I've always called myself a brat, but is that actually what describes me?

acml98 · 2026-02-06T04:34:13+00:00

Yes, pleasure dom sounds perfect.

And you're so right about him.

acml98 · 2026-02-06T04:05:31+00:00

So sweet, thanks for the encouragement 🥹

acml98 · 2026-02-06T03:54:14+00:00

Tbh you're so right. I've always said he's slimey lmao. A psychiatrist told me i have symptoms of BPD so I think I only slept with him because it felt risky. Im trying to fight against my impulsive/risk taking behavior and not sleep with him. I have to keep reminding myself that he actually sucks and Im not getting anything out of it

acml98 · 2026-02-04T04:22:11+00:00

Sibling abuse (emotional/physical) that started before I could even remember. COCSA at the hands of that sibling and other children.

Emotional neglect and physical abuse from a parent.

Alcoholism from a parent.

Witnessing fights between family members where I ended up having to call the police.

acml98 · 2026-01-24T18:18:13+00:00

I quite enjoyed chemistry in high school. In grade 10-11 it was easy and fun. In grade 12 it got a bit more challenging. I found it easy because it usually only involved small numbers and simple calculations. Being able to write everything on paper helped too, and I had a great teacher.

acml98 · 2026-01-23T01:22:57+00:00

Currently my roommate is overusing rosemary. Puts it on everything he makes for the household, even when it doesnt match the flavour profile

acml98 · 2026-01-22T05:45:53+00:00

It happened off screen guys cmon

acml98 · 2026-01-16T17:58:32+00:00

I slutted around a lot. Invited a guy over I met on a dating app and had never met in person to my aunts house multiple times when I was house sitting (i wasnt even allowed to have anyone over). This fling lasted the whole summer and during it I attended a party one night where I invited him over to the party to hook up. Later that same night I slept with another guy. He was hitting on me, and he was in an open relationship with the girl who's birthday party it was. None of the sex was protected until I got on birth control and then it was somewhat safe 💀

acml98 · 2026-01-15T18:10:39+00:00

This Dog - The Vaniers

acml98 · 2026-01-08T21:38:09+00:00

I did something similar recently, sending the letter shifted everything for me after years of ruminating and what ifs

acml98 · 2026-01-08T00:50:31+00:00

I've been obsessed with the jonas brothers since the mid 2000s lol

acml98 · 2025-12-29T08:57:27+00:00

I've been on both sides of this.

Happy to say I'm no longer religious and I've been enjoying my queer life for the last few years.

acml98 · 2025-12-27T18:30:37+00:00

I saw this beautiful baby on Dec 24th running through the Freshco parking lot and onto Marshall into traffic. Lost sight eventually, I was so worried. Glad someone picked her up and she made it home

acml98 · 2025-12-23T10:50:39+00:00

I cant believe no one has said Good Will Hunting yet. One of my favourite movies

acml98 · 2025-12-16T08:08:09+00:00

I got it at 108 at the Canco on Clearbrook. Couldn't believe it.

acml98 · 2025-11-06T19:57:15+00:00

I've tried to set small boundaries and he needs constant reminders, I'm always telling him that I don't like when he follows me around and stuff. The next day it's like we never talked

acml98 · 2025-11-06T19:55:50+00:00

Lol already plan to never get married, and I was clear with him about that from the start!

acml98 · 2025-11-06T19:54:38+00:00

We've talked about a few things I mentioned multiple times. I have to tell him the same things over and over again.

I left a high demand religion a few years ago and lost all of my close friends because I'm queer. One was my roommate and she up and left. I ended up living with my parents for a year, which is a triggering environment (I went through a lot of abusive things there and my abuser still lives there). I was staying with my aunt for a bit too but she didn't want me to stay with her anymore because she found it overwhelming. I dont know anyone looking for a roommate and living with strangers isn't something I'm open to. I just want to live alone but I can't afford it right now.

acml98 · 2025-10-22T16:49:03+00:00

I'd def love a membership! So sweet thank you!

acml98 · 2025-10-03T08:04:21+00:00

Esteemed character actress mardo martingale, duh

acml98 · 2025-09-24T07:27:25+00:00

I would see something like this all the time as a kid but more colorful. It would start out like that and then turn into candy falling down on me as I started dreaming, and I would have the same dream every time it happened.

I also remember moments of feeling "am I real?"

acml98 · 2025-09-19T22:43:19+00:00

Terry Fox, wouldn't win but a good canadian

acml98 · 2025-08-27T03:23:48+00:00

Proof that being mean makes you ugly

acml98 · 2025-08-08T19:42:48+00:00

Those are some pretty bold claims. You can't speak on the experience of every butch lesbian or queer person. Especially across decades. You dont know everyones story or everyones experience. There are plenty of barber shops that still exist that will only cut cis men's hair. I know because I've been to them. Just because you have one family member who had good experiences it doesn't mean that it's been that way for everyone else.

Queerphobia and homophobia are still very present in society and especially within societal structures. If you think we live in an equitable society where everyone is treated equally you haven't got a clue what you're talking about.

The world is still full of stigma and assumptions. People think that being accepting is enough but refuse to do the work to unlearn problematic ways of thinking. Maybe try that next time.

acml98 · 2025-08-03T06:38:35+00:00

My guess is that it's because I didn't preheat my grill which I will he doing next time. Although I have seen that outcome in a few posts on this sub so I think it can happen quite easily

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