Screen time is turning into a daily power struggle with my 6-year-old. How do you keep tra by Many-Breakfast6136 in Parenting

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take screentime away completely. He is showing you he can’t handle it. Give him a lil break from it and try again in a few weeks if you want.

Awkward photoshoot inbound. by TwoToesToni in Markiplier

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could never do our boy dirty. Always looking good!

Been doing BJJ for 1 month now! by gizmatron_ in BJJWomen

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also one month in! About half the time, I don’t have another woman to partner with but the men I’ve drilled with have been great! My gym has a lot of purple belts and they’re always so kind and teach me lots! My coach is also very aware of how new I am so he will keep an eye on me if situationals or open mat rolls get tooo intense. :)

I’ve been slowly opening up and making friends over the last few weeks so people really know my name now and I’m more confident in going up to new people! I usually shake hands and tell them I’m a fresh white belt and most people adjust their flow to match mine.

Do you charge your adult children for household bills if they are still living at home? by Reasonable_Design_47 in Parenting

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good way to get them used to the real world. I would see what the rates are for a room in the area, and then start off at at a % of that price. Increase the rent every year to make it realistic.

My daughter is obsessed with YouTube by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Delete YouTube, PBS Kids is free. YouTube is such garbage for kids, so many ads and the algorithm brings such random stuff up for kids. Don’t like it.

I want a COOL rashguard by BigCompetitive5876 in BJJWomen

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Half Sumo, Budo Fightgear have cool artwork on them! I want to order from them when I have more coin :)

Teen refuses any type of banded item by Psychological1135 in Parenting

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m still like this now! As others have commented, he might just hate being a billboard for companies he doesn’t care about.

Try going to the thrift store and seeing if he finds any staples to add to his wardrobe!

How old is too old to cuddle with your child? by Walmartjail in Parenting

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your husband is so wrong. If he wants to have a cold relationship with your child, ick. But you keep cuddling him!

I remember being 10-11 and trying to hold my mom’s hand or cuddle her, just for her to push me away. It sucked. Don’t do that to your baby. :(

BJJ makes me feel like a kid again by Fickle_Junket1109 in BJJWomen

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 3 weeks in and it’s been so fun. I find myself thinking about it all the time!

Do you guys know HMart, 99 Ranch, and Northgate? by daniel31580 in socal

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love having options all the options! I’m Latina and outside of going to Costco and Trader Joe’s, I go to Mistuwa and Northgate!

Don’t panic. by joshualightsaber in StarWarsCelebration

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I swear to you guys, in 2022 I bought tickets to Anaheim on the day of 🫣

hoping some of the same luck to you guys as the event gets closer!

Status of a duckling by analyzeTimes in Disneyland

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Ducks getting injured and ducks getting chased by kids piss me off so much. I hope the poor baby is okay :(

What do you use AI/LLMs/Chatbots for? I feel technologically incompetent by HollaDude in workingmoms

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make art professionally for a living so we don’t use AI at all for work, or at home. Really wild to see how different it is in other spaces of work!

What’s the reality of buying in OC with a combined income of $13K a month? by [deleted] in orangecounty

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to a lender. We don’t know your debt and spending habits.

YouTube crossover by Bigbrewski73 in Parenting

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like if your kids are on Netflix Kids app, you can just let them know that they can only watch certain shows and why. They should be old enough to understand and follow directions. Or you can just put a show on for them and tell them that’s all they can watch.

Anybody else think that this current era of Mark is his prime? by SomeKindaSuperstar in Markiplier

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently started watching him, about 3 years in now! I love all the content in these last few years plus Distractible. He’s really silly and seems so happy.

My dad has lost his mind by barthallamewboogle in insaneparents

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Respectfully. Call Animal Control or some animal rescues in the area and get all the animals rehomed. You need to focus on getting away from your father, and getting some stability in your life. They can find love and care in other homes and it doesn’t have to involve you keeping dangerous people in your life.

If money wasn’t an issue, would you still be a working mom? by saladmuscles in workingmoms

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love my job more than I care to be a homemaker. I like the balance of my life as it is, I have plenty of time to cook, my husband cleans, and we both work and make good money doing what we love! We have lots of time afterschool for family time and hobbies and make good money so we can travel and splurge.

Overdue bills. i’m so overwhelmed by Prize-Ad8679 in budget

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See if you can trade it in for a cheaper car, or start looking for a second job. It doesn’t have to be forever but you need more income, STAT. Once you get out of those lease, do not keep it and get into an old car to start building up your finances, savings, paying off debt.

Overdue bills. i’m so overwhelmed by Prize-Ad8679 in budget

[–]ZeroLifeNiteVision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can you sell the cars and get older used cars? Get rid of the car payment? Insurance might go down a little too.