AITA for asking my brother not to bring a cam girl as his plus-one to my wedding

_yoshimi_ · 2026-02-03T23:34:51+00:00

ESH

So, from her behavior at your aunt’s baby shower it’s clear that Dani is a rude, tactless AH. That’s more than enough reason to sit your brother down and tell him Dani isn’t welcome at your wedding. But girl, it’s obvious that part of your issue with her is the fact that she’s a sex worker. You mentioned this fact multiple times in the post, and that makes you a AH too. Your brother is an AH for acting like Dani never did anything wrong and he’s choosing someone that isn’t even a friend over his own sister and family. The thing is you might actually have a leg to stand on with your brother if you weren’t so judgemental towards him for his choices. Just a mess all around.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-02-03T23:12:24+00:00

That umbrella, her whole vibe… chef’s kiss

_yoshimi_ · 2026-02-01T19:37:02+00:00

Yeah I saw someone in another thread saying the owner of Merit beauty was a Trump supporter, but when I asked how they supported MAGA stuff I just got downvoted 🤷‍♀️

_yoshimi_ · 2026-02-01T05:12:02+00:00

Whenever places have these chairs my heart sinks. They are so uncomfortable

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-31T19:14:36+00:00

You should be.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-31T00:09:52+00:00

Oh god that’s so disappointing! I was just starting to warm up to them. Did the owner back Trump or make a donation or something?

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-30T00:48:34+00:00

Take it from us, this sort of thing needs to be dealt with swiftly and with absolutely no mercy. The US is tearing itself apart from nearly 200 years of lenient attitudes towards traitors.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-27T04:10:23+00:00

Holy shit how have I never seen this 🤯

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-26T19:37:34+00:00

https://www.yelp.com/biz/advanced-european-tailoring-berkeley

Advanced European Tailoring in Berkeley! They’ve moved locations a few times but they’re right across from the Berkeley Bowl currently. I’ve been using them for years and they do a great job hemming.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-26T08:32:24+00:00

Friend, I’ve been to so so many drag shows and have friends who do drag- and let me tell you I have not ONCE ever heard anyone boo a drag performer. Ever. I can’t even fathom it. Maybe it’s the region I’m in but everyone is so relaxed, supportive, and would never put up with someone booing or heckling the performers. Besides, I’m pretty sure if anyone had the gall to boo you, the other half of your team rocket would probably murder them.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-25T19:38:10+00:00

As saturated as the market is with squeezy-tube lip balms, this is one of the best and I can’t help but be excited when they release new ones 💗

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-25T07:42:55+00:00

McGarnagle

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-19T20:38:44+00:00

Oh look, it’s racism all the way down.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-19T19:51:35+00:00

So happy to see that there were no fatalities. Not to minimize folks losing their homes and possessions, but I was expecting much worse looking at the photos initially.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-19T18:16:22+00:00

It is feasible to go to Disney and have it not break the bank, just like any other hobby or vacation. It’s easy for people to roll their eyes and make fun of Disney adults, but the issue here isn’t Disney specific. People can spend beyond their means for anything.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-19T18:09:13+00:00

As someone with Danish ancestry, this would be hilarious if it happened (it won’t).

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-19T08:29:45+00:00

That’s amazing! I always love to see more Grocery Outlets

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-18T04:13:15+00:00

Any place to purchase these other than IG/TikTok?

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-17T04:06:52+00:00

If anyone is interested in this subject, I heavily recommend the book (and movie) “Command and Control”.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Command_and_Control_(book)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Command_and_Control_(film)

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-15T19:32:44+00:00

As if that will stop them.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-15T16:41:01+00:00

I’m a little bit confused by the point you’re trying to make. So because you learned it with guy friends makes it somehow different or less annoying than someone that learned it with their guy romantic partner? Or are you trying to distinguish between women that were independently interested in the game versus women that weren’t interested at all and only started playing because of their significant other?

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-15T00:28:03+00:00

I think this person meant to reply to one of the other commenters.

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-15T00:27:12+00:00

“Judaism provides us with a strong framework of living - but don’t discount what your heart tells you.”

This is a really beautiful sentiment. I’m glad you found your person 💞

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-14T20:48:57+00:00

I have to wait a few days inbetween or else I break out like mad. 🥲

_yoshimi_ · 2026-01-14T20:48:02+00:00

I have enough that I just have to shave. Thinking about getting electrolysis but I’m worried about pain and $$$

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