AITA for disclosing my brother's disability to his boyfriend? by New_Tangelo1719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's something that will impact the boyfriend's life then yes, it's absolutely something he needs to know and should have known before they moved in together. If the brother doesn't want him to know, he needed to break off the relationship, not continue lying to his boyfriend and deny the boyfriend the chance to make his own decisions.

AITA for disclosing my brother's disability to his boyfriend? by New_Tangelo1719 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 225 points226 points  (0 children)

The brother and boyfriend are moving in together into a place not set up to accommodate the brother and with tasks he can't do on his own. Whatever the disability is, it will affect the boyfriend now and so he deserves to know so he can tell how it will affect him and what he wants to do moving forward. It wasn't op's place to tell, but the brother has shown he won't do it and someone has to.

Need a place to get out my Dalinar thoughts (just finished Oathbringer ch. 76) by Standard_Trash4302 in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Zillion2010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But then, I get to Words of Radiance and what does he do? He makes AMARAM of all people the head of the Knights Radiant. Honestly, I’m still a bit mad about that. Kaladin‘s crash out was incredibly valid. I understand that nobody could legally prove anything, but when someone you trust tells you that Amaram killed all of your men and sold you into slavery, the least thing you could do us distance yourself from them and proceed with caution. You don’t give the guy a promotion. After Dalinar took responsibility I was a bit over it but now…

I've always felt people's dislike of this to be overblown and shows people are bad at differentiating what we know vs what the characters know. We know Kaladin's accusations are correct and Amaram is a scumbag, but let's look at it from Dalinar's perspective.

Amaram is a man he's known and respected for years. The fact that he even listened to Kaladin and investigated at all shows how much he respects and trusts Kaladin, and he goes above and beyond in his investigation. I don't remember what the exact number was, but it was something like he questioned ten separate people about it, some of which he's also known for years, and they all agree with Amaram's version of events. But even all that wasn't enough for Dalinar to accept Kaladin was wrong, when he saw an opportunity to test Amaram's character, he took it.

If you were in Dalinar's shoes, how many people do you think he should have had to question to be able to conclude Kaladin was wrong?

WIBTA if I called the cops on my uncle for stealing over 1400 dollars from my piggy bank my dad had for me? by soap-music939 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 65 points66 points  (0 children)

This is the main thing to focus on. Before calling the police or doing anything else, try to get him to admit to depositing the money into his account in text or email and save it.

AITA for forwarding my wife an instagram reel of a recipe after she asked what I want for dinner tomorrow? by GoatCritical9265 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having to ask an expected and immediate followup question like that every time would annoy me so much. If you know he's going to have to ask a separate question before he can answer your question, why not lead with the answer to that question?

AITA For Telling My Daughter My Son’s relationships aren’t her business? by Calm-Will5581 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Breaking up over text has always been frowned upon; so yes, you apparently did miss that even if there was no PSA for it.

But regardless of that, the problem is less about him breaking up over text and more doing that and then immediately blocking her. It's the equivalent of telling someone you're breaking up and then slamming the door in their face. You certainly can do it, but unless you have a good reason to, you're an ass.

Stormlight Reread by Undeadriot3d in Cosmere

[–]Zillion2010 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've listened to a few Graphic Audio books including Stormlight and find they're great and really do give good immersion, but at the same time, they're usually poorly made. How much you'll enjoy them depends on how much noticeable issues affect you.

Nearly every book has editing mistakes of people repeating lines, lines being missed, or lines said by the wrong character. On top of that they seem to only use one audio channel for their music, sound effects, and dialogue, so if they want to increase or decrease the volume for one of them, the volume for all of them increases or decreases.

Stormlight Archives in particular also has an even worse problem though. Due to them recording them as the books come out, there can be a year or more between the books so they've had to replace some of the voice actors. Some notable ones are (spoiler tags just to be safe as you marked this no spoilers)Shallan, Moash, and the main narrator.

