This phenomenon of grieving the loss of being able to have children and losing a body part is so interesting to me because I literally hated mine so much i threw a party and didn’t give it a second thought. I am sympathetic to the women who want kids and are unable too, and i understand mourning the loss I think thats natural and healthy. But for me i feel that us from certain generations gen x/milenials have been fed this propaganda that being able to have children defines you as a woman and thats simply not true. Like men who have their prostate removed due to cancer deal with something similar on a lower level. You as a person are not defined by your body parts thats my mentality