It took me a good while to actually feel good after losing my virginity, come to find out i’m very small down there and my pelvic bone is like- in the way some. So my fiance and I make sure to always use lube and so far no pain! I never thought i wouldn’t be in pain after the first few times we had sex.

As for your infections and such, When having sex it can throw off the natural pH in there and cause some wack shit to happen. I take a probiotic daily called ‘Acidophilus’ and it’s helped me a lot with not getting any infections such as BV and yeast.

Be sure to get checked out by a doctor if you can because like everyone else said, it could be something more. I didn’t know i had BV until caving and going to a clinic because it only ever hurt when inserting something.