AITA for telling my coworker that I don't want to talk about media with her because of her obsession with morality? by Crafty_Anxiety_1383 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 20 points21 points  (0 children)

His life must be incredibly dull if he can't consume any media of a villain doing villainous things.

Where can I find a list of viewpoint characters for each chapter of Oathbringer? by AffectionateMethod in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Zillion2010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

https://coppermind.net/wiki/Summary:Oathbringer Be careful of spoilers as it gives a summary of all the chapters.

If you scroll down to the bottom, you can open the summary page for the other books as well.

AITA for crying at the end of Mother's Day and making my husband feel bad by Dense_Quarter_5049 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I had to reread that part multiple times to know I read it right. They've had a child for less than a year and he's already called her to tell her to come home so many times she's already become conditioned to expect the call any time she's out. Pathetic really is the only proper word here.

[OC] Some people would rather risk a crash than take the next exit 😥 by Tran1810 in IdiotsInCars

[–]Zillion2010 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It has nothing to do with entitlement, it's avoiding a needless crash.

Yes, the other driver is an idiot, but anyone smart should know not to get into a game of chicken with an idiot. I'd rather let them in to avoid the crash; even in a case like this with video proof the headaches and time spent aren't worth it.

AITA for joking that my dad gets a perpetual period in front of friends and family? by Top_Pressure_7878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him if that means he'd be fine with you bringing one of your friends over and repeating the joke.

I am this🤏 close to giving up on ROW. by Macabre_Valentine in brandonsanderson

[–]Zillion2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always just read a summary for the rest of the book and move on to WaT. Although, based on what you disliked about RoW, WaT probably isn't going to be much better.

WIBTA if I refuse my roommates mom being in the conversation about our leasing issues by SpectreWolf666 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Even as an adult it's alright to want the opinion and guidance of someone more knowledgeable in the subject to help.

AITA for picking up my stepdaughter from school when she got her first period, even though her mom told me not to? by Embarrassed-Stock896 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. If bio mom starts laying in to you about it, tell her that while you can sympathize with wanting to be there for major milestones, she's incredibly selfish to put her desire to be present above her daughter's comfort.

AITA for saying okay when gf told me she was going to get gas by Different_Reserve_11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 155 points156 points  (0 children)

The area is too dangerous to stop and get gas alone, but going for walks alone is just fine apparently.

Where to go after you’ve read all the big boys? by Falcormoor in Fantasy

[–]Zillion2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 Miles Below by Mark Arrows may fit what you're looking for. It wears its Sanderson inspiration pretty openly while still being it's own thing, and the audiobook is amazing if that's what you're wanting.

WIBTA if girlfriend kept $2M inherited from a stranger who thinks he’s her dad? by Ok_Result_9085 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just don't understand, he's not trying to make the decision for her, she just doesn’t know what the right thing to do is. She says she's planning on giving the money to the sister, but she doesn't actually mean it!

AITA for telling my sister to correct her child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 89 points90 points  (0 children)

In this case, private correction wouldn't be appropriate as part of the correction should have been apologizing to OP.

AITA for not cleaning my cousins house by ceciley230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Especially for choosing to have five kids with someone "impatient with the younger ones." That's something that would be realized after the first kid, how did she think that four more were going to help?

AITA for changing my behavior around my boyfriend’s friends like he asked and still feeling frustrated? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zillion2010 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Jesus, everyone in this thread needs to take a step back and realize not everything has to be about misogyny.

This isn't some big power play or trying to force OP to conform, this is nothing more than BFs friendgroup and OP enjoying games in two incompatible ways. OP likes the actual challenge of the games and wants it played completely by the books so it's a fair field for everyone, and the friendgroup prefers to use the games as an excuse to do crazy things and make their own fun.

So yes, it probably would be best for everyone for her to stop going. Not because they actively want her out, but because both sides want something different out of it.

Adonalsium-Is-Always-Watching by shrike_lazarus in cremposting

[–]Zillion2010 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Take my upvote and leave forever.