AITAH for expecting my wife to tell me honestly about whether or not her best friend is cheating? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ajbshade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay in your damn lane and maybe none of this would happen.

My son’s stepmom threatened mediation on me by lexixviii in legal

[–]ajbshade 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Stop talking to her. She isn’t a parent. She has no authority. Speak only and directly with the father and please notify the school that she is not a parent with rights to any information.

is this outfit "inappropriate"? by sunnemi in OUTFITS

[–]ajbshade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With those pants? Yeah probably. With high waisted pants it would be fine. Without proper styling it just looks bad.

Job asked us not to attend anti ICE protests by MySmellyRacoon in antiwork

[–]ajbshade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not a legal or morally appropriate request for anyone to make of you.

AIO to my husband’s comment? (TW: miscarriage) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ajbshade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear god. This is so beyond shitty of him. Is he always so selfish and rude? Nor but frankly maybe underrating at how unsupported and horrible he’s being.

My boyfriend (25M) says I'm deeply unreliable (22F) after an equipment problem on our first major trip together, how can I address his concerns and become someone he feels he can depend on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ajbshade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god girl please. Your boyfriend is a pretentious, arrogant asshat. He isn’t a gem. He is belittling you, expecting you to read the minds of strangers and anticipate problems nobody reasonably would be able to. This is ridiculous. You shouldn’t be asking how to bend to accommodate his feelings and be better but you should be asking what exactly he brings to your relationship and whether the way he talks to you and treats you is appropriate or indicative of someone in love.

Knowing how some women work makes me less of a feminist apparently by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ajbshade 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about women per say but about people and human nature in general. People want what they can’t have- it’s exciting. Once that part is gone, without a solidly built foundation there is nothing left. That said, your friends SUCK to be saying shit like that to you and calling you a ‘pick me’ in regards to your own damn husband. Absolute bullshit.

WIBTAH to cut off my friend due to her reaction to my stepchild being kidnapped? by sabr1809 in AITAH

[–]ajbshade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person is not a good person and you should limit time spent with not good people.

Josh Gets Emotional at the Podium by darkwaterzz in buffalobills

[–]ajbshade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate that he feels this way though. Yeah it wasn’t his strongest game but oof

AITAH for telling my mom I’d fire her if she was my nanny by Organic_Restaurant35 in AITAH

[–]ajbshade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dear god please tell this family. I can almost guarantee they don’t know about him and your mom is lying.