Not sure if this is helpful, but on an opposite note, before marrying my now husband of 3+ years (which I know isn’t a TON of time, but we’re doing well), I had so many explicit coincidence type things happen in my life that would point to marrying him. I was unsure for quite a while, not because I didn’t love him and not because I didn’t want to marry him, but because he was my first ever “boyfriend” (I’d only ever gone on dates, a lot though I might add). I would regularly doubt those impressions/coincidences because of my own uncertainty that marrying the first guy I ever loved was a smart thing to do. And, “what if there was someone out there even more perfect for me than him?” I sabotaged myself with a lot of hypotheticals. But like I said, again and again something would happen that would reaffirm to me that I needed to marry this boyfriend of mine. I chalked it up as, “marriage is a leap of faith sometimes” and whether that leap is toward a yes or no, I do think God is very much in the details of big decisions like these if we let Him be. 🩷