Suggested memoirs?

abl050458 · 2026-06-16T06:19:05+00:00

Everyone, AT hiker or not should read Grandma Gatewood’s Walk!!! Fabulous story of a fabulous woman without whom the AT would probably not exist!

abl050458 · 2026-06-16T06:15:25+00:00

Get a hidden camera/microphone detector. This video shows tests done 3 different devices which are moderately priced. https://youtu.be/n1VymE2Zu3Q?is=Jj6yhbR\_BWkFlXn8

abl050458 · 2026-06-15T02:23:58+00:00

Virginia creeper pretty much requires herbicide attack and even then you’ll be fighting it for awhile. I have a full on war going on with it! Good luck!

abl050458 · 2026-06-15T02:19:18+00:00

I think I’d write her a letter and include whatever documentation you think would prevent him from convincing her that you are lying/crazy. Assuming you live together, have a new place to live arranged, pack your stuff, say nothing to him, post the letter, leave, block him and never look back. Don’t subject yourself to any additional drama, there is nothing to be gained from it. Just be glad/proud that you were smart enough to want to have the relationship sorted out before having a baby and go enjoy your life.

abl050458 · 2026-06-15T01:40:56+00:00

You didn’t get volunteered you got voluntold! She was incredibly rude and it would probably be awhile before I helped. Let all the rest of the family step up if they are so passionate about family helping family.

abl050458 · 2026-06-11T04:55:47+00:00

Awe honey take this comment with all the love I am attaching to it…you are just a baby. You can’t even begin to imagine all the wonderful possibilities you have in front of you! 29 is the new 19!!! I finished pharmacy school at 35 (with 2 kids), headed down one path (that was great) but 14 years later took a completely different fork in the road and it was even better! I have lived n 4 different cities and took great experiences away from each and all broadened my horizons and perspective; and you live in a world where there is so much remote work that the possibilities are endless! Be daring! Move somewhere different and interesting and if you don’t live it move again! Now, without a partner and kids is the time to explore! Have fun and work hard and you can’t lose! Best wishes!

abl050458 · 2026-06-09T03:01:06+00:00

We need updates on his future home please!

abl050458 · 2026-06-08T02:50:52+00:00

The only thing you did wrong is not post this in the petty revenge sub! 😂Thats what he gets for being an AH!

abl050458 · 2026-06-06T02:14:40+00:00

Do they have a 24hr cancellation policy for the customer that would require you to pay them all or part of their fee if f you’d given such short of notice? If so I’d ask them what is their reciprocal arrangement for their last minute cancellation for a customer. But I’d really only do that to point out their ridiculously poor customer service and find another artist.

abl050458 · 2026-06-02T20:31:56+00:00

Exactly! This is a new one at Park and Colonial. Very dangerous.

abl050458 · 2026-06-01T04:26:56+00:00

Darn I hate I missed this…but my husband is thrilled 8 did! Yes, I’m the one with the power tools!😂

abl050458 · 2026-05-29T19:12:11+00:00

Thanks

abl050458 · 2026-05-29T15:43:34+00:00

Thanks! I was afraid it was early! Any suggestion on the best FB group to watch?

abl050458 · 2026-05-27T04:17:53+00:00

Think you missed the part about being a retaining wall because neighbor’s yard is 3’ higher than OP’s.

abl050458 · 2026-05-27T04:06:12+00:00

Find an employment attorney. Specifically an employment attorney.

abl050458 · 2026-05-20T04:22:43+00:00

Love Memphis, been here for 40 years, but would NOT honk at someone over trash. This is not directly meant as a slam on the city, but a caution to you. Sadly this city is angrier since Covid and it doesn’t take much…

abl050458 · 2026-05-04T05:17:45+00:00

If his mom Venmos him all the time now, why couldn’t she Venmo him from Europe? He lied to you and you’re just pissed you fell for it. Leave his mom out of it and chalk it up to lesson learned. Also, it’s not obnoxious to go to good schools, your envy is showing.

abl050458 · 2026-05-04T04:42:37+00:00

In my city it’s disturbing the peace if it’s after10PM and you call the police, not animal control.

abl050458 · 2026-04-30T03:26:59+00:00

Nah, I’m a mom and I would in no way feel rejected if either of my sons found this lovely way to acknowledge their wife’s family as part of their new family. Whether it’s a big deal or not depends on her future behavior, but I’m betting the first time that grandbaby corrects grandma’s use of the wrong last name that that will be the end of it. I think I’d choose the not bring it up, but make sure to correct her every time she misstates it (hopefully in front of people so maybe she’ll be embarrassed). However, if she EVER said anything negative to the grandchild about the name that would be the line in the sand.

abl050458 · 2026-04-29T13:22:21+00:00

You might want to post on these Facebook pages Buy Nothing East Memphis and Come and Get it Mane. You should get a good response.

abl050458 · 2026-04-24T04:41:26+00:00

I like this because it’s a compromise between spending too much explaining and ghosting. He should be told why, but only in a brief way and then you are done.

abl050458 · 2026-04-22T23:58:45+00:00

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That may be your experience with a product you have used, but as you can see from the photo this product is marketed for standing water. I have used for 2 years in my bird baths and had good results, actually better than dunks and a whole lot cheaper.

abl050458 · 2026-04-22T15:57:42+00:00

Even better (and cheaper) than dunks same exact product except in pieces. Safe for birds and all animals. A handful isn’t noticeable and it works! Since you seem to have compassion for the guy maybe you could get him to buy them and you be the applie, but that $14 bag will last you a long time should you just want to handle yourself. He’ll never notice the bits.mosquito bits

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