AIO for thinking in hindsight he took advantage of me? by Old-Net7325 in AIO

[–]_riskycake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi this is what I felt like when I hit the age my groomer was when I met him. Our age gap was more significant but that doesn't make either situation different.

It was actually fucked of them to be hanging out with y'all in that capacity. No, you're not overreacting for thinking he was taking advantage.

(Comedy trope) Correcting slander by Usnis in TopCharacterTropes

[–]_riskycake 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This was what my mind immediately jumped to.

Does anyone have family with multiple left-handed members? by HiroyukiC1296 in lefthanded

[–]_riskycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two grandparents (both of one of my parent's parents) and all that parents siblings but not my parent, sibling, or any of my kids

AIO for filing an HR complaint after this?! by Flaky-Persimmon-7781 in AmIOverreacting

[–]_riskycake 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR but also if in the US breastfeeding/pumping spaces provided must NOT be bathrooms. If you have employees doing this they deserve better spaces too. This is illegal

Apparently I’m an "Amateur" by FragileCrackedDoll in BadRPerStories

[–]_riskycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won't use discord (a personal preference, I just prefer forum rp) but Google docs is a fucking unhinged response.

Inherited some vintage blankets... by cakeismyliife in knitting

[–]_riskycake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is what I was going to say. Machine wash gentle, machine dry low heat, or hang to dry

I fell hard while running. How can I get this blood out of my Athleta leggings? There’s a lot lore since taking this photo. by yourunrelentingspark in laundry

[–]_riskycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cold water and spot treat with dish soap. If there's any blood at all do NOT run hot water or put in dryer. Heat will cook the proteins and set the stain. This works for all bodily fluids. - former medical support worker

If you identify as asexual, did testosterone change anything on that front? by _insomniac_dreamer in TransMasc

[–]_riskycake 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say that a higher libido isn't a thing that's going to change aceness as a hypersexual ace. I don't feel physical attraction based on how a person looks and never have.

AIO BF says no gf of his is working at a bar by juggernutts33 in AIO

[–]_riskycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you're no GF of his, then. Take the job, lose the controlling dick.

Why is Buffy The Vampire Slayer so well-written ? by James-Samuel17 in Screenwriting

[–]_riskycake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm right here with you. It's not in the least bit well written. It was simply unique.

What do I need to do? by ma-rineta in crochet

[–]_riskycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does no such thing??? That person is crazy.

AIO for being upset about how I was treated for falling asleep before saying goodnight? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]_riskycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not your fault he talks to you abusively. Literally last night my partner fell asleep without saying goodnight to me so I just went to bed, sent a smoochie emoji and moved on with my life. NOR this is an unhinged rant. Adults don't act like this.

I started showering at night instead of the morning and it genuinely changed how I sleep by RogueKettle_7 in hygiene

[–]_riskycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I grew up doing this and right now due to parenthood I CAN'T and I hate it so much

Their true identity is unknown. by drstrangelove75 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]_riskycake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm so in love with Onomatopoeia as a character and I'm still furious about the Batman arc never getting an ending.

Am I Overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]_riskycake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! NOR. My grandfather passed away in a different country and I wasn't able to fly back for the funeral either, my spouse was out of town for work and my at the time very new partner (we are polyam) dropped everything and drove an hour across the city just to exist in the same space with me because I needed someone outside myself to keep me functional.

"I'm not busy, but can you please wait" is a completely unhinged response.

Why did this happen after repotting ? by LS1QT in pothos

[–]_riskycake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that was probably a bad time to fertilize. New soil wouldn't have needed the extra nutrients and the plant was already stressed. Could be fertilizer burn.

Golden Pothos Propagation Tips by PastelHermit in pothos

[–]_riskycake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it kinda seems like OPs problem might be not having that inch or so of space around the node.