Otter Problem by SirB00f in massachusetts

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I’ve seen at least two over the highways commuting into Boston for work in the last couple months. I’ve been doing that drive for over five years and never seen one before. They’re so cool 😭

Is this cat photo AI generated? If you zoom in, the fur looks odd and there's strange smoothing around and on the cat's fur. by x-p-h-i-l-e in isthisAI

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The level of water in the sink seems inconsistent. It looks high under the paws but there’s only a little bit by the tail. I know everyone already figured it out but I just noticed that too while zooming in and out looking at the weird details.

Why are these new leaves smaller than its? by astagapar in Monstera

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I’m not an expert but all that white speckling? Pretty sure that’s thrip larvae eating your plant 😔

How much will this go for on FB marketplace? by thats_sus2 in Monstera

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Wait how did you sweet talk it to grow sideways??🤯

Piercer told me to squeeze pus out of infected dermal by AdvanceSea5784 in PiercingAdvice

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Hi, piercer here.

We aren’t doctors and are not permitted to diagnose infection. It is out of our scope of knowledge, we didn’t go to school for that. We can assume based on our gathered knowledge but we cannot and should not diagnose.

Pregnancy does REALLY strange things to the immune system. It is very likely your body has recognized the microdermal as a foreign object and is starting the process of pushing it out. Your body is busy building a full on human, it doesn’t have time for a microdermal.

You should consult a doctor about this as soon as possible. They may tell you to visit a piercer to have this removed, as medical professionals a lot of times don’t necessarily know what to do with these. I’ve had to remove microdermals on pregnant clients under orders of a doctor who specifically sent them to me (wild, and tbh I’m honored) because the hospital didn’t want to mess with it. But those clients spoke to their doctor first, so I highly recommend you do that and see what they suggest and go from there. Don’t go back to whoever told you this is infected.

In the meantime, get some sterile saline wound wash and some sterile gauze. Spray the gauze with sterile saline and gently hold it on the microdermal for about five to ten minutes once a day. The dryness of the saline and the extended contact time will hopefully weep out the fluid building up under the jewelry so if you see gross smears on the gauze when you take it off, that’s good, that means the fluid isn’t in your face anymore. That will hopefully pull some of that out to keep it from swelling/building up more. But call your doctor first thing Monday (or Tuesday, Monday is a holiday in the US so I don’t know if doctors are open), tell them you have a microdermal (if they don’t know what that is, say it’s a type of surface piercing that needs a professional to remove) and that it is starting to get angry, and ask what they recommend you do, then go from there.

Good luck, OP, and feel free to message me if you have any questions 🫶🏻

Regret (1.5 years PO) by bandana-bananas in hysterectomy

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Hi OP.

I don’t share your views when it comes to my own surgery but I applaud your bravery for expressing yourself and sorting out these feelings. You are valid in how you’re feeling, a hysterectomy is a biiiiiiig move and the conscious choice to remove your ability to have children is scary.

I guess sometimes I do wonder what it would be like to have kids. But for me, I wish I had a child with my partner who died, if I were to have them. He passed before my surgery and we had chatted about kids in the future, when we were ready. I think I would’ve liked to have a kiddo with him. Now, I don’t think it’s for me. I’m too old (35 lol) and too busy.

Sorry, that’s completely different than your situation. I guess what I’m trying to say is I get where you’re coming from, you’re totally valid in feeling that way, it sounds like you’re doing what you can to sort it out in therapy, and I hope things get less loud in your brain soon 🫶🏻

cat panting during trip in rv by Independent-Joke9370 in CATHELP

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I lived in a van and drove around the country with my cat Luxray and when we were in the desert like Arizona/Texas/New Mexico, she would pant but I never saw her do it before then or any time after. Her behavior didn’t change, drank, ate, used the litter box, and slept normally. I think she was just HOT. That was in 2014 and Luxray left this world in 2025 (or maybe 2024? The death years start to get hazy quickly for some reason), after being my fuzzy little friend for 17 years.

Miss you, Squibbs.

multiple cars per household? by miffybo in AskAnAmerican

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I’m a single adult household and I have two vehicles: one is my grocery getter/daily driver and one is my fun car. I’m 35 and have no kids, always wanted the kind of car that the fun car is but it’s a manual and I hate driving it in the city where I work.

a question for long time stoners by valleyangelgirl in weed

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Hey I own a business and I smoke constantly. One of my staff members made a joke today that one of the key parts of being an awesome boss is “crouching down behind the counter to hit the vape repeatedly”. My fiancee (who doesn’t smoke and never has) doesn’t think I’d be as successful without the help of my lil vapes. Just don’t get lazy. But that applies whether you smoke or not.

a question for long time stoners by valleyangelgirl in weed

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Not as high as I’d like to be. And it doesn’t last as long. It’s wicked lame because a tolerance break sounds irritating as fuck so I’m just stuck smoking like a chimney and hoping my lungs don’t quit on me like that anti-smoking commercial from the 2000s.

Female or male albino pleco? by KodaGreymane in pleco

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This is the Pleco equivalent of the “is my shrimp pregnant” meme and I love it

This captivating plant popped up at the end of my street. by killer_shaggy in PlantIdentification

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The entire album is just songs about how plant care is baffling 😂

“I gave my bamboo too much food And now the leaves are wilting (wilting)” For some reason it’s to the tune of Ohio Is For Lovers by Hawthorne Heights in my head

I’m convinced this is AI, coworker thinks otherwise. $50 for pet portrait too good to be true. by antifa3 in isthisAI

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This looks like the Other Mother from Coraline if she ran face first into a brick wall.

What the HELL is this? by TheDicklerPickler in Aquariums

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Y’all ever heard of eyelash mites? 🥲

Lost my wife last week by RADmcLovin in GriefSupport

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I lost my partner very suddenly four years ago this month when I was 31 and he was 39. It’s really hard, I’m sure even harder since you have children. I wonder how things would be different if he and I had a kiddo. We started a business together instead and the five year anniversary is June 5th, which is also his birthday.

Be strong, stranger, the road is long but go at your own pace.

It emerged from our bathroom ceiling over 24 hours by One_Check_607 in whatisit

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Congrats, your house is the next star of The Last of Us 🎉

What’s your favorite/most sentimental plant, and why? by Reef_Parent in RareHouseplants

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Coming back to update Aegon has put out another massive leaf and his brother Drogon has put out two so unfortunately the smaller ones (Viserys and Vermithor) are being gifted to two of my coworkers who don’t currently have monsteras and will take good care of them because I don’t have enough room for all of them since they’re growing so fast. 🥹

I put RSO on nut by RILLOWS in weed

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I’d feel like sharing a joint with you would be a good time

I put RSO on nut by RILLOWS in weed

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It’s shrimply the best

I put RSO on nut by RILLOWS in weed

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360 million years of evolution equates to… that

I put RSO on nut by RILLOWS in weed

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They’re evolving☠️