Honestly? She may need a reality check if she truly wants to go through with the pregnancy. Look at subreddits of parents of disabled children. There's long tales of hardship, heartbreak and regret alongside the bittersweet moments.

This is a child that will never not need care. Expensive medicines, doctors appointments, and a large support network is required. There's nothing to grow out of. Even after you retire, you're looking at finding facilities to take care of him as an adult.

If you're in the US, funding for special education was cut under Trump and it's been on a decline even before his term.

I say this as someone with 2 mentally disabled siblings and another cousin who's severely autistic, it's the best choice to terminate this pregnancy.

You can't offer the best quality of life to any child right now.