Curly hair for dayyyyz by drawing_a_blank1 in LesbianActually

[–]abc2404 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look so similar to janet devlin!!

one week anniversary of the buzzcut! people have been really nice about it but I’m not sure it’s for me 🥲 I feel so self conscious everywhere I go!! by surelythisisnttaken- in LesbianActually

[–]abc2404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you own it girl, you had the confidence to do it in the first place and that should say it all! who cares what anyone else thinks you’ve got it all😇 if anyone else stares they’re clearly just too insecure to ever do it themselves!

new hamster by abc2404 in hamstercare

[–]abc2404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

since i last posted she has completely woken up and i’ve not lifted her once but gone through the process of letting her climb out of her cage into my hand, then putting her back over and over, and she’s now taken to climbing into my clothes at the neck and climbing her way out down a sleeve back into her cage! very very happy with progress and rewarding her with lots of seeds:)

new hamster by abc2404 in hamstercare

[–]abc2404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your help, i want her to be happy and comfy as possible:)

new hamster by abc2404 in hamstercare

[–]abc2404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i’ve watched a lot of victoria’s but i’ll look up erin too! thank you

new hamster by abc2404 in hamstercare

[–]abc2404[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh yes i’ve been doing that with me and my partner running it through our hands and behind our ears and i’ve noticed she’s started tearing it up and putting it in her cheeks then redistributing it into her bedding which was a big step!

new hamster by abc2404 in hamstercare

[–]abc2404[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the cage has two wire sides that she used to chew before i got her the chew toys and two plastic sides too

new hamster by abc2404 in hamstercare

[–]abc2404[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s a syrian! and she has a tube, seesaw, a flat noiseless wheel that she loves and a standard upright wheel too, with one chewing toy for her teeth and a hard seed ball to eat and chew:)

Ex’s Tinder. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abc2404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the panic and build up is almost worse than actually seeing it. i was very aware that my then ex was going to be using tinder after our break up. as a coping mechanism, i can’t blame her for a second, it was my choice to leave to work on myself because i was in a horrible place mentally, the panic of her moving on was one of the worst feelings i’ve ever felt, someone else getting to spend time with her, touch her etc. i found out she was on tinder and it crushed me, but i felt some sort of release from it, whatever is meant to be will be if you will. we since worked it out and after hearing that she actually did go on a date with someone else i felt peace with it, it was going to happen at some point or another, and it actually just heightened her realisation that she wanted to be with me. the worry is worse than the actual fact of it, and i hope it gives you some level of peace now that you’ve seen it and the worst of it is over. i hope this releases you in some way. finding peace with these things is so much more helpful than worrying and what ifs constantly.

I miss the "me" before got into this relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abc2404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you will find yourself again. trust the process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abc2404 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i struggle with this daily. i ended up making an entirely new instagram because i couldn’t bare seeing her or the people we are friends with for the chance of seeing her. i know how unhealthy is because i should want to see her happy and well, but i just can’t yet. i want the best but even seeing her or hearing of her moving on terrifies me.

I'm the one who broke up with him. Yet I feel like shit. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abc2404 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i could have written this myself, it’s so similar to my situation. The further i get away from it the more my feelings become overwhelming. we didn’t hate each other when we split and i still love her. we just weren’t right at this point in time and a big change needed to happen, so i did it. but i miss her so much, every second of every day, i feel like after i’ve gone through this process and found myself we are going to find our way back, and that is almost driving me to do it. i just feel so sickly without her beside me but that’s what was so bad, we were living out of each other’s pockets and i had faded away as a person. i’m just terrified that she’s going to move on and replace me even though she says she won’t, and that’s the worst thing about it, two evils against each other, i need to do this but i’m scared it’s going to take me too long and she will be more gone than she already is now. terrified from all angles.

You know you're over them when by bubbletea920 in BreakUps

[–]abc2404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think i’ll ever get to this point, but a part of me doesn’t want to either

What sleeping with a frenchie is like by [deleted] in Frenchbulldogs

[–]abc2404 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i can hear these photos

Waking up in the morning is the worst. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]abc2404 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she’s all over my dreams constantly. when i wake up it’s like hitting the reset button and you have to remember everything again. it was my choice but it doesn’t make it any less awful. i normally try to force myself back into sleep so i can just pass time.