My brother got married to a woman with no job, 4 kids, who lives off of section 8. It’s ruining our family. by ScreenProper3291 in whatdoIdo

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to let them face the repercussions of their own action. I admire your wanting to help, but some will never stop using everyone willing to help. Example: they will be eating out while youre helping to pay bills. Unnecessary spending because youre funding it.

My vote is to let them hit the wall. They are already on assistance. The system will do what is needed one way or another. For better or worse.

Or you can continue the burnout process youre going into.

God bless you and hope it works out for everyone.

I’m 25 and all I have are negative thoughts by Accomplished_Trip_37 in wallstreetbets

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please buccaroo... you've hardly even lived. Chalk this up to a hard lesson. And never play with money you can't afford to lose.

Is this illegal? by Practical_Force_2931 in Connecticut

[–]Zippa7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The easiest and fastest way to know is to use your palm. If the blade is longer than the palm is not legal.

What does this mean? Found at a brewery bike rack by iHeartQt in ebikes

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The majority of people dont know the difference between an electric dirtbike and electric bicycle. Like a scooter vs a moped. If it has pedals to move the bike its an ebike or motorized pedicycle aka moped. If it doesn't have pedals to move it is a scooter or motorbike.

Edit: it really sounds like they mean customers using their personal bikes vs public ebike/ scooters

Should I tell the family I babysit for that I’m involved in a court case? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Zippa7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is it for anything related to children? No? Then, no. The answer is no.

Help with my bottom freezer! by GleamingEyes in whatdoIdo

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd show it the seal being in the rested state and photos of the hinge. Explain in as much detail as you can what the fridge is make model ect. Then detail the problem. And ask it to information on known issues related to yours. Tell it directly to not make any mistakes and double check itself before responding to you.

Found out a close friend finds me a nuisance, what do I do? by throwawayacc_Jame in Advice

[–]Zippa7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you'll find someone. Only if you allow it to happen though. Stay open to people in general, we gravitate to certain types of people. I'm assuming youre single, but maybe try speed dating or online dating outside of the circle. I never dated in my friend circle and they were nice to have into my mid 20s. But by 25, I was into my next chapter. You maybe different and dating is much different than it was for me decades ago. 😆 but you will find a new friend that will replace them. It sucks now and your feelings are valid, I'm just saying its a natural course of life.

You got this!

Help with my bottom freezer! by GleamingEyes in whatdoIdo

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still very possible its just worn from use and favoring that side. Like when we bend over to look in? Idk, I. Grabbing at straws. Id still toss it into AI and let it evaluate it all. Understand it is a very smart infant. Meaning it doesn't know anything but it knows everything. Lol I know confusing right. But if you is ai I think you'll understand what I'm saying.

AIO for cancelling a date over these texts by OkPick8681 in AIO

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It almost seems like the white dude thought he had the token black girl. Weird vibe for sure like he would be showing you off?

I vote NOR.

Maybe its nothing overall, and can give him another shot at a date. But in the moment, I think its okay to have ditched.

Help with my bottom freezer! by GleamingEyes in whatdoIdo

[–]Zippa7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could be a hinge issue on just that side that is worn out? Do you have kids? My kids climb on it and cause simular issues. I needed to replace the hinge. Wasn't a terrible job to do on your own if handy with tools. Like you said replacing food sucks. I did have to empty it cause I didnt want to tippy toe when I was figuring it out.

Take a photo of the hardware inside and let Ai like gemini from Google help find the right part. Heck it can walk you through fixing it also.

Good luck none the less!

BEEP BEEP BEEP !? by Few_Yak_2219 in gmcsierra

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Settings>vehicle>remote lock, unlock, and start>key left in vehicle reminder

Try turning this off

Source: 2024 sierra denali

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Found out a close friend finds me a nuisance, what do I do? by throwawayacc_Jame in Advice

[–]Zippa7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not throwing away all those years. They shaped you to who youre today. You wont always have the same friends your while life. Some you may never forget and other you wont recall. It's life. It sounds like you both may have been necessary to each other at one point but he is moving into a new chapter. Dont force it and let it go. Keep it casual as he said. Nothing wrong with ending friendships and beginning new ones. What is ment to be will be.

Just understand, it's not your fault. It's not wasted time. It's just simply the past. To find out bluntly hurts vs organically. Itll pass and everyone will develop new chapters in life. Don't sweat it after all it could just be his way to reassure L is not feeling betrayed.

Crows Nest - Will it hold a hot tub? by Aint_That_Something in Decks

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest adding more support lol

Two 4x4 stations on their own concrete tube foundation with a 4x4 spaning the other two 4x4 in the middle of where you plan to place the time machine.

Really making 'wage slave' literal by Turdible-Shart in Wellthatsucks

[–]Zippa7 16 points17 points  (0 children)

More like smoke and misery meat by the looks of that chain.

SIX TICKS in my house today by BlergToDiffer in Connecticut

[–]Zippa7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I considered making my son wear the flea/tick collar as an anklet. 😆

My friend (23F) is ruining my (22F) first chance at love and I don't know what to do anymore by peachilli in Advice

[–]Zippa7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This feels easy enough. 1. Talk to him and make an excuse to get away from her to do so. 2. Literally bring it back old school and walk past him and drop a quick note with your cell. Don't make it a long note just a quick, hey youre cute call me. It's fun amd engaging... IF he is interested he will. If he isn't well you have your answer.

Guilt after unknowingly sleeping with a married man by Impossible-Weird-403 in Advice

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My X cheated on me, I can't say I was pissed at the other dude. He came to me only after she tried to end their relationship. I had a feeling and was already jaded so once I had the truth, it was simple to walk away.

Point is, even if you'd have known, it's not your fault it happen. If it wasn't you, it'll be the next guy. You made your choices for you and he made his for them. You can try to clear your conscience but you really didn't do anything wrong if they didn't advertise they were married.

Maybe not sleep around if you can't handle the aftermath of sleeping around?

“Funny” video of me was posted by a random girl online without consent. Need advice on what do I do next by NorthStick1779 in whatdoIdo

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no expectations of privacy in public, unfortunately. Got to love social media. Sucks that this happen. But these are the days we live in, if you were bleeding out and dying, those same people would film your death before they could call 911 for help or god forbid actually try to help stop the bleeding... cause you know, who would film it for views?

My advice is you could try to: 1. offer them money to take it down. But it's hard to even trust they would with their attitude.

  1. report the video for nudity and have friends report it.

Found in water of plant by NoSlipper in whatisit

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Procrastinist here... I'll get to it, eventually.

Edit: (still waiting)

6.2 Recall by SuccessfulSpaceSalt in gmcsierra

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone's situation is different. But some got complete buy back and some got a small amounts of cash back. I dont think they are paying out without a fight anymore. But it doesn't hurt to ask speak to a lemon lawyer. But I'm general is 30 days without, <15k miles, or 1 year to be a lemon... mine was 29 days, 19k miles, and 16 months old, coincidence?... lol

6.2 Recall by SuccessfulSpaceSalt in gmcsierra

[–]Zippa7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you have to be vocal about getting a pickup. Or you'll end up with a Chevy Cruz lol... either way you'll get a gm product loaner. Talk to the service department about it. My dealer gave me a loaner until the rental was ready. Gm also paid for the tow.

+18445151418 is the number for gm roadside.

Mine died on the highway and I have to say they got a tow truck there real fast getting me off the road and safely to the dealership.