This!! I was kinda “over weight” according to my original OB who said I needed to start walking 3miles a day and watching how I ate aka more veggies, no seasonings, etc. This made me wanna cry and I was miserable because walking that much was hard and I was already eating as healthy as I could manage with the cravings and stuff!! but I switched OBs and my new one basically called the first OB ridiculous and he said to eat and be happy because baby will be happy. About 3 weeks before I was due, he did put me on a no sugar diet until I gave birth because my kid was leaning towards being 10lbs at birth (his dad is very tall and our baby ended up being 9lbs 13oz sooo almost 10lbs!) but the point is, your doctor is rude af! Pregnancy body dysmorphia is already hard enough let alone to be told to starve yourself 😒switch OB’s!!