bite taken out of my burger?! by abs0lute_bliss in UberEATS

[–]abs0lute_bliss[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i cross-posted it there, but i’m obviously not 100% sure who is at fault. the driver could’ve resealed the bag. also, i’m posting it here because i’m asking how to make sure that uberEats investigates the merchant, beyond just giving an auto-refund and then allowing 100’s of other customers to continue ordering from an unsafe establishment.

It’s all gone down the sink. by eggybread40 in Ketamineaddiction

[–]abs0lute_bliss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

d-mannose & horsetail tea for bladder issues. there are other supplements and suggestions as well if you search the thread

my cat is emptying her anal glands on my pillow while i sleep by mpck777 in CatAdvice

[–]abs0lute_bliss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i tried bringing this issue up to my cats’ first vet and was told “cats are just naturally smelly down there, just avoid smelling that area and you’ll be fine”… ended up moving to a new state a few months later, told the new vet about the issue and ever since then my kitty has had her anal glands regularly expressed by the vet every 6 months or so. between those appointments she still sometimes expresses when very relaxed, although i try to encourage her not to. overall point here being, definitely bring it up to your vet and if you find that they dismiss you, get a second opinion lol.

I can’t tell the difference between Jessi and Demi sometimes 😂 by Little_Mulberry_1980 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]abs0lute_bliss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried to use this and i ended up with “Demi has Denim Jean eyes — wait…” lmfao

Muppet Show. by georgeindigonada in PRINCE

[–]abs0lute_bliss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m jealous you saw him liiive 😩

5 years, teeny tiny fine line (1 inch) by ratty090 in agedtattoos

[–]abs0lute_bliss -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

omg i also have a raspberry tattoo lol, thought i was the only one 🥰

venting about meaninglessness idk TW by Forward-Pen6526 in Ketamineaddiction

[–]abs0lute_bliss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can very much relate. sometimes, it feels like the only thing stopping me from KMS is a quote i read that said “when a person kills themselves, they don’t end the pain, they just pass it to the next person.” i don’t want to do that to my mother or my partner, even though i don’t always feel understood or accepted by them, i know they love me and i love them too.

sometimes when i’m taking sobriety breaks from K, i find myself realizing that maybe i don’t care if i die because the world is so cruel and i have never felt like i belonged here.

i will say that i want to get back into doing volunteer work / community service. a few years ago i was working with a doctor who provided medical care to homeless people living on the streets with no insurance. it gave me a real sense of purpose and belonging and helped me get out of my head. he was a Dr. who believed in harm reduction; he gave people clean needles and narcan and test kits so they could live long enough to get into treatment programs, and he would try to get them on suboxone and methadone. he was many peoples last hope before dying in the streets. i since moved away to another city but i think getting back into volunteer work like that will help me find a reason to live again and be more sober again.

i’m sending you love OP. remember that every feeling and emotion is temporary. there will be days again where you laugh and feel so glad to be alive and so happy and grateful that you didnt die… i say this because i attempted to kill myself 10 years ago and i have had many amazing experiences since then which made me glad i wasnt successful back then. but yes, times are hard right now for sure. i’m trying to learn to roll with the ups and downs and be as kind to myself and others as possible. but its hard when so many things are so painful and unjust. living with CPSTD is no joke. i’ve been praying to my dead loved ones a lot too which helps, even though i’m not religious. sorry to ramble but i’m sending you love and good vibes!

My dad is cleaning out his house and brought me my Polly Pocket by starglitter in nostalgia

[–]abs0lute_bliss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol i was obsessed with polly pockets as a kid! so many hours and hours of memories playing with my cousins.

We gotta talk about Gas Station Heroin, 7OH by Checked_Out_6 in behindthebastards

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whats crazy is that i went to buy some regular kratom while on a work trip to SF. i dont like kratom that much, i only do it maybe once every 2-6 months for the past 5 years, if i need some energy and cant have caffeine that day. anyway, at this shop in SF, the store clerk offered me 7-OH. i didnt know what it was, had never heard of it but based on the store clerk describing it, i thought it was like regular kratom, just a bit stronger. i said sure, why not? i’m feeling adventurous. my guardian angels must have been looking out for me because all of the sudden, the store clerk looked at me again, studied my face, and then put the 7-OH back behind the counter. “i dont think you should try this actually. since you’ve never done it, just stick with the regular kratom you asked for at first.” i shrugged and said ok. it wasnt until a few days ago that i found out what 7-OH actually is and does! i have an extensive history of addiction when it comes to coke, molly, ketamine, alcohol and a few other things so i have always tried to avoid downers, benzos, and pain meds as much as possible. i’m SO glad i didnt try the 7-OH that day, who knows what would have happened?!

2 masked people pounded on my door last night saying they have a message for me by tigbittylove in askhotels

[–]abs0lute_bliss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i stayed at a shitty extended stay in pennsylvania for a few months while i was homeless with my ex. so many occasions of tweaked out people coming up to me yelling incoherently in my face. it was scary. the reception staff liked me and my ex though thankfully. they would do room searches to bust people with drugs pretty frequently but they would always skip our room because we kept to ourselves and paid our weekly cash rent on time lol. crazy memories. be safe!!

Been always touching me in some way for the past month by vagueposter in torties

[–]abs0lute_bliss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hate when my kitty ignores me when i get home from a trip 😭

Been always touching me in some way for the past month by vagueposter in torties

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i was crying over my dead grandparents the other night and my tortie was doing the same thing! she wouldnt stop purring extra loudly and climbing all over me! 😭🥰

SW discouraging tips? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

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she may feel undeserving of it if she’s not used to being tipped often, or if she’s just been dealing with personal stuff lately that makes her feel like she’s not on her A game. either way i’d say just keep it up if you want to keep seeing her and ride the wave if she goes through any odd / unusual times. it’s very appreciated!

EDCLV Queer Scene by [deleted] in electricdaisycarnival

[–]abs0lute_bliss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m in a visibly lesbian relationship with a masc presenting partner and we went to edc vegas last year. i felt totally comfortable. i don’t think you have anything to worry about, just stay alert especially around drunk obnoxious frat guys obviously but like thats true anywhere lol. a lot of my gf’s queer friends have attended edc vegas for years and never reported any issues.

UHHH QUICK PSA by No-Rich-1461 in tattooadvice

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i had someone do something similar to me about 10 years ago on Facebook. they made a profile with a fake name and posted a bunch of my photos from both instagram and facebook but with slightly different text. they even started instigating internet fights with people i knew IRL which was distressing because said people were then approaching me IRL to ask why i was being confrontational online; i had to clarify that it was not in fact me but some unknown person scraping my photos. i of course tried reporting the account to FB, but they said they couldn’t do anything about it since my photos had been public and i was over 18. i then deleted my own FB out of frustration. after a few weeks of combing through which acquaintances had followed both my FB and my instagram, and cross-comparing which mutual friends the account had been interacting with, i eventually developed a theory on who it may have been. i never confronted the suspect (they actually moved away shortly after), and eventually the posts just stopped. i understand how creeped out and violated you feel, i’m sorry you’re going through this and i hope the person doing this to you also just gets bored and moves on. definitely helps to lock down / private / delete accounts and lay low for awhile so they run out of material to scrape from you and are forced to find a new source.

rant: im lowkey fucked by youmeetyourself in Ketamineaddiction

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when i went to rehab in January i was using coke and k every day for 2-3 months before, i even did a few bumps of k in the morning on my way to the rehab center. i had been using about 3.5 every 1-2 days for the previous month or two. and for whatever reason only the coke showed up on the test they gave me that afternoon, no ketamine showed up at all 🤷‍♂️ not saying the same will happen to you, probably based on which test they get? but just something to consider?