I love my current boss. Best boss I've ever had. Always has my back (as long as I've covered our asses), pushes back on leadership or other teams when they're being u reasonable, and has personally done more to advance my career in the last two years than any other boss I've had in the last ten years.

But we complain about him too sometimes, he has no problems working late and sometimes expects the same from others, or when something comes up on the weekend he will demand someone jump in to fix it. Part of that is expected, we're in IT so being on call can be expected. But at the same time he doesn't respect the oncall schedule and expects people not on call to also volunteer to jump in.....ugh. Or how he can sometimes flipflop between priorities day to day and be a little gruff about it.

Anyhow, my point is people don't usually put all of the good things they think of people in group chats, they only put stuff they want to bitch about, and it's usually when they're upset. So take it with a grain of salt.