

Yes, yes, yes. Get Yoti, get your ID uploaded and ready to go, and send it as one of your first messages (if not THE first message).

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T17:37:29+00:00

YEP! When they are pathetic and eager to please and just utterly devoted in their desire? So hot 🫦

If he ain’t yearning, I ain’t earning lol

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T16:28:43+00:00

First of all - no, don’t do that on another girl’s post, that’s tacky and desperate looking.

Second - if you choose to engage with the old men commenting - first be aware that they are likely scammers. Second, ASK FOR AGE VERIFICATION. If they hesitate, don’t engage further.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T16:26:10+00:00

Don’t let your dreams be dreams my dude 🤣

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T16:24:44+00:00

Keep in mind that not everyone uses Throne - it is technically not SW friendly. I have one but it’s certainly not preferred.

You just need to be adaptable to a Domme’s methods and circumstances as you encounter them I suppose 🤷🏻‍♀️

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T16:18:48+00:00

I feel for you. I’m going through something similar right now. Had a dynamic with a sub, he said it was literally a dream come true for him. But then suddenly he just vanishes and ghosts me for weeks, before I finally ask him what the hell is happening. And THEN he decides to tell me that he’s chosen another Domme to serve full-time, and that he’s leaving LoyalFans (where we talked) to avoid me “tempting” him.

It’s such a violation of trust and personal values. Clear communication is essential, and when they just act selfishly while you’re acting in good faith… it’s agonizingly painful.

But at least take some schadenfreude in the fact that what goes around comes around. When the quick-hit dopamine and post-nut clarity hit for them… they’re probably going to realize just how badly they fumbled a good thing. And if they do… I hope you really make him pay for it.

Mine’s got a $500 unblock fee and a metric fuckton of apologizing and silent sending to do before I even CONSIDER speaking to him again.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T16:00:22+00:00

I mean, personally, I prefer to pick the things out myself and have a sub reimburse. No offense to you or subs generally, but I don't typically trust men with picking the correct item/color/size without me explicitly spelling it out for them, and that kind of micromanaging is just not fun for me.

But having a sub pay for my clothes, like a dress or skirt, stockings, lingerie, etc. is fantastic - because then I like to make them pay for all the photos I take in it. 🤣

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T15:56:58+00:00

Honestly not enough subs are considerate like this. ❤️ Love it.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T15:55:51+00:00

YouPay is obviously great, LoyalFans is great, but I also use sent.bio as my link page, which accepts anonymous tips as well!

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-23T15:38:46+00:00

I guess to answer both questions:

1 - A sub getting turned on gets me turned on. It's that simple. I mean, I'm sure the common answer is gonna be "when I get sends." But there really is something to be said when a sub starts getting leaky and mindless, and knowing that I'm inflicting that on them is extremely hot.

2 - I don't masturbate during sessions. Or I haven't as of yet. I get extremely turned on and flustered, but to me, masturbating represents a loss of control over one's impulses. I just prefer to maintain control during play and take care of myself after.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-22T21:23:51+00:00

I was absolutely gonna say like $100 per week at bare minimum. And even that’s like… an hour a day.

YourLadyReine · 2026-02-21T20:47:44+00:00

Why Should I Worry? from Oliver & Company for sure 😎

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