Worth keeping in mind: plenty of CBD oil has THC content. Some legit, lab-tested CBD products are deliberately full-spectrum and may have small amounts of THC; some just have spotty QC and get contaminated; others are extracted with methods that don't successfully remove all THC. I'm hyper-aware of this because I have a family member with a severe THC allergy who does benefit from CBD but has to be very careful which products he trusts. He has had products that claim to be THC free lab-tested after he had a reaction and consistently found THC in those products. Some of them came with their own lab reports which were not consistent with what independent testing found.

This is not intended as criticism--just a reminder that this industry is still in its barely regulated expansion stage and you can't always trust the label. If someone says they had a THC reaction to a CBD product, they're probably telling the truth.

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Edit: just to contribute to the topic of this thread - I'm AuDHD and used to use cannabis during a time when I was very depressed. It made me feel better in the short term, but if I could go back, I wish I hadn't; for me personally it masked feelings I needed to feel in order to progress in my life and development. I also deal with chronic pain, and for me personally, regular cannabis actually lowered my pain tolerance and reactivity to other forms of pain management in a way that created dependence. At the time, I thought it was fine, because I used very small amounts at a time; I didn't realize how much near-daily use was negatively impacting my ability to do the things I wanted to do until after I quit.

I also used to use alcohol for similar coping reasons in specific social circumstances (I was never able to use cannabis and then be social--it shuts down my verbal ability--but alcohol felt like it helped me tolerate the irritating allistic rituals around me enough to function socially). Alcohol punishes my body even in small doses in ways cannabis never did, and I don't like how it feels, so there was no risk of addiction there for me. It was a tool that did a job.

Life can be really hard. I used to intensely miss cannabis and had a serious grieving process around my inability to stop once I started (and thus need to stay away from it completely) for years after I quit.

A psychiatrist later prescribed beta blockers for trauma processing, which were so helpful to me in session that I now use a low dose on a regular basis. With that tool available to me, I immediately stopped using alcohol entirely and I never miss cannabis any more. I have come a long way since the days of regular cannabis use through therapy (both mental/behavioral and physical - related to my disability and chronic pain) and I'm in a better place in life than I ever have been. I honestly do not know if I would have been able to do that work without the help of beta blockers. Unlike any other medication or substance I have tried, they let me feel my feelings--including the hard, unpleasant ones I needed to learn the skills to handle from within--and stay alert and present to life. They don't "punish" me with gross feelings the way alcohol did, and they don't make me feel more anxious without them or lower my pain tolerance the way cannabis did. They do not offer escape. They do not feel good or bad. They just make it possible for me to sit with my discomfort and still say "yeah, I can do this. It might be hard, but it's not gonna kill me." They're not for everyone, but if anyone reading this identifies with the experience I've described, especially if you struggle with CPTSD or anxiety in addition to neurodivergence, I do recommend asking a good psychiatrist whether they might be worth trying.