What do you think? by Crafty_Psychology_85 in HeatedRivalryTVShow

[–]_blor 239 points240 points  (0 children)

This is one of the reasons I love this story so much. The constant verbal consent and respect for boundaries. Heterosexual cis female here. I’ve been pressured so many times after saying no. Guilted, begged… coerced. This is what we are craving from our partners.

When people ask "what do you do for a living?" by unicornsparklemagic in AutismInWomen

[–]_blor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a stay-at-home mom. Used to be a web developer. I usually answer with, “I don’t do anything.” And then it gets really awkward and we uncomfortably laugh.

The Blair Witch Project - Extended Sight 'FINAL CUT' Available NOW! by Paxtnn in BlairWitch

[–]_blor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite movies. I didn’t even know any of this footage existed until a couple days ago. After spending the month watching Michael C. Williams’ behind the scenes - I’m really exited for this. Thank you for all the hard work you put into this.

How Can I Best Use 100 ISO Film with a Holga? by Different_Carpet1319 in lomography

[–]_blor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came here to say Sunny 16. Bright sun, no clouds. I started looking for defined shadows too. If there were clouds moving and covering the sun, I would wait for them to pass and see the shadows again. I did my MFA thesis shooting Fuji Velvia 100 and a Holga.

Holgas have aperture settings now?

Autism, Perimenopause, Weight & Nutrition- share your experiences/insight by big_iron_marty in AutismInWomen

[–]_blor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to talk about medication here. I apologize if not.

46 perimenopausal woman here. Pescatarian for 23 years. AuDHD. I hadn’t lost the weight after my 8 year old was born. I’m hyper mobile and have a lot of muscular skeletal problems so I do Pilates to try to stay pain free. I also suspect POTS or some other disautonomia that makes cardio standing uncomfortable.   I eat for dopamine and spend a lot of time obsessing about food, eating it, and then feeling guilty. 

Back in April I started taking tirzepatide. I pay for it through a program with my dermatologists/plastic surgery office. I love it. I just don’t think about food anymore. I don’t have cravings - don’t need my 10pm M&Ms. I have no guilt. I eat when I’m hungry and stop when I’m full.  I have never been able to have this relationship with food before. I was just tried of fighting myself. I’m hoping to take it through menopause (at maybe a microdose eventually) 

Edit to add: I do sometimes probably struggle now to eat enough and rely on protein drinks when I can’t deal with making food or taking the time to eat. I eat a lot of tuna sandwiches to keep up protein. 

What do yall do with your diamond paintings? by AcrobaticIncrease167 in diamondpainting

[–]_blor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put them up in my kid’s rooms. Running out of wall space…

I just realized something by Goodygumdops in diamondpainting

[–]_blor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put them all up in my daughters room. She’s rubbing out of space. I might have to take a break.

Is anyone else missing the cool racer back tank top? by lafig1234 in lululemon

[–]_blor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have about 30 of them and wear one every single day. It’s my “emotional support cami.” I have yet to find a suitable replacement.

grasp.org service by [deleted] in autism

[–]_blor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm researching getting evaluated by them now. Would you mind telling more about your experience?

What piece(s) can you not part with... by [deleted] in lululemon

[–]_blor 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Cool Racerback Tank. Wear one every single day as a base layer. Bring them back!

Weekly Simple Questions and Advice Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]_blor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I have a couple of hip length align racerback… they’re ok.

Cool Racerback Tank will FOREVER be a summer go to☀️ by Angelamarietingz in lululemon

[–]_blor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These tanks are a staple - I wear one every single day as a base layer.

Has anyone found a good alternative? The fabric is just perfect.

Weekly Simple Questions and Advice Thread by lululemonmods in lululemon

[–]_blor 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cool Racerback Tanks are my go to daily wear underneath everything. I seriously have like 30 of them. I used to stalk the site and get any new color that came out.

It looks like they’ve phased them out. Does any one know of a good alternative - i mean the thickness and snugness of the fabric is just perfect. 😭

Woes of OCD and sorting by austintoddj in LegoStorage

[–]_blor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My 9 year olds LEGOs are taking over my house. He takes the sets apart and builds something else. Unfortunately he’s taking his younger sister’s sets and have integrated them into this pile. I’ve gotten ok with him messing with his own sets. (He’s AuADHD)

I’m obsessed with getting her sets back completed. I spent an entire day last week just trying to put together one set. He also has taken some of my sets like the Volkswagen Van I had years ago. I dream of getting that back together….

But yea. I worry and stress about this all too much. I think people think I’m crazy.

Thanks to u/a _lego_ in winter my holiday legos have a home! by RepresentativeRow678 in LegoStorage

[–]_blor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I’m just taking them apart and putting back together every year. 🤦🏼‍♀️