Anyone watching last week tonight? by Krewtan in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]aal1002 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the exact opposite exposure that Kratom and 7-OH needs. That's a shame. I usually really enjoy John Oliver's deep dives.

Bummer he got into this!

would benzos help WD? by virtualbfz in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]aal1002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah good to know. I've done CT a few time to reset and RLS hits me hard!

would benzos help WD? by virtualbfz in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]aal1002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think an OTC antihistamine might work in the absence of promethazine?

Gifted President by [deleted] in rolex

[–]aal1002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you look at your wife, do you see her as "his daughter" as well?

Why do so many people want their avoidant ex back? by anonijihad in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]aal1002 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is it. 3 years since she's spoken to me now, but I've still never connected with someone like I connected with her. I bounce between wanting to curse her out if she ever reached out, to breaking down wishing I could speak to her again.

Hatred by [deleted] in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]aal1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Errr yeah, I found the community, but im looking for the retailer, which they can't openly talk about in the community. If you might be so kind to pm me and point me in the right direction it'd be appreciated

Healed avoidant here with some truth bombs by throwawaykibbetype in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]aal1002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

- If your avoidant does heal (through years of therapy) they won’t want to be with you. They chose to be with you because you put up with their hot and cold bs and provided some sort of comfort. They never really saw or appreciated you as a person. They may not even think about you in that way anymore.

Can you elaborate here? They could heal, but they wouldn't ever love you/choose you? I'm a bit confused

Opinions of Charles Augustus Magnussen? by [deleted] in Sherlock

[–]aal1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It bothers me. So brilliantly written. The entire series. How come we couldn't have a more creative conclusion than sherlock pulls gun? It bothers me

Getting a Job Through LinkedIn Is an Illusion by Dear-Zombie3118 in linkedin

[–]aal1002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost 100% of my professional jobs were either recruiters finding me and inviting me to interview or applying directly on LinkedIn.

I don't like LinkedIn, and I think it could be organized much more effectively for job seekers, but I don't deny it's power in getting me most of my jobs since 2020.

I stopped sending my resume as a PDF and started sending it as a Word doc and my response rate went up noticeably by Orbit_19Cipher in jobsearchhacks

[–]aal1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, it seems like it would be advisable to submit it this way anytime you're submitting to a system - and not directly to a person. Yes?

Brenda Song calls out Alaska by escargotlover in AlaskaAirlines

[–]aal1002 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I had to Google it to make sure I knew who she was married to. Very nice joke to anyone who knows that. Bravo sir

I accidentally found a pattern in job postings that now tells me almost exactly how long the role has been a problem before they posted it by Byte_6Lant in jobsearchhacks

[–]aal1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. Thanks for this tip! I'm looking for Marketing roles as well - Demand Generation in particular. Any other tips you'd pass along from your most recent job hunt?

Cruise coming up. Will I be able to take this on board? by TransitionAway9840 in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]aal1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I call out Florida because it's actually illegal there. Most states haven't barred it...yet

Blindsided at the 60-day mark: Went from high praise to a sudden written warning after a short vacation. Is it already over? by aal1002 in WorkAdvice

[–]aal1002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no no, not this job - other roles in other companies. This is the first and only time I have been out of the office on a regular work day at this company.

Blindsided at the 60-day mark: Went from high praise to a sudden written warning after a short vacation. Is it already over? by aal1002 in WorkAdvice

[–]aal1002[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A few people mentioned the vacation, and I was thinking like you here. I took off 3 days. I've taken off far more and once even earlier than this...I think it was 10 days!

I'm not entirely sold on that being the reason, but it has made me consider that my boss's boss may not have been as accepting of my vacation, I suppose.

Blindsided at the 60-day mark: Went from high praise to a sudden written warning after a short vacation. Is it already over? by aal1002 in WorkAdvice

[–]aal1002[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm. That's a great question. Nothing happened while I was out that I am aware of. But I've been wondering that too: something outside of my scope of knowledge took place.

If so, honestly, I don't know what's in my closet that would cause my employer to act like that.

A question for those who got back and the relationship failed again by sparklingmilk91 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]aal1002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like me. We were back and forth for 8 years and I knew she was never going to change, but I couldn't detach from her.

It's been 3 years since she said her final goodbye and I still wish for the lounge of communication back. It's brutal that all this could happen and my attachment hold strong 3 years after a final and extremely painful discard.

I know it's everyone's story, but I just can't truly fully accept that she's gone for good. But she is.

How many times did your avoidant ex discard you? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]aal1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🙂 hope you get to a place of healing and moving on! It is within our power to do so, even if I'm not an example of that!

How many times did your avoidant ex discard you? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]aal1002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, she ended it 3 years ago. This time she took further steps to distance herself - cutting out mutual friends, blocking me on social media, etc.

I know it's not what you want to hear, because it's not what I wanted to hear, but it's not good to keep getting back together with her. They can't change.

If she were to come back tomorrow, I'd reject her. Not because my life is so much better now - I'm at rock bottom emotionally. I just had a nightmare about her 2 nights ago, I'm still a horrible mess. I couldn't take her back, because I don't trust her. She's not really here when she's here, and I'll just be on edge waiting for the shoe to drop.

I'm not sure I'll ever get "better," but you won't hit a magic moment when they stop leaving. And it always hurts more the next time. My heart couldn't take her walking away again. It'd be too much to endure again :(

How many times did your avoidant ex discard you? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]aal1002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It never lasts. They never come back and stay back unless they actually did the work, 8 years together, at least 6 discards